Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2006

My wife and I are in our VERY EARLY 40's. We met when I was 16 and she was 15. Highschool sweethearts. We've been married for going on 13 years now. How many folks, born in the 60's and went to high school in the late 70's and early 80's, are still with their high school sweetheart? From what I've been told, people like us are a dying breed....

2006-11-22 08:00:22 · 10 answers · asked by BigDaddySteven2006 5

I've posted before, about my husband and our marriage. How do you know when it's time to walk away? He has a history of wondering, at least emotionally. we have children, and am getting to the point that I need to think about my future without him. When do you know when to throw in the towel?

2006-11-22 07:54:49 · 24 answers · asked by sammy s 1

I just gave my partner of 4 years, and the father of my child, the option of getting married next year or him getting another Chelsea season ticket, he's had a season ticket for the past 14 years. He chose the season ticket, what should I do or can I do?!

2006-11-22 07:46:24 · 31 answers · asked by suckaslug 4

We are interested in meeting new ad exciting people. Someone tell me where the adventerous people are?

2006-11-22 07:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by Trice 1

We are interested in meeting new ad exciting people. Someone tell me where the adventerous people are?

2006-11-22 07:43:41 · 2 answers · asked by Trice 1

2006-11-22 07:39:47 · 15 answers · asked by PAUL Z 1

your spouse or bf/gf? If so, please do tell! who is it?

2006-11-22 07:38:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do people cheat when they are supposedly happily married, engaged or living with thier significant other? What is missing in that relationship to cause them to stray?

2006-11-22 07:37:50 · 10 answers · asked by sweetkisz 2

Something fun and not too expensive.

2006-11-22 07:37:49 · 19 answers · asked by Smiles 4

okay so i know this guy who has always cheated on his wife physically and emotionally. They are young but have been together for a long time. Even after they got married he kept cheating. He says he loves his wife a lot. He also says he now feels guilty. Why would he keep cheating even if its only emotional?

2006-11-22 07:33:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

He just doesn't go on and look,he downloads and saves the pictures,he has disks full of them.At first I didn't have a problem with it but now everytime he goes on the internet he goes on these site. We would sit together and watch tv or a movie after we put our kids to bed,now he just gets online and I'm left on the couch by myself.

2006-11-22 07:30:08 · 15 answers · asked by icequeen 2

too much? my brother in law and i complain that we have to go over our inlaws for dinner every sunday night. and in addition we usually spend one other day there like a thursday or something. so we average 2 times a week over there and sometimes 3.

how much would you tolerate? my brother in law actually had plans with his family on a saturday night and his wife actually asked him if they could go over during the day instead because she wanted to go over the inlaws in the evening.

it seems out of control. would you agree to spend this much time with your inlaws?

2006-11-22 07:28:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have become great friends over the past year and my gut tells me that she does not feel the same way I do, but I possibly (or maybe because I just want it to be true) get indications there could be more. I have resolved myself to not confessing my feelings to her. I find it very hard to still be her friend feeling the way I do. Should I just get her out of my life so that I can move on or remain good friends, which worries me that I might just be doing it in hopes of a future relationship.

2006-11-22 07:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by Joe T 1

ok here goes!! my husband and i have are having marital problems. my husband has involved his mother in the problem. she is planning to have thanksgiving at her house and does not want me to attend. she wants my husband there and our kids. im very hurt and do not know what to do!! my husband feels the same way. he feels that if he does not go then they will be upset at him!! what should i do?

2006-11-22 07:21:10 · 16 answers · asked by hurtinginside 1

Im not a jealous person by nature, so when Im taken by the green eyed moster...its really ugly. I think what Im feeling is jealousy or SOMETHING... Im VERY upset that he is letting her cut his hair tho. We bought a hair cut kit for at home so I could cut his hair (did this 2 years ago) and I've cut it every time since then. Well, he wants to get his hair cut before thanksgiving and I wont be home. I could do it tomorrow NIGHT, but not till then. But when his X started cosmetology school 5 months ago, I told him then that it would bother me if she cut his hair, so If I ever couldnt cut his hair, to go somewhere else (NOT HER). So then... he schedules an apt to go there AT HER SALON...and get his hair cut. AND THEN proceeds to tell his X that I dont want her cutting his hair! THAT JUST MAKES ME SO MUCH MORE MAD! Im so MAD I COULD SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Am I wrong..???

2006-11-22 07:19:40 · 55 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6

Hey all,
My husband and i got married in Feb 2005 in India and we came to the US..He is on a H1b visa and I am here on a H4. We are currently living in New York City. I want to file for a divorce as soon as possible due to incompatibilty and growing difference between us. I have the following questions: a) Do we apply for a divorce under the Indian Laws or get a divorce from United States because we live here? b) If I have to get the divorce from India then where can I learn about the procedure and get more information regarding this c) where can I download the forms? D) How long will the whole procedure take? E) Will my husband have to travel to India during the procedure? F) Do we have each have to appoint attorneys to represent us? or can it be done without any?
Thanks
Anonymous

2006-11-22 07:18:09 · 5 answers · asked by jessygal 2

My wife and I have seperated twice. This most recent time she became a stripper as she needed money. She hasn't been doing it that long, but is really good at it and makes lots of money. We both love each other and want to be together. She wants to stop stripping and live a normal family life, but continue stripping until she finds another job. I told her I'm ok with her stripping because I wanted to be with her so badly, but now I don't think I can handle it. I don't think she even realizes how much it hurts me. I just feel that her body should be special for me and not allow every horny guy in town to see her. She says she wants to quit, but I'm afraid that if she does, she'll miss all the attention and money and will go back to it.

2006-11-22 07:09:32 · 28 answers · asked by sickblade 5

Yahoo answers is getting in the way of me doing my job.
I can either quit my job, or quit Yahoo answers.
One pays better, but the other is more interesting.....

2006-11-22 07:07:35 · 16 answers · asked by fucose_man 5

Ladies - would you be angry if you found out that your husband or boyfriend spent a lot of money in a strip club? If he spent a whole lot of money would you suspect he was cheating on you with one of the dancers?

2006-11-22 07:06:42 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says it was never serious just casual, and she has no feelings for him, but still wants to dance with him if they happen to meet at the
dance club she frequents. I have told her this is unnacceptable, but she cannot understand this.

I now have to decide what to do, let it go, or give her an ultimatum.
To me she is still cheating, and she says she is not. It is just dancing, but I know better.

What do I do?

2006-11-22 07:06:24 · 20 answers · asked by axecrap 1

My sister got married one year back. Before marraige her husband didn't tell us lots of thigs regarding his job. he left his job after marriage. he showed interest in study. so my family thought to help him in his education so that he could get good job. we put all our efforts. Now he is studing. but he keeps abusing my sister on phone. He comes at my home and stayes there for 10-15 days. He satyes in his school only for 5-6 days and keeps going home to his mother. My sister is doing job too. she is very much disturbed. My father has aksed him not to come at home and concentrate on his study. Now his mother is calling my sister and abusing her. Very frequently he keeps saying bad words to my sis but when she stopes taking to him he starts sending emails, SMS and promises not to repeat that but it again happenes after 10-15 days. Now we all very much tensed. My parents live with my sis. He has hurt my sis once when she went at his home. What way should my family go?

2006-11-22 07:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 1

My husband says it is just male behavoir to want to look at nude women,but everytime he goes on the computer this is what he looks at. Am I just overracting?

2006-11-22 07:04:13 · 17 answers · asked by icequeen 2

Lately I have been around a lot of brides-to-be and their families and I have been hearing this "living in sin" stuff nonstop. What's the big deal? It seems hypocritical to me to call out other people if they decide to live with their significant other before marriage (or not even get married at all....what a thought!!), especially if the couple isn't living together but still has sex before marriage and looks down on couples who live together because of the assumption that couples who live together have sex out of wedlock. I dont know, sort of rambling but just eager to hear opinions! :)

Oh, another comment that gets me is "Why are they having such a big wedding if their already living together?"........what?! Any thoughts/opinions/beliefs?

2006-11-22 07:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by nooneimportant 2

my relationship was almost destroyed when i found out my husband was staying up late at night to watch internet porn...i found out he'd been doing it for a couple months, and when i confronted him, he denied it. eventually he had to admit it though because there was no getting around it. he says he doesn't know why he did it, but he will NEVER do it again and he doesn't even want to do it again. my question is, is possible for him to not look at porn anymore, or will it eat at him until he does something worse? i really need some opinions please. i'm afraid if he can't stop our relationship will be over.
oh yes, and i've asked him if it's our sex life that caused it, and he says it's not. if anything i should be the one turning to porn because he is very "quick," but i've NEVER made him feel ashamed or even brought it up, so i'm just not sure what to do!

2006-11-22 07:02:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My soon-to-be-ex and I seperated 8 months ago, we both have attorneys, but he and his attorney are dragging their feet. I am not emotionally attached to him any more, and haven't been for quite some time (hence the divorce). I never quite felt the "soul mate" feeling, but tried relentlessly to make it work anyhow. But, I'm starting to become emotionally attached to someone else now...is that wrong?

2006-11-22 07:02:11 · 14 answers · asked by kiigetto 1

What would you do if you're best friend for 9 years didn't trust you for the past 7-8 years?? And you just found out recently, but you didn't want to lose the friendship?? Would that even be considered friends? Should you just end it even though now you are legally part of her family??

2006-11-22 07:01:50 · 4 answers · asked by MARJ213 2

my husbands ex uses their son "tim" like bait to get what she wants and her jealousy over me is making it very hard for me to develop a relationship with tim.i am not allowed to watch tim if my husband can't his ex is to be called to get him.i am not allowed to have any contact with his school or freinds and the list goes on.tim loves spending time with me and i have never talked bad about his mom infront of him or tryed to be his mom.she is just pissed that we do things as a family and that i'm in what she feels is "her"place.my husband will not say anything to her as he says it will not do any good i can't control what she does.i think hes just afraid to confront her as he allways accomudates her and never questions anything she does.i understand my husband wants to stay on good turms with his ex for his sons sake but should she be allowed to treat me this way for no good reason and my husband just turns a blind eye to it?should i just let it go?we fight over this all the time

2006-11-22 06:54:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

married for 13 years got married young him 19 me 21 one child 11 year old boy

2006-11-22 06:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She always gets angry but her facial expression and reaction is priceless. If you haven't tried this yet, you have to try it. The risk is worth the laugh! Ladies, you have to suggest this to your man. You'll learn to love it too!

2006-11-22 06:52:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend was telling me the other day that it's way different when a guy looks at porn, than it is when a girl looks at porn. She said that men imagine having sex with that girl, but she doesn't imagine doing that at all when she watches it. Do you think she's full of it?

2006-11-22 06:47:14 · 28 answers · asked by Jared L 1