2006-11-22 01:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by angelasmall32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have checked the phone bills and i have confronted him about the phone calles he said i was nuts till i asked him why such and such the he said they were just friends what should i beleive?
2006-11-22 01:32:08 · update #1
Ask them and if that doesn't work then hire a private investigator to follow them.
2006-11-22 01:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How to tell: strange phone calls, coming home late at night, no sex / or more sex than usual, picking on you about stupid things, instead of you being beautiful he now gives you all your faults, comes home to take a shower immediately, spending more time away from you, more or less attentive, cleans off the phone after a call, takes the phone in another room, starts spending time with "friends" more than usual. Won't let you see Visa / Mastercard bills. You are no longer invited to go out with him to the local bar / movies / friends / etc.
And if you have to ask how your spouse is cheating, then they are more than likely doing so. Trust your gut feelings no matter what others say.
2006-11-22 09:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then they probably are the type to cheat. Spend more time talking to him, and see what pops up. Maybe check out his credit card statement, and phone bill, look for long or frequent conversations at strange hours, or charges at unexplained locations. If you have proof, then confront him, if not hire a private investigator. Good Luck.
2006-11-22 09:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman's intuition is much stronger then you think, sometimes that is all you need. However here are the basics:
Lack of "relations"
Always going out and never home
Starting fights over the little things
Money is disappearing from the bank account and no explanation of where it went
Complete attitude change
I hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-22 09:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating I know.. but lately i noticed i never bothered to ask him anymore. Why because im sick of asking him when he acts different or all these weird numbers on his cell phone or his constant new hobbies he now suddenly has. But other signs others say to look for are his time to and from work, his friends, his "new look"... But to get real..... ask him and if he tells you then he's honestly telling you that he wants to end it or either that... they want to come clean and want a new start in the current relationship. ..........MEN could never figure them out like they can't understand women that are mostly about emotions!
2006-11-22 09:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Damzel in distrust 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my husband said the same darling and now he has moved out without me kicking him out and now has one of those "friends" up night & day on the phone. any sense of distrust is going to build and eventually buck the entire system of your life. though it hurts like crazy. let him go. your sanity will thank you in years to come. ( at least mine better d*mn it)
2006-11-22 10:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres really no sure way to tell unless you catch him in the act...
Or if he tells you but that dont happen to offen
2006-11-22 09:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by little_gizmo2004 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stare them right in the eye and ask them and if they look away they are lying or search the house for clues or smell the clothing he wears don't jump to conclusions to soon
2006-11-22 09:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can just see it in his eyes and through his body language. Trust your instincts
2006-11-22 09:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Surf me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is this asked so much, pay attention.
2006-11-22 09:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋