My husband doesn't satisfy me sexually, what can I do?

Answer 1

You have to tell him what you need and what you want. Most men like to have a woman tell them what they need during sex. Also, there is things you can do during sex with him to help yourself. If you have done all these things already and talked to him nicely about whats going on then maybe hes just not into you anymore. Are you nagging him, not talking care of yourself or making him feel bad about himself?

Answer 2

Okay. Sex is just like any other skill. You have to practice. First... are you comfortable with yourself? How well do you know your likes and dislikes... what turns you on? When he isn't around and you have time to yourself get to know what kind of touch gets you excited. And teach him how to touch you. Also don't be afraid to stimulate your clit yourself during sex. Believe me it can make a huge difference. And chances are your5 husband will get more pleasure also. Get a vibrator. But don't make it the main course and don't use it every time. Doing so can actually desensitize you to his touch if used too often. And my last suggestion is anal beads. Go down on him and have him slowly insert them. By the time he is good and ready... climb on top and when you start getting close pull the beads out one at a time. Magic.

Answer 3

Oh honey, I think I've had like 10 orgasms since we've married! It's not a big deal to me! We've been married over three years. Instead of sex being satisfying in that aspect, sex is more of a bonding and intimate time together. It's a need for both of us, more so him. I do it because it's my duty as his wife to fullfill his sexual desires. I'm ok with it, and I'm ok with it if he gets satisfaction and I do not. You put his needs ahead of yours. I do and it's wonderful, and he does more than enough for me and I appreciate everything he does for me.

Answer 4

Three choices: Leave, deal, or work on it. Obviously working on it is the best option! As for toys, they only avoid the problem. You want and need your husband to satisfy you. You are going to have to find ways to inspire him, or train him. If he loves you, he'll be willing to do what it takes as best he can!

Answer 5

First you should talk to him about the problem. Be honest, but don't be too harsh. Tell him and show him what you like and then that way he will know. Practice it with him, and I am sure in due time things you will be satisfied!

Answer 6

DEAR, Just be totally upfront and honest ! Maybe he is not satisfied also.You are now one flesh so work on it together. Talk openly and tell him what to do to ring your bell !

Answer 7

talk to him be honest find the right moment let him know how you feel about that some man take it wrong because the act like macho, but depends if happens before or just now that you feel that

Answer 8

humm.....need more details but at any rate try to look beyong that point. stimulation comes early in the day not late at night. send me an e'mail to chat [e-mail] hope that everything work out ....oh you can seek counsel humm talk to him about it. we like to hear wha turn ons and offs you chicks have , chaos

Answer 9

First thing is to tell him what you need in order to be satisified. when you have that established you will need to show him how to do it. Thats the fun part of marriage.

Answer 10

Talk to him about what you want. Tell him what to do, how to do it, where to put his hands on you. Tell him. I'm sure he would be willing to please you and satisfy you.