right now he is planning to find another job.but im always worried.what if he met another women and fell in love with her?
2006-11-22 18:26:49 · 14 answers · asked by phyllis e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm against child labor. You shouldn't make your 6-month-old work in a bank!
2006-11-22 18:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've only been married for 9 months. Have a little faith. If he has cheated on you or someone else before, you shouldn't have married him. I am not sure what his salary or job situation has to do with whether he will cheat or not. A bank teller is a good start, though. Are you working, or do you have a career? Your kid will be old enough to stay with a caregiver soon, so if money is a problem, you should look into getting a job. I worked two jobs by the time my daughter was 9 months old just to pay the bills. Sacrifices had to be made, and we wouldn't have gotten along without me working.
2006-11-23 02:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a huge issue in the beginning of marriage. I know bc I'm only married for 8 months myself and we're still developing that trust. I understand where you're coming from. Trust will grow with time. If you can't trust him then don't marry anyone you can't trust.
You should do some home business or sell stuff on ebay so you can help pay the bills.
2006-11-23 02:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Vixen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow! He's six months old and working in a bank! That's fantastic. Don't worry about him leaving you for another woman, it will happen eventually but probably not until after he turns 18, you've got a long time with your child prodigy yet!
2006-11-23 02:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Graham S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your 6 month old child works at a bank?? Last time I checked, 6 month olds can't even count. How did he get this job??
2006-11-23 02:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont like "what ifs", your assuming that your husband of nine months is going to cheat on you. Do you have any reason to believe he is being unfaithful? Take it easy.
2006-11-23 02:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by crgcarroll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to stop being so insecure. And worrying about it won't change it anyway. So, try to stop stressing because your baby picks up on your stress and that's not fair to your child.
2006-11-23 02:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you drunk??? A six month old can not talk, let alone work in a bank.
2006-11-23 02:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worrying isn't going to solve anything. It'll make you old fast.
2006-11-23 02:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know.
my 2 year old son owns the bank..
maybe i can get him a pay raise.
2006-11-23 02:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by cork 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋