After 10 years marriage do you still feel the same?

Question

I was 20 years old when is was married to my husbend he was 30.
We new each other for 2 years before marriage. Now that we are celebrating our 10th anniversery already having 2 lovely daughters (9 & 7years old) I still find myself loving my husbend and my family.
I know that we both have changed which i think is normal through the years and all what we have experienced in our life together.
But eventually love, caring, respect it is all there growing and being more mature.

Now what about you? How do you feel after 10 years of being married?

Answer 1

Mine will be totally different from all the other stories I think and it might suprise you too, anyhow here it is:

I have been married for 14 years now. It was love marriage and I discovered him rather than him discovering me! We were very much in a hurry to get married and we ended up doing it too. Unfortunately the beginings brought us very, very hard times. We had to live with our in-laws for a long time, my husband went bankrupt in the business he was starting, I was in a new job trying to settle in when I suddenly conceived our daughter,who is 13 and a beautiful and smart girl now. I did not want to have any more children after this because I have developed a very bad back since my daughter's birth.

But the most important thing is how succesfully my husband and I have overcome all the bad family relationships with our in-laws, our financial situations and our own relationships through the years with tremendous patience, tolerance and most of all "committment", not only to ourselves but to our marriage! Now I am 43 years old and my husband is 48.

Answer 2

We've only been married for 8 months, been together for 3 months before that and we just had the most gorgeous baby boy 3 weeks ago. Baby totally alter our life as a newlywed. Baby really take our time away from each other. Now, we don't have dinner together anymore, cuz I am busy nursing baby, we don't sit next to each other anymore because baby is in between. We can't even go out for a date (dinner & movies) anymore because now we have the extra baggage.

So, long story short, our honeymoon is put on hold because of baby.

I love my baby to death but if I can postpone having a baby I would just so I can have more time with hubby.

Answer 3

We have been married over 17 years, and it just keeps getting better - which is amazing to some people, but it is really true! I was 28 when we got married, and he was 38 - so I've had to deal with the same age difference you are! We knew each other three years before getting married and dated two of those. We have one son.
It is exactly as you say - with the feelings growing every year as we mature together - the love gets deeper and better. Can't imagine life without him!

Answer 4

I don't know, I'm very tested these days not married yet been with him about 5 years. Got 5 kids here the his , mine and ours kinda deal. Somedays I love him alot others I want to kill him, its a rollercoaster ride at times. But I think marriage is more of a piece of paper now adays. But I hope you keep finding love with him and your kids.But kids do take your time from each other. Ours are 10.9.7.6. and 14 months.

Answer 5

I've been with my husband a lot more than 10 years (our children are grown with children of their own) and I can honestly say that each year gets better and better. I can't wait to see what it's like once we hit the 40 or 50 year mark. Not that I'm ready to be that old, I'm just curious as to how good it can actually get.

Answer 6

I was maaried 20 years back thses aremy following records
1) we have 2 kids(boy & daughter)
2) happy married life
3) we feel more energatic
4) as our life goes on we are enjoying sex different way
5) No doubts due family problems sex frequency has reduce but still we do it 2 per week

Answer 7

Hopefully in ten years you will feel a very different kind of love that has grown from infatuation to a deep love. That's the kind of love that needs to grow over the years; it transends the love you feel in the earlier stages of a relationship. It won't dissapoint you.

Answer 8

I have been married 17 yrs, And I enjoy every year with my husband. We just treat each other with respect and everything else that comes with love,I think as long as you continue these things your marriage will never end.I love him more every day,I tell him he's like fine wine he gets better with age,,,lol

Answer 9

In a good marriage people change and evolve and the love grows with them.

I Long for that.

Answer 10

If you are doing more housework and child rearing than him, tell him to stuff it. I doubt there is any marriage where everything is 50-50 (I mean EVERYTHING, not just money).