why do people cheat when they are supposedly happily married, engaged or living with thier significant other? What is missing in that relationship to cause them to stray?
2006-11-22 07:37:50 · 10 answers · asked by sweetkisz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The number one reason I think is laziness - Let me explain
If person A feels loved with flowers, cards, weekend trips then person B needs to do those things to express their love for person A that way.
If person B feels loved with sex then person A needs to express their love for person B that way.
If person A gets sex and not flowers they will not feel loved.
If person B gets flowers and not sex they will not feel loved.
Just because they are our spouses does not mean they feel loved the same way as us.
Convenience is doing it the way we want it. Love is doing it the way they want it.
2006-11-22 08:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having been cheated on one too many circumstances, i'm unable to condone the habit. The cheater for sure would not even evaluate how this could influence their so observed as "chum". yet indexed right here are the motives i've got the two been given, study, etc. -worry of dedication -Lagging intercourse life -wanting an ego develop -hooked on "chasing the unusual" -organic stupidity (drunken or not) -distinctive techniques on what's seen cheating (IMO grimy/alluding text fabric messages ARE, to a pair men they at the instant are not) -wanting a "lower back-up" in case their relationship falls with the aid of (nevertheless i won't be in a position to recover from how they think of the 1st one will ever artwork out in the event that they're cheating) -real hypersexuality (a psychological sickness) -the relationship having already led to the cheater's thoughts, yet they have not observed with the aid of with definitely ending it
2016-10-12 22:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people truely love the other person if they are off screwing someone else over and over again. Once you go there, it's over. Or at least it should be.
These people aren't happily married either.. I don't care what they say. If one person is cheating, even if their partner never finds out, it's just an act. And it's wrong.
To all the cheaters out there: Grow a backbone! Break up and then find someone new. But you can't have both unless you are having a threesome, get over it!
2006-11-22 07:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rachael M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There might not always be a reason. Sometimes it just happens. Sometimes it is the adventure of something new, or the chance of getting caught that makes everything more exciting.
2006-11-22 09:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
becuz guys are jerks and pervs who don't care well actually they do but not bout u just other hot girls and sex plain and simple and for girls i guess o nly sluty girls cheat and they wanna steal other ppl's bfs or husbands but all men are man-sluts or if they're not then they wanna be plain and simple thts your answer
2006-11-22 17:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with snack dad.
2006-11-22 16:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boredom? Inattention? Something new and exciting?
2006-11-22 07:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boredom, curisoty, new experience...
2006-11-22 07:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTY.
2006-11-22 07:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by FallenAngel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
horney todes
2006-11-22 07:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by sligoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋