2006-11-22 00:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by ****MIRO**** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
R u whiny? Constantly trying to nag him 4 attention?
No one can make u feel anything unless U surrender ur personal power of decision & choice. U don't say if he's a bf or spouse... so my answer is for bf.
Ur not tied at the hip 2 him! Go out with friends, did u let all of them go 2 be with the jerk? Well then make new ones or rekindle friendships with the girls. Go out. Start taking an interest in yourself. What is 1 thing u want 2 do but the jerk won't? Then do it. Ur letting life pass u by over some jerk who isn't worth the breath to say his name. Meet a real man, who respects u, is nice and funny & cares what u think. Not what u can offer him between the legs.
This is also a prime opportunity 4 u! If your personality, your self worth is low... it's time to make positive changes so u don't repeat & attract the same jerk personalities. U need to know just how special u r and that u r enough!
good luck on the new and powerful U! U go girl!
2006-11-22 00:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself UNAVAILABLE to him too. Make plans and do activities that don't include him. Get ready and Go. Stop telling him what you are doing all the time and don't give him any lovin'. Tell him where the bathroom is that you're not a toilet for him to come and visit just because he has a "need". He will soon start to question what you are about and then make adjustments to woo you. If he doesn't then he is just not into you and you should move on to someone who will appreciate you.
2006-11-22 08:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by AVA 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
most people come back around if you do the same to them. I'd give it a month, that's about how long it takes to break a pattern of compulsive behavior. if, after ignoring him for a month he doesn't approach you I'd move on. at the same time, you might want to keep your options open ...
2006-11-22 08:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if they ignore you, they're not worth your time. Just ignore them the same. All you do is hurt yourself wanting the attention of someone that doesn't care enough to give it to you themselves.
2006-11-22 08:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by fallingtear1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This "silent treatment" is abuse. Just the same as physical, emotional or verbal, it is none the less abuse. It means this person is screwed up in the head. You are too good for this, get out now.
2006-11-22 08:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mensa Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother!!!IF he can't step up and be real, forget about it! Unless you have time invested in the man, then work it out and be friends! If he means that much to you! sometimes aqaintances are good too!
2006-11-22 08:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by smfry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Return the favor and refer to him as Casper, the invisible ghost.
2006-11-22 08:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to move on because the love is gone.
2006-11-22 09:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by TOSHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him too...try to find some one els ..
2006-11-22 08:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by joj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take the hint and move on with my life.
2006-11-22 08:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by StarDuster 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋