I don't know what people get out of them if they're never actually going to have sex with the person. Just a lot of masturbation? I was in one, but found it to be incredibly frustrating for the most part. The guy really seemed to enjoy it, and I don't understand why.
2006-11-22 05:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BTW, when I figured out he was never going to meet me for a real get-together, I got out of it. It wasn't my intention to have a strictly online affair.
2006-11-22 05:06:35 · update #1
I don't know if this matters, but the first time we met, it was in person. I didn't meet him online.
2006-11-22 05:19:57 · update #2
It is frustrating but at the same time exciting. And the best part is that it is safe. I have met a few people online and we exclusively masterbate on cam with each other. But I have also met a few who I had in real life. Why? who knows, but it feels good and is exciting and I enjoy it. Why should I not do it.
2006-11-22 05:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im specific it is going to take a while for the wound to heal. all of us be taught from our blunders, you admitted to what you probably did and pronounced you have been sorry it particularly is powerful. i think of the actuality that she desires to acknowledge the entire information of what got here approximately is well-known, as quickly as she found out it became a believe subject. of course, she desires to acknowledge, however the extra you tell her the extra it is going to disenchanted her. So i'd recommend that beforehand you talk along with her approximately any information... talk approximately something advantageous, possibly instruction manual one yet another on a thank you to pay attention and admire one yet another, so as which you dont finally end up screaming or arguing. Im specific that in case you adore her and she or he loves you, you will get her back. concerns like those require quite some communication. merely my opinion. thank you.
2016-12-17 14:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you can see from your experience that some people actually get something out of the Internet relationships. Some of them even get to a point of meeting and getting married. So, it's too each his or her own.
2006-11-22 05:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
cause its a way to work out some of your fantasies without getting caught, not to mention that you can be as nasty or kinky as you want with the other party. We can blame our need for climax on them as well instead of just saying i felt like jerkin off! Plus we get other stimulation thinking about that other person where it is hard to do that looking at a magazine!!!!
2006-11-22 05:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think people have online affairs is because it's easy to start something when you you think that there is no consequences. Or it could be the thrill of the chase
2006-11-22 05:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by maeseason 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know either. Masturbating to someone whose typing or even talking on the phone is insane. Sort of like trying to kiss you through a pane of glass. waste of time if you ask me....and you did.
2006-11-22 05:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Because they are lonely and bored and desperate. Low-self teem also plays a big role.
Good luck
2006-11-22 05:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
sounds like he just liked the fantasy of it all.
2006-11-22 06:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that on-line "affairs" happen because they are safe.
it's not real cheating, it's all just fantasy.
i'm not condoning the action, just guessing at the reasons.
2006-11-22 05:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
that's really an affair with your computer screen. so is it really an affair? seems weird
2006-11-22 05:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Super G 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋