To MARRIED people: Was it love @ first sight?

Question

If so, how did you know. If not, when did you know(how long did it take?)

Answer 1

No. I got to know her and fell in love with who she was and not necessarily for what she looked like. Of course I found her attractive but her inside I found much more attractive.

Answer 2

No such thing as love at first sight, maybe lust at first sight, but to love someone u have to get to know them first. After 3 months or so, of dating u learn the traits of that person and u fall in love with the whole package. Otherwise ur basing ur feelings strictly on the chemistry between u and not what the person is all about. When u learn these things, then love begins to grow and thats when u fall in love.

Answer 3

My first marriage yes, or so I thought. And it didn't last long at all about 3 years. He turned out to be an abusive, drunken, cheating jerk.
The second I took slower I was attracted and interested but love came later. I'm sure it takes a different amount of time for everyone but for me I think I knew (been married a long time) after about a year, maybe 18 months. Or maybe I did love him sooner but I didn't admit it to him or myself.

Answer 4

No, but it was "big interest" at first sight. I knew him for a year, then we started dating. I knew he was the one after about a year of dating. We got married a year later, and it has been over 17 years.

Answer 5

yes it was. we were at a party and saw each other, from the moment we looked into each others eyes we know from than that we were in love. we spent as much time together as possible since than. 12 yrs. later we are stil married and loving it. by the way we got married two weeks after we met. so for me and her love at first sight does exsist.

Answer 6

Yes by grace of God, it was love @ first sight. I can still remember it like it were yesterday. We met at a mutual friend’s house. Of course we didn’t know each other. My friend’s wife was in the kitchen preparing stuff. So she (my wife) asked that if I want coffee or tea. I said yes! and when she served me the cup, and she looked at me and I stared in her beautiful eyes and I was lost right then and there. I fell in love madly with her then and am more in love with her as each day passes by. She’s an angel sent from heaven to me by God :)

Answer 7

Nope. I liked him as a friend, that is all. After, about 3 months he moved away then, his landlord sold the building his apartment was in and when it changed into a bar, he was without a place to stay. I'm a good friend so, I asked if he wanted to stay with me. One thing led to another and we became boyfrind/girlfriend. About a 2 years after being together (friends and more) we got married.

Answer 8

yes my wife of 4 years and I both felt the love at first sight thing we are both 31 and have both been married and divorced twice but we love eachother and our love grows more and more everyday and her 2 wonderful sons consider me as their dad and that means the world to me

Answer 9

On my half no,when I met my husband I was dating someone else. On his half yes,the day he met me he told his mom he was going to marry me.He told her,"I met the girl today I'm going to marry."
We eventually started dating about 6 months later,he ask me to marry him 3 times before I said yes.And I am glad I did.I love him more and more every day.We've been married 17 yrs.

Answer 10

I grew up with my husband ever since we were nine. I thought he was cute ever since i layed eyes on him, but love is more then physical attraction. I knew I loved him when i got to know what he was about. Took until we were 17 for me to actually really know it wasn't puppy love.