First, I assume you knew this going in to the marriage? Habits like that don't change. In effect, when you married him, you were saying, I accept you as you are. That is part of the marriage contract.
Second, what does not as interested mean to you? once a week, or once a month? If you are not having sex at least once or twice a week, then I recommend some counseling for both of you, preferably together. If he, like some, want it every day or more, then work out a suitable compromise. Were your sex drives previously compatible, or has this always been a bit of a problem?
Compromise means you both work to come to an equitable solution. Get help doing so if you need to.
2006-11-22 18:22:15
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answered by Pichi 7
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Let me get this straight. You got what you wanted from your husband (your son), now you're through having sex with him, so he should just turn of his sex drive? You're lucky he's not looking outside the marriage for it. Sex is not just a physical act. It's a way of building intimacy between the couple. Don't you want that? Yes, I'm sure you're tired after taking care of your son all day, but how much would it put you out to be loving toward your husband for a half hour?
2006-11-23 04:08:51
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answered by Tiss 6
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I have an answer that you probably won't like. If you knew he liked/used porn before why are you shocked that he still does? And if he isn't having an affair, nor trying to force you to have sex against your will, I don't see a problem. He has sexual needs and wants that he is fulfilling on his own without really imposing it on you. Just make sure that it is done in private, especially as your son gets older.
From one woman to another, ignore it and be grateful he stays at home.
2006-11-22 18:41:45
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answered by Jane S 2
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If youre not interested in sex then dont blame him for turning to porn. You want everything your way but that is not how it works. If you want him to stop then you give him what he wants to replace the porn. You are being unbeleivably unreasonable. I know thats not what you want to hear but you know its true.
2006-11-22 18:14:02
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answered by Dovahkiin 7
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you want a honest answer. you better start being like a woman in that way or in time he will find one who is and not look back toward you in . my opion?
2006-11-22 18:14:23
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answered by the_silverfoxx 7
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This is usual in everywhere.
2006-11-22 18:13:01
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answered by Anonymous
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