We've never been apart that long. We've been married for 2 years and the longest we've been apart was 2 days. When he left we were both in tears and I already miss him so much. I know that there are alot of women out there whose hubby's are gone constantly. What are some things you do to make the time go by and have fun? We moved far away so there's not any family and I haven't made any friends yet, so it's not like I can hang out with anyone. What's some good "me" time things?
2007-05-06 11:55:46 · 24 answers · asked by akamoonpie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go out to a local restaurant and try to make friends or visit your neighbor(s) and introduce yourself. Get your mind away from him and yourself from the house. It gets lonely. Jog, do some gardening, paint, cook, whatever you can. See a movie or if you live in a city go see a musical or play. Some good "me time" things are going to a spa, getting your hair done, shopping, reading or doing some activity you like. There's nothing wrong with "taking care of yourself" either. So do what you need to do. Good luck, it'll be over soon.
2007-05-06 12:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by newy0rkbabygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some things that you always wanted to do but couldnt. Be it reading a book to knitting. Go and work out at a gym or run in the park.
When I was away from my man we talked every night on the phone which helped also.
Plan a nice reunion when he comes home. Rose peteals all over the place with candles. You in something sexy. Also have his favorite dinner for himm too. That will help pass the time planning all of this.
2007-05-06 12:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, I think it's great that you love your hubby so much! Maybe take the time to do some extra house cleaning and make plans for a special dinner upon his return. Call the Rec Centre and find out about actiivities that are happening during the week that you might be interested in. Go to the library and get a really good book!
2007-05-06 12:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon H 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well I have never been apart from my hubby more than when we go to work or when I go to my parents house to stay with my mom when my dad is on a business trip for his business. I think that you should do what I do when he has to work late or at home locked up in his study hiding from his God daughter. She loves him very much and loves being around him plus she is six and of course very inquisitive about everything. I play games with her on the computer or by myself. It is a really nice relaxing thing.
But in your place I would join a gym and make some friends as well i would take those days to do some time consuming house things because as you said you just moved so I would be redecorating things. I would ensure that when he comes back home to me I am really groomed and looking damn good.
2007-05-06 12:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can so relate to your problem. My hubby and I just moved from AL to PA and I don't really know anyone and I don't know my way around very well yet. My hubby works for the railroad and is always gone. I am looking for a job right now to help pass some of the time. Other things I like to do is answer questions on Yahoo! answers. It is so addictive. I feel like I have to get on here everyday and answer my limit for the day. I don't know what I will do when I get to the levels where you can answer unlimited questions. I also like to decorate our new home. I like to scapbook. Watch movies I haven't seen in years. Cook. I love to get a long hot candlelit bath and do all my shaving and pampering, so I am ready for him when he comes home. Paint my nails. Read. I like to keep busy so I don't think about him constantly. The time passes by faster that way too. Hope some of these will help. I feel your pain. Good luck and I hope the time goes by quick for you. :)
2007-05-06 12:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I remember how I used to be so upset over my husband being gone for the weekend in the army reserves, then it was terrible he had to leave 2 months for AIT. After that, he went active duty and left directly for Iraq for a year, now he just got orders for his 2nd tour which will most likely be 15 months. We have 2 daughters together. It is never easy, but you do survive it and it helps you to really appreciate the time you are together.
2007-05-06 12:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I got married on March 17, 2006, and my husband left for Iraq on April 1, 2006. He was home for 2 weeks in September and won't be home for good until August 2, 2007. Find a hobby. Scrapbook. When you find your hobby, look in the local paper or ask around about a group that gets together with the same hobby. Or go out and make friends. Does your husband work with men that are married? Maybe you all can have a dinner and invite couples. That way when they have business trips, you will have something in common with the other wives. Get creative. It will work out for you! You can always e-mail me! Bugnjjsmom@yahoo.com!
2007-05-06 12:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by Nubian Princess 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Get your hair done a new way. While you are there, ask the gal what's a good park to visit. Then, go visit a nursing home, or an assisted living house, or a pedatric hospital. There are tons of people who would simple love to have a visitor. Sign up for volunteer work and continue while your hubby is gone. OR, join an all girl gym, it is wonderful!
Wishing you much happiness.
Laura
2007-05-06 12:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by laura_va_2002 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dear Wife, Honey, the world is full of great things. Volunteer with people who are lonely, such as nursing home visits and so forth. Read great books. Learn a craft. Listen to great music. Meditate. Join a church or spiritual group with like minded people. Get in the literacy council and teach people to read. Your public library is your best friend. Go to plays or movies.
Get in groups where you can meet nice ladies to be friends with. Get to know your new community. If you are shy take it a step at a time. People can be wonderful and welcoming. I bet you are a great person. One week-isn't that sweet? You two must be just precious.
Go for it kido!
2007-05-06 12:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by luckylily72000 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 22:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋