Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2006

My sister has been married 2x. It took her 17 years to figure out that her husband wasn't met for her. Now shes in a relationship w/ a married man. He has told her for 2 yrs now that he's getting papers & still hasnt come up w/ them. She wont get couceling & I dont want it to take 17 years to figure this one out. She has 2 wonderful daughters three sisters & a great friend. Her family has told her countless times that we dont like him & we can see right through him. She sticks up for him & tells us what a wonderful man he is & we dont know him. She never wants to talk about it. She keeps setting dates for him to produce papers & the dates keep coming & going. She ends it but gets right back w/ her after a day or two. I would love to know what he's telling her. Oh the clincher is he works at the same place as her & comes in her work area whenever he wants. He was sapose to have the papers for Thanksgiving. She found out this morning that he didnt file papers. How do we help her? Help!

2006-11-22 01:55:26 · 27 answers · asked by Reetz 1

anyone knows any famous and successful love marriages........if yes then plz tell me..........

2006-11-22 01:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by Gaurab N 3

2006-11-22 01:47:46 · 22 answers · asked by Brenda B 1

If you had a husband whose responsibility it was to pay for all your costs, provide you with suitable housing, pay for all your children's expenses, provide you with social recreation as well as treat you kindly, patiently and with justice, would you cooperate with him?


Would you try to make him happy, respect him and forgive him for any wrongs he might do?


Along with that, you would have the right to earn and keep your own money and he wouldn't have the right to tell you how to spend it. You could be a millionaire but he would still have the responsibility to pay for all your needs. Doesn't that sound great?


It happens .. can you believe that ??

" i need to know how many of you believe that !!!! , and i'll tell you my secret at the end....

BR

waiting

2006-11-22 01:47:02 · 12 answers · asked by A knight with a heart & wisdom 2

My husband and I have been married for 3 months and he is in the navy and this is they frist time he deployes. I just want friends to talk to about it..... All my friends here at home dont understand what it is like. I cant do the family support groups because since he left to go overseas i moved back home which is 3 hours away from the base. So i am just looking for other wives that just want to talk.......

2006-11-22 01:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla P 2

i just found out the my husband was cheating on me. i confronted him about it.. and he told me that he made a mistake but that he loves me and that he wants to be with me.. i don't know if i should give him a second chance, we do have 2 kids.. tell me what to do....im a fraid that if i let it go he'll do it again... we have being together for 15 years...

2006-11-22 01:26:54 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3

I have a few important things to tell you, and I don’t know the best way to bring you my message. I am no good at conversations and the mail is too slow, so I am emailing you. I think I will be best understood this way.



I don’t know where to start, but first I want to thank you for the kindness, generosity, and attention you’ve shown me over the past 2 months. This has been a very special time, and I have enjoyed getting to know you and experiencing the pleasure of your company.



It would be selfish of me to pretend that we do not have a few differences. I have been honest with you in answering all questions, but some facts remain unsaid.



Several times over the course of getting to know you, you’ve mentioned in your outlook for the future that one goal you’d like to reach is to get married. For the purpose of total honesty, I cannot continue to refrain from telling you that personally, I currently have no future interest in becoming married and/or living with one

2006-11-22 01:23:08 · 19 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

Im with this guy and we have a 3yr old son. Hes been married in the past , Ive never been married but I want to marry this guy but he wont even talk to me about it. I dont want to feel like im pressuring him. What to do??????

2006-11-22 01:22:41 · 16 answers · asked by little_gizmo2004 2

I have been with my now husband for 6 years. We just got married 1 month ago, well..he has never really been very affectionate towards me. The last time we kissed was our wedding. We've never held hands... nothing like that, especially in public. Yeah at first, it bothered me, but then i learned to accept that maybe he just isnt "cuddle type" but then today i found his old photo album and he was with this girl that he met 8 years ago in flordia (one of those vacation flings) anyways, in all the pics, he was so affectionate with her, kissing her all sweet, just being the way ive always wanted him to be with me. so i told him about it and he just said i was being too emotional and stupid. What do you think? I'm his WIFE shouldnt he be like that with me?? not a fling?? how else should i express the way i feel?

2006-11-22 01:21:29 · 8 answers · asked by yahoocraze 3

this is just out of curiosity. How many of you would cheat on your spouse if there was absolutely no way for them to find out? I mean it was foolproof, you were guaranteed the wouldnt find out? and for the record, i wouldnt.

2006-11-22 01:19:29 · 36 answers · asked by yensenm 3

I have suspected for a while but as of today I'm 100% certain he's cheating on my mum. The fact that we're going through a horrible time individually in the family, my brother having cancer in his 30s, my sister going through a painful divorce and myself having recently been sacked makes his actions feel all the more treacherous. I fear a face to face confrontation because it might give him the chance to choose to move on with his "other" life, something that I feel, under the circumstances, he doesn't really deserve. Am I being selfish? Telling the rest of the family feels like adding more to their current misery. I want that other woman to leave him alone and my dad to come to his senses. What should I do?

2006-11-22 01:15:57 · 24 answers · asked by A_lega 1

I have a serious problem with my husband looking at porn. I do not think it's okay to fantasize about doing things with other women. I don't do it about other men! I have even left the house for 3 or 4 days and stayed in a hotel b/c I caught him looking at it on our computer. He used to even download it on his cell phone. I've told him I have an issue w/it, but I think b/c he sees it as innocent he will go behind my back and do it. It's to the point where I have spy mechanisms set up on our computer! I haven't caught him in a long time, but am I normal to feel this way, and is ihe looking at it b/c there's something wrong w/me?

2006-11-22 01:14:26 · 31 answers · asked by ashley b 2

would ano one notice I was gone?
Have I helped anyone?
( just a curiosity thing)

2006-11-22 01:11:22 · 7 answers · asked by hummingbird 5

2006-11-22 01:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by angelasmall32 1

2006-11-22 01:05:54 · 15 answers · asked by Amy L 3

I did not love this person, I'm not sittng here pining for him I just can't get over the cruelty. I broke up with a liar/cheater, everything was fine for a year then he told me he had changed, didn't believe him but liked him anyways. Told me he didn't have a girl, started seeing him again, stopped calling me, saw him in public he said yup that was fun but I have a girlfriend. He cheated on her with me I tried to tell her but she wouldn't listen, she punctured two of my tires. Now she's five months pregnant and they're living a happy life because she is the one for him. Why did he bother coming back at all, I know the answer. Angry at myself, disgusted by him, feel sorry for her. It's been almost a year and I still can't sleep some nights, resentment burning me up. I know I put myself here but I'm getting tired of this hate, counselling didn't make it better. I just feel like there is some sort of wrong and I wont rest till I right it. Any thoughts besides get over it?

2006-11-22 01:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by Nurse Angel 2

Ok..here it goes I work at night, lots of weekends and holidays. Now a new tradition has crept into our life called thirsty thursday.....her girlfriend and husband come over to my house and have cocktails weather I'm here or not.......she goes out almost every friday nite when I'm working......but we never go out on nites I'm off weather it's friday or saturday.......does anybody see a problem here or am I being selfish.....I haven't said anything and it's been going on for about 3-4 months.

2006-11-22 00:57:52 · 23 answers · asked by Monte T 6

If a Blind’s Wife runs away with DEAF and a DUMP see them. How DUMP will tell this Incidence to the BLIND?

2006-11-22 00:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you deal with a spouse who 1.) Has a shopping addiction 2.) Won't admit it 3.) Won't go to cousiling about their problem....

When I tried to talk to her about it she became extremely angry and said Im just trying to controll her.... It has become a monthly occurance for her to drain and overdraw our bank accounts from shopping. We spent a year sacraficing to pay down her 8k in credt card debt so we could buy a house, only for her to turn around and amass 12k of of new credit card debt in less than 5 months! Im at my wits end... she won't get help. What should I do? Is it time to start thinking about moving on?

2006-11-22 00:56:24 · 4 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2

It seems that most men who beat their wives usually would back down when a man of their size stands up to them. Are most of these men cowards who simply beat on those they can, but not on those who are equal to them?

2006-11-22 00:47:41 · 27 answers · asked by Enterrador 4

I give my husband head all the time, sometimes I can't get him to ***. He'll go into the bathroom and shut the door and get off w/ a porn mag. I talked 2 him about it last nite, is there something wrong with me or what? He says that he thinks I'll feel pressured to finish the job so he does it himself. HELP!

2006-11-22 00:41:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 00:37:18 · 3 answers · asked by Jackie M 1

2006-11-22 00:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by new c 1

My husband work like a dog.I know that he will make it some day.But is it worth it to neglect the family to strive?I'm trying to understand but sometimes i feel left out.He left me on the street cos he need to welcome his client at the airport,he don't have lunch or dinner with me and the kids,i went to his friend wedding on behalf of him,he rushes all the time.I'm tired and bored.

2006-11-22 00:21:46 · 17 answers · asked by ike mie 3

2006-11-22 00:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by G-Man 3

2006-11-22 00:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by ****MIRO**** 2

How can I forget the past? The pain still in me deep inside. His affair with a young lady , he doesn't even told me he's sorry about it? Just a surprised that he went home ? What does he mean?

2006-11-22 00:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by cutie 1