Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2006

i am a senior person who has my son living with me he is very abusive to me does not contribute to the household expenses and will not leave when asked to

2006-11-22 19:47:52 · 26 answers · asked by sad sack 1

i am currently divorced, i have 5 children. i haven't had 2 work in 6 years, now that its just me and my children, i'm afraid of taking that first step of getting my ged and going back 2 school to pursue my nurseing. i fear failing my ged test, i fear wondering if i will make it. i sit around sometimes asking the question "why me", there are many nights i cry hoping that the necessities of my home will be provided. i am a strong believer in christ and i know he will see me through. but how do i get over this feeling of fear of succeeding in life now that i'm divorced, have 5 children to raise, go to work go to school, actually make something of myself. i just get so confused sometimes, i want 2 be happy, i want 2 succeed. i know all my questions wont be answered but can someone just give me some kind of advice i can take heed to?

2006-11-22 19:45:41 · 11 answers · asked by brownsuga 2

I don't want to pry but why is it alot of married women refused to cook for their husbands on holidays they would rather go to someone else house to eat. And do you think that the husbands ever get tired of this?

2006-11-22 19:22:30 · 17 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4

2006-11-22 19:21:13 · 15 answers · asked by tanuja g 1

2006-11-22 19:15:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 18:58:28 · 22 answers · asked by dtiplov 2

My boyfriend and I have become completely obsessed with only each other. We stopped hanging out with our friends, and so have lost all other relationships. We know that our relationship is unhealthy, but we lost each other so much and enjoy being with each other so much, we don't know how to finely balance our personal life and our social life. How do long-term couples do it? Do they live completely independantly or only spend time with each other? I only want to be with my boyfriend, but I know that its not healthy. How can I be with him but still spend time with friends?

2006-11-22 18:56:02 · 12 answers · asked by KD 1

2006-11-22 18:55:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've recently realized Im depressed.
Besides going to a therapist, what can a person do on their own to deal with depression? How can I keep myself busy and find ways to make myself happy?

2006-11-22 18:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by KD 1

I have been married since August. It has been the worst period of my life. Prior to getting married my wife was the best woman a man could have. She was clearly the choice to marry. Our wedding day was horrible she ignored me the entire day. She never disclosed how bad her financial situation was.

1 year of unpaid property taxes, maxed credit cards, outstanding hard money loans, her home needing major repair.

In 4 months I've gone through all my savings, kid's college fund, and maxed my credit cards. Rented my new 1st home out for a $800 monthly loss.

All of that means nothing except for the fact that she has treated me horribly since the marriage. She is disrespectful in the way she talks and treats me on a daily basis. She even once locked me out the house and called the police on me one day for no reason other than she thought I was going to leave her. The cops frisked me in my front yard!

Do I exit now, or do I wait for things to get worse (IF THEY CAN)!!!

2006-11-22 18:28:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can any body tell me how to make a body contact (Sexual relation)with a person of opposit sex without changeing the religion? Is only signing in an agreement is enough for such sex?

2006-11-22 18:27:21 · 6 answers · asked by ogmansur 2

right now he is planning to find another job.but im always worried.what if he met another women and fell in love with her?

2006-11-22 18:26:49 · 14 answers · asked by phyllis e 1

When my wife and i got married My 2 boys were 1 year olds.& 2 months ago she told me that before she met me she had a baby and let her aunt adopt it Then her aunt fell ill...So now my wife is regaining custody of her son who is 3 1/2 ..Question>>while I was at work the kid was bit by one of My two Dobermans the bite was .not severe but required stitches. My wifes kid has hit/slapped Troy & Mike (the dogs) and was told never to ever do that again And I told my wife to NEVER EVER leave her kid/boy alone with my boys while i'm at WORK..
For the protection of...... Troy& Mike .And my wife fail to listen after she agreed to it.
After the biting incident my wife and i agreed that it was a valuable lesson for the kid to never hit helpless animals
Now she wants me to get rid of my boys(that will never happen) ....She has the nerve to ask me to get rid of my boys after she lied to me about having a secret child.....Should i get rid of my wife.. Or will she relize how selfish she is????

2006-11-22 18:20:53 · 59 answers · asked by Buda B 3

If so, how did you know. If not, when did you know(how long did it take?)

2006-11-22 18:15:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was single for 20 yrs. and now we have been married for 3 yrs. in the between time he used to masterbate with porn everyday and sometimes more then once a day. Now that we have a son I haven't been as interested in sex and he seems to be watching porn every chance that he gets. I have expressed my dislike for this but he doesn't seem to care. Can anyone help me here ...... girlz

2006-11-22 18:09:50 · 6 answers · asked by Lurrie11 1

my husband says he wants to help her ,as he has promised her that he will stand by her,ex- girl friend loves my husband ,she is keeping contact,my mate is honest by sharing this ,but i dont like his past coming in our present life.

2006-11-22 18:09:17 · 26 answers · asked by cindrella 1

I was 20 years old when is was married to my husbend he was 30.
We new each other for 2 years before marriage. Now that we are celebrating our 10th anniversery already having 2 lovely daughters (9 & 7years old) I still find myself loving my husbend and my family.
I know that we both have changed which i think is normal through the years and all what we have experienced in our life together.
But eventually love, caring, respect it is all there growing and being more mature.

Now what about you? How do you feel after 10 years of being married?

2006-11-22 18:06:42 · 10 answers · asked by green eyes 2

2006-11-22 18:06:16 · 8 answers · asked by Ravi K 1

He told me that he is married,but v still met up as i just wanted to c my chat friend but things got heated with time and we got physical though v dint go 4 a ****.He says he had nothing with his wife and they were due to get separated neways.He met my dad,and xpressed his feelings,who is against it. Every mornin i get up with lotof guilt .Dad said i cant make homes on the graves of som1elses dreams,and i cant do this to ne woman.
I think, i shuld get out of this but the guy says he will die without me and wants to get married to me,and e1 if i leave him he is goin 2 get out of his 3year old marriage.My mind and heart are under heavy conflict,.i hav known him since 3 months online ,he would flirt with all the girls on orkut,and have bn meetin him since a month.He started kissin me on the second date.My work is sufferin as we meet up daily,my life is in a mess.
he says his wife doesnt care about him,we went out for a weekend and she dint e1 care to call him up.TEll me wat m i doing?

2006-11-22 17:54:24 · 33 answers · asked by rashmi 1

we both live in mumbai. can we do the marriage here. what documents required.

2006-11-22 17:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is crying really weak ? does it show your emotionaly weak ? and not strong enough to hold in your tears ? my boyfriend calls me emotionally weak

2006-11-22 17:48:02 · 34 answers · asked by Apples! (: 2

Would you marry someone you love or someone who loves you?

2006-11-22 17:43:11 · 6 answers · asked by Safwan A 1

MY CHILD HAS BEEN ON 5MG FOR 2 YEARS I AM NOT A PARENT WHO JUST DOESN'T WANT TO DEAL WITH A CHILD.

2006-11-22 17:39:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

married 6 years. lost that loving feeling, we both did. separated over 2 years. after the separation, i didnt have a care in the world anymore. i gave up on alot of things. There was a big void.

About a couple weeks ago, I started to coming around. I am done with the past now and ready to move forward. Even getting back to dating.

question: Is your passion for life have come back, for you where the past is the past?

ps folks that are ready to get married, make sure its the real deal or expect to live in hell

2006-11-22 17:34:13 · 3 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3

i'm married and a few months ago i realised that my husband has the potential to cheat...i forgave him? but i'm now texting a guy i met thru a friend every night, i want to have a sexual relationship with him. He is a basketball player compared to my husbadn who looks frail and skinny...i know it's wrong since i'm married but it feels good to have attention from another guy, my husband is wierd, he is not into sex, iam i love having sex every night but he is always tired...i'm on the verge of cheating and i know it's wrong but it feels right, waht should i do? is something wrong with me? can someone give me a sincere answer?

2006-11-22 17:22:40 · 42 answers · asked by lovely 2

Well the thing is that i have been really really stressed for about 3 months now.Me and my boyfriend have been having financial and family problems for a while now.We have gotten into bad arguments about all this,he yells at me and tells me hes going to leave the house.Obviously all this makes me sad, i literally have cried everyday,day and night for atleast 2 months.I havent had my period for 2 months now because of stress.Sometimes i just want to give up on everything,but i cant.Well my bf is the type of person that when he gets made he feels he has to yell like crazy which drives me insane cuz no one has ever yelled at me like that.When we argue i cant take it hes just to much for me,we argued last week and i got this painful pounding headache in the back of my head,i felt like my head was going to explode.We argued again 3 days ago and i got the same headache,i had never had some like these, now , head still hurts a little.why do you think it is?is it cuz ive had enough?

2006-11-22 17:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with him for 7 years and we have a baby. I cheated on him in the past, before we had our baby. Shortly after we found out I was pregnant he started drinking heavily. Now he's going to strip clubs. He forgave me for cheating, but I'm having a hard time forgiving him, for how he's been acting. Mostly because he waited until after we had a kid to start acting like an idiot. He was a great guy. I don't know what to do. I don't want to raise a child around a piece-of-crap acting guy. I love him and so does our baby. Is it worth leaving him? Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-11-22 17:07:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have seen that in the biginning women do not do oral, but after getting mature, likes to do, any reason?

2006-11-22 17:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

on her monthly if she never seems to have pms???

2006-11-22 17:00:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i havetrouble with fear of losing some one i love so i yell and hurt her now she is gone and i want to never be this way ever again

2006-11-22 16:59:04 · 18 answers · asked by happy_phantom2001 1