Well the thing is that i have been really really stressed for about 3 months now.Me and my boyfriend have been having financial and family problems for a while now.We have gotten into bad arguments about all this,he yells at me and tells me hes going to leave the house.Obviously all this makes me sad, i literally have cried everyday,day and night for atleast 2 months.I havent had my period for 2 months now because of stress.Sometimes i just want to give up on everything,but i cant.Well my bf is the type of person that when he gets made he feels he has to yell like crazy which drives me insane cuz no one has ever yelled at me like that.When we argue i cant take it hes just to much for me,we argued last week and i got this painful pounding headache in the back of my head,i felt like my head was going to explode.We argued again 3 days ago and i got the same headache,i had never had some like these, now , head still hurts a little.why do you think it is?is it cuz ive had enough?
2006-11-22 17:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your situation is bad to say the least. Don't endure all this pain and heartaches. Your physical symptoms will only spoil your health. No body in our own life should be more important than you. Get away from this relationship and feel the new surge of relief and energy in your life. Treat yourself with respect and others will respect you!
2006-11-22 17:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you're having such a rough time. First of all, even if it is stress causing your headaches etc, schedule an appointment with your doctor. Everything is harder to deal with when you don't feel well. I really think that you and your boyfriend would benefit from counseling. If neither of you has benefits at work that cover it, look for a non-profit agency. 211 or a local community information center can help you find that kind of agency. If he won't go with, go to counseling yourself. You deserve help and I'm concerned that you have been down for so long. I honestly hope you feel better soon.
2006-11-23 01:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably are stressing. Stress does different things to different people.
Maybe the two of you should get a little counseling. Yelling though it may be acceptable and understood sometime. If he's yelling all the time there is, possibly a more deeper, or misunderstood overlooked problem that neither of you may not have suspected.
2006-11-23 01:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by mdssc2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Headache is a pain in the head, scalp or neck. Headaches can be
caused by minor problems like eyestrain, lack of coffee or more
serious reasons like head injury, brain tumors, encephalitis and
meningitis. Taking painkillers continuously can have harmful side
effects, so it is better to modify your lifestyle. More information
available at http://tinyurl.com/q8696
2006-11-23 12:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by piyu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder your head hurts all that yelling /screaming/crying day and night.You are stressed out.The two of you need to sit down talk your problems out .this is not all about you or all about him this is about the two of you,your life together.I don't know.How either of you could be happy living this way?your health sounds like it is trying to tell you something..I f you can not work out your difference then you should think about your health think about leaving the relationship.
2006-11-23 01:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a tension headache. I used to get them all time when I was stressed. You need to do some reevaluating of the situation that you are in if it causing you that much stress.
2006-11-23 01:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by hawkeye316 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out and if its your place,put his stuff out the door and find someone to change the locks, it sounds like you are having migraine headaches and seek medical attention for relief and possible anti-depressants to help cope with the stress. i pray you are not pregnant thats the last thing you need. good luck
2006-11-24 19:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by kittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a couple of tylenol.... then, move-on.
2006-11-23 01:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋