Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2006

say today not every man want to get married, neither financially ready for marriage. and this rich married man asked for your hand and will provide you with security, will you take him?

2006-11-22 05:25:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her husband moved out a year ago and wants to come home. My husband and I know that he was dating another woman in the meantime. He has told my friend (his wife)that he wasn't involved with someone else while gone. I know her as well. I saw them out together last week and she says that they are just friends, nothing is going on. Maybe not now, but it was. Another steof mutaual frineds had them over together several times (No, they are not friends with the wife.)What would you do?

2006-11-22 05:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you like to hear complements from your husband even if he was lieying to you (just to make you feel good)?

2006-11-22 05:20:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 05:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by bignerd 1

Ok, it's humor, have fun with it.

Or, examine this irony that many women believe their husbands are wrong about everything, and what that implies about them.

Please enjoy.

2006-11-22 05:11:53 · 16 answers · asked by camys_daddy 5

Two months ago he fell sick .He came to my step sister's clinic (which is like 2 states away from where we live) for some tests and I found out he's HIV positive .My best friend's been wanting a baby since she lost her only child to cancer. She's told me she's going to try and get her groove on cos she hasn't had sex in 7 months with her husband.
I convinced my friend to come for some lab tests with me because I was scared.To 'help ' me cope with the needles, she also asked for the same test.We both came out HIV negative.
I don't know what to do, if he infects her I'll never live with myself.HELP PLEASE

2006-11-22 05:11:15 · 33 answers · asked by Bridgybee 1

2006-11-22 05:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by Wattys 1

2006-11-22 05:05:57 · 10 answers · asked by K S 1

I don't know what people get out of them if they're never actually going to have sex with the person. Just a lot of masturbation? I was in one, but found it to be incredibly frustrating for the most part. The guy really seemed to enjoy it, and I don't understand why.

2006-11-22 05:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by charleston chew 2

in all openness, the truth of what one feels?

So many marriages end as two people realize they don’t know each other or wish they didn’t. Is this because people, once married, don’t want to hurt their partner’s feelings and so do not reveal the truth at all times and often use little white lies to circumvent a possible confrontation, and in so doing with the intent to keep the marriage going, undermine communication, honesty, trust, and the oneness connection, and so damage the marriage beyond repair, but having good intentions the whole time?

2006-11-22 05:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-11-22 05:02:39 · 31 answers · asked by Lydia K 4

I am a newly wed bride married this year I am 43 and I have had my tubes tired and my hubby has had a vasectomy My tubes were tired 12 years ago I don't know how long ago he had hes tired I think 16 years ok any way my last period was first week of Oct and this morning I throw up and I still feel sick and not hungry at all!!! is it possible for me to be pg???? I should be a grandma not a mother again Oh boy help any advice!!!

2006-11-22 05:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by mel416 3

I met this guy last week from out of town. He approached me and my friend at the bar and we talked for hours. He asked me to dinner the next night and we went out the last few days he was here. He was supposed to leave Saturday but extended his stay until Monday. We went out the entire time. he said that he wants to still go out and that he could fly in to see me or I could fly out and see him sometime. He left Monday and since he's been gone he has only sent me two text messages which were brief that said hey there. and the other just replied to something I said. He hasn't called me just texted. I texted him today and he didn't respond. What is up with that? he persued me now he has just disappeared? Was he just using me for company while he was in town? Please help me figure this out.

2006-11-22 04:59:17 · 30 answers · asked by Venus 3

Married for 15 years. Have three children. Husband hates me. He's an alcoholic. Everything I say or do is wrong according to him and he won't leave because of money. Bending over backwards to try to weather this out. Not fighting with him anymore, just not speaking. It's like talking to a wall anyway.

2006-11-22 04:52:13 · 17 answers · asked by Brenda M 2

I've have a male friend for about 2 yrs. He comes over my husband and my house every week. He got married about 3 mos. ago to a woman who he has lived with 13 yrs. and they have a 12 yr. old child. He said that he only married her for the child, he didn't tell me he got married, another friend did. He said that he forgot. He has said that he's not in love with her, they have nothing in common, and he doesn't trust her because she cheated on him about 2 yrs ago. Last weekend, I accused him of telling another friend some of my business, he came to me about 4-5 times trying to find out why I was upset. When I told him, he got upset to think I thought he had told someone our conversation. He looked so hurt in his eyes. He doesn't call me much like I would like for him to. I have feelings for him, but I've been married for 18 yrs. and never been unfaithful. My friend doesn't express any emotional feelings, how do I know if he feels the same about me?

2006-11-22 04:46:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother's wife has a friend that is a boy and he is always going to the movies or going shopping with her and going to her house while my brother was in Iraq and when he is working (he is a State Trooper) and we through a party for my borther and her friend came and they were like feeling each other and crap and I totally was about too flip out!! So me and my bff stayed outside most of the time:( I hate her soo much i know she is cheating on him:( Ever chance I get i say rude comments to him ad stuff!!!! What do i do?????

2006-11-22 04:46:25 · 20 answers · asked by Alli 1

This is going to be the first time I have a full time job and 4 year old child at the same time. My husband has 2 jobs. And Im getting a job now. Im going to have to commute to work and drop off my daughter at day care and still have family time how does this work. How do people do it with out running them self into the ground.

2006-11-22 04:39:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have a great, loving relationship.
Sex life is "so-so".
My husband will only give ME oral sex....after we have had intercourse. That is the ONLY time he will.
I've never had a guy do that - let alone do it just about every time we are intimate!
My husband was involved with a married woman before he met me - and I guess he gave her oral often after she and the gals husband had sex.
Is this just a fetish?
Do other guys do this?
Any other gals have a husband/boyfriend that does this?
I would think that would be the last thing a guy would want to do after intercourse.

2006-11-22 04:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by plain_jean 1

2006-11-22 04:36:48 · 25 answers · asked by John P 3

i have been married almost 5 years, living together for seven years, and together for 10 years total. no children, but a 80 lb golden retriever whom we acquired together when the dog was a puppy. my husband has an engineering undergrad degree and a MBA from a prestigious university. he earns 6 figures plus annually. i have been in grad school throughout most of our marriage and only working part time. he has paid the majority of expenses over the years. we have no debt and about $200K in assets (mutual funds, IRA, stocks, etc). we own no real estate. we live in nj, a community property state. if we divorce, will i be entitled to half of our assets. we have no prenup. i am a designer and make considerably less than he does. in addition, he did not attempt to have sex with me for one entire year, from jan 2005-jan 2006. please advise. thanks.

2006-11-22 04:36:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 04:33:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband left me eight months ago. He said that it was because he was unhappy and we weren't getting along. I found out later that he had met someone else. He didn't live with her but he saw her. They stopped seeing one another a month ago (How do I know this? Mutual friends VOLUNTEER information. This is how I also know that he called it off ( not that it makes a difference, anyway.) Always remember, adulterers: Your spouse doesn't even have to ask. It gets out.)

He now says that he was having a midlife crisis ( He turned 41 last month), that he is truly sorry, that he loves me and that he wants to get back together and be a family again. We have three young kids.

Am I being a fool to even consider it?

I was surprised by the whole thing. Up to then, he had been a good husband.

2006-11-22 04:25:48 · 20 answers · asked by pamela g 1

I am pregnant by a married man. He lied and said that he was divorced. He told his wife and she has forgiven him. According to her, this is the fourth time in three years that he cheated. She has forgiven him each time. They have two children together. This is his tenth child! His income is about $60,000. Her income is about $80,000. I only make $30,000. Because he has so many children I'm doubtful if I will receive enough assistance to care for a child. Can her income be considered in the amount of child support I am awarded. I know that they do not have any accounts together because of his previous child support cases. Can someone please answer my questions???

2006-11-22 04:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by ms. kutie 1

2006-11-22 04:21:59 · 31 answers · asked by joencrystal 3

I have a male friend who I've been friends with for about 2 yrs. He is also friends with my husband. He comes over our house every week. Last weekend, I accused him of telling some of my business to some other friend. I acted like I was mad at him, and I came to me about 4-5 times to find out what was wrong. I told him, and I was wrong. He got upset, and told me that he would never do that. I told him I was sorry, and he said that it was ok, just make sure that I come to him from now on. The next day, I bought him a cd and he said that he didn't want it, that he really didn't even like the artist. I had called him, and after about 10-15 min., he had to go because his wife had beeped in. He has not called since.

2006-11-22 04:19:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was watching this show were the interveiw people in a cab. this couple come in and the girl is just smokin hot. well as it turns out, the girl use to be a guy who underwent a sex change. how would you feel if you were bangin one of the hottest chicks on the planet only to find that she was a former guy????

2006-11-22 04:16:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm losing my wife. We've been fighting for over a year concerning another man. She took a vacation last year to huatulco with him during christmas and new years. and she won't stop talking to him. she started stripping again in Mexico. I know not all strippers are prostitutes. My wife was, I know, I was a client. Stupid me for marrying her. I was in a real low part of my life when I met her. I just got divorced from my first wife. I was a cop and walked in on accident to find my first wife ******* on my living room couch. that's when i lost my own children. she moved so faraway i don't see them. when i did try and have a visit, it went so bad. i think they hate me. spent a year in my home looking at my 40 cal bereta. Started to go to strip clubs just to have someone to talk to. that's where I met my current wife. I've fallen in love with my to step daughters. they call me papi. but let's face it. no more wife. no more step kids. i have no friends. gun,rope, or pills?

2006-11-22 04:16:38 · 14 answers · asked by pillsropegun 1

do i have to spend with this partner 24 hours a day, face to face ? do i have to have sex everyday?!
i can't have a break?

2006-11-22 04:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

His condo is right next to mine and we had been running into each other for the last 4 weeks and making small talk.Im single and he is going thru a divorce.We have alot in common including our interest in movies but i saw him alot with anouther women so never pursued him.He invited me over one night to see a movie we both wanted to see.We spent half the night just talking then out of the blue he said i really want to kiss u.I was taken back and said u have a gf i have seen u with her.He went on to tell me he was free to date other people and they were just really freinds and it was none of her business if he dated other people. Here it is 4 weeks later and she still does not know about me and yes they are more than just freinds.He will not anwser my calls when she is there and he will not anwser her calls when im over.I feel like i'm just convenient for him and she is the real gf.He takes her to the movies,dinner,shopping i get to sleep over.He he really loves her why does he need me?

2006-11-22 04:12:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were separated for a month or so, she has begged me to let her come home. we have 2 children together. i'm 31 and she is 24. she has promised not to cheat again. how do i trust her and get past the hurt? She has told me that she loves me and wants to be w/me. but that she developed some feelings for the other guy. He is only 20. and worthless. nojob, no license, been in trouble w/the law. recently went to jail. he basically has nothing to offer her. we've been together for 5 yrs, and married for almost 3. we are trying to make it work. we both love each other; but why would she screw somebody behind my back after i've been sooo good to her? i'm paranoid she will do it again. any thoughts?

2006-11-22 04:06:20 · 27 answers · asked by brian 1