married for 13 years got married young him 19 me 21 one child 11 year old boy
2006-11-22 06:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
um, what? If he says he loves you, he's probably just shortening "I'm in love with you" down to "I love you." What are you worried about?
2006-11-22 06:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mithrandir 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a situation that comes up time and again. You're in a relationship and start to have a distance between you. It continues and you are comfortable in what is taking place even if it is not how you'd like it to be. As time passes you or him realizes you want more from life than blaza......The love you had with sizzle and spice is gone. You have become different people with different things that make you happy. You are the mother of his child, he respects and loves you as a person but he is no longer in love with you. There is a World of Difference! Once you lose it the odds are it is not going to change. You can't make your heart do anything, it just does...right or wrong.You need to address the problem that exists and if there is no reconciliation; accept the fact, realize it is not the end of the world just another bump in the road of life. You are not alone by any stretch of the imagination. You can move on, get new interests and meet some other man. You may find the dream of your life, and still remain friends with your husband. I wish you the best.
2006-11-22 22:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find something to spice up the sex life. Talk to him about. What would make him fall n love with you again. Why did he fall in love with you in the first place?
2006-11-22 14:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him, what are the reasons this detail was found out in the first place. i am assuming you talked about this to him. counseling is start if he loves you.
2006-11-22 15:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave, or at least allow him to leave peacefully. You can't make a person love you.
2006-11-22 14:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he is ready to move on or have started a new relation ship with some one else.
2006-11-22 15:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by PERRY T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. That's what I tell my wife when she is onto me and my girlfriend!
2006-11-22 15:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by TruthBTold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋