If you had a husband whose responsibility it was to pay for all your costs, provide you with suitable housing, pay for all your children's expenses, provide you with social recreation as well as treat you kindly, patiently and with justice, would you cooperate with him?
Would you try to make him happy, respect him and forgive him for any wrongs he might do?
Along with that, you would have the right to earn and keep your own money and he wouldn't have the right to tell you how to spend it. You could be a millionaire but he would still have the responsibility to pay for all your needs. Doesn't that sound great?
It happens .. can you believe that ??
" i need to know how many of you believe that !!!! , and i'll tell you my secret at the end....
BR
waiting
2006-11-22 01:47:02 · 12 answers · asked by A knight with a heart & wisdom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I mean no cheatings and no such unforgivable things.
and it is not also a fairy tale ....
love exist but respect is the key even love is lost..
2006-11-22 06:35:47 · update #1
that does sound great. but i dont know about forgiving all or any wrongs. cheating and a few others arent forgivable to me.
2006-11-22 01:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds too good to be true. And as for forgiving everything, well some things are just not forgivable. Cheating for example. Most women today are looking for someone who will help support them in every way and also allow them to be independent at the same time. Would you forgive your partner anything even if they did everything else right?
2006-11-22 09:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by jenkins_nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are men out there like that, my husband is one of them. But I think relationships are supposed to be equal. If the man is giving so much, the woman's got to give a little too. Small things like treat him with respect for making all the money to pay bills and buy me clothes. Give him sex whenever he wants, I think that's only fair. And of course, make him dinner.
2006-11-22 11:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cooperate with what? Sounds a little suspect I must say. Sexual deviant? Gay? Just plain weird?? I didn't hear love mentioned here anywhere. kindly, patiently and with justice?? No love??
I think I would rather be poor as the day is long and have love in my life instead.
2006-11-22 09:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by his temptress 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I stopped believing in Santa Claus and fairy tales along time ago. I tried in my marriage for 38 years. All I got was good intentions and a lot of lies.
2006-11-22 16:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex husband. He did basically everything you listed but in return I was not allowed to leave the house unless he knew where I was going, who I was with, and I had to be home at a certain time. He would come home at all hours of the night, he had women calling and sending naked photos to his cell phone. And to top it all of he was verbally and physically abusive. He is now my EX husband. For me it just wasn't worth it.
2006-11-22 09:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm the man pays for everything and can do WHATEVER he wants and the woman cant/wont do a damn thing about it....Yes I do believe there are some dumb asss women who would fall for such bullsh*t BUT NOT ME!!!!
2006-11-22 09:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it does exist, but I wouldn't want to be in such a predicament. That's what I see it as.
2006-11-22 10:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by princess_j2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds great but I can sense a "pros and cones" here, even how good it sound sorry I can't believe on this story.
2006-11-22 10:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by shyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I don't believe in fairy tales.
2006-11-22 09:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by CJM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋