Ladies - would you be angry if you found out that your husband or boyfriend spent a lot of money in a strip club? If he spent a whole lot of money would you suspect he was cheating on you with one of the dancers?
2006-11-22 07:06:42 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wouldn't think he's cheating...but i would be PISSED if my fiance spent lots of cash at a strip club. he wasted money on some chick when that could have been used for bills?? oh, hell no.
2006-11-22 07:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not be in that position. I would never be involved with a guy who hung out at strip clubs. But, if my bf spent a ton of $ at one, I wouldn't care that much, because it's his money, and not my business (my BF spends plenty on other things, & I don't mind--his money & he can afford it), but if my husband blew good money on it, I'd be mighty angry. It would take me a good while to get over it.
2006-11-22 07:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you said ladies but I have to answer this a guy who goes to a stripper when in any relationship is a pig not only is it disrespectful to the woman your with you are filling your head with a bunch of crap. Going to watch women strip you are cheating on your girl you are lusting and fantasizing about these strippers rather then spending quality time with the ones you love. If you are asking this it must be a situation that you are dealing with
if you are married shame on you if you with a girl who may be the one you should wake-up and smell the coffee strippers,porn, and anything of that nature is works of Satan and his helpers cleanse yourself from this crap because it will only destroy any relationship you will have.
2006-11-22 07:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Angry? i would be like a rabid dog right at his jugular and i would be stinging him for every penny in the divorce courts if he was willing to pay to watch a load of strippers then he obviously has no respect for the vows you took go and watch some male strippers with his money
2006-11-22 07:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by sammie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would be mad about the money. He needs a fixed limit. But no, I wouldn't think that there was an affair unless he started talking about one girl in particular by her name. Strippers are strippers and are ment to be anonymous.
2006-11-22 07:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I had a husband that did that, he would be thrown out and be needing money for a place to stay, utilities, etc. After that he can scrape together whatever money he can and go to the strip joint.
2006-11-22 07:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter about the cheating. If you aren't single, then what are you doing in a strip club? If you have a girl, you should be satisfied with what you have, you shouldn't go looking for satisfaction some where else. She should dump your a'ss. Jerk.
2006-11-22 07:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a couple of things....
1. Was it a special occasion ( bachalor party, birthday party) or just Tuesday?
2. Did he spend bill money or pocket money?
3. Is he going alone or with friends?
2006-11-22 07:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I personally wouldn't want to be with a man who wanted to spend his money on pretending the pretty naked women want him. It would bother me if any man did this as a hobby, and I wouldn't date someone who did. It would take away from the relationship.
I wouldn't automatically think he was cheating on me, but he's probably more inclined to cheat than the man who spends him time with people who aren't naked. :)
2006-11-22 07:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and Yes.
Chances are, and I know from the men that I know and their experiences. If they are spending allot of money, honey he has a stripper that he is keeping and taking care of.
Move on.
2006-11-22 07:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋