I caught my husband looking at my sisters nude internet modeling pictures? What should I do?

Question

How would this make you feel?

For all you interested parties you can look her up on model mayhem - roxanne rhoades.

Okay, I didn't tell him... my father brought up the site on my husbands work laptop and then my husband looked it up from the history the next day... along with 10 other girls from our town.

The fact that my father showed me is a whole other story.

Answer 1

Sounds like your whole family has seen the pictures and accepted them for what they are. The question is should you make a big deal out of it and have a marital argument, or just let it go.

I think you should just let it go, he would have looked eventually anyway after hearing about them. It is natural male curiosity. As long as he does not live on the web site then it should be a done deal.

I have seen both of my sister in laws in various stages of undress. I do not focus my attention to it, it just happened and is a fact of life. At least it cleared up any questions I may have been harboring in my mind about how they looked. No I know, no longer a mystery, no longer a thought.

Keep your marriage happy and let this minor incident go.

Answer 2

Get over it !!! almost all married men watch porn though many wont admit it, I say almost all, because there would be a few who wouldn't because they have a non existent sex drive. women use toys, men use porn, simple. Try watching an adult movie with him, be adventurous, loosen up and be open minded, like when you first met and had had a lot more fun and a lot more sex, in different positions and places. ;-) Kids are awesome, but they take their toll on couples, so do bills, mortgage and the daily grind. But you deserve more out of life, make time for each other at least once a week and turn the heat up in the bedroom, tell him what you want done and you wont have to finish yourself off, men are terrible at mind reading. Remember what happens in the bedroom is a good indicator of whether a marriage is working.

Answer 3

Honey, if he is looking he is going to want more. I know my ex husband is going with my younger sister (they are just friends)
He should have disgusted that your sister posed nude for the internet anyway. You father is sicker than your husband. Is your dad hitting on your sister as well? Your family needs help. Tell your husband that you are his wife and that type of behavior is not going to hold your marriage together. If he wants your sister he is not getting much. (trash goes with trash and it all smells bad after a while)

Answer 4

To be completely honest, if my wife's sister had nude pictures posted publicly on the internet, I'd look at them. I think that sort of curiosity is normal and if the pictures were readily available, I think most people would take a look.

Now, if he looks at them repeatedly or has printed them out to use for "inspiration", that's a problem.

Answer 5

Um all i gotta say is h*** no thats not right lookin at a nother female you are his wife he has promise to respect u and to love you and by him looking at your sister naked he has disrespected u.And him being interesrted has nothing to do with it so he cant say i just wanted to see cuz i was wondering he should not have 2 wonder because he should have already seen the female body by maken love yo u.And really u cant ask anyone what to do because it all depends on how u feel a bout it 4 me id do something just make him see how spissed i am about it.

Answer 6

Well, do you blame him? If my sister did that, I'd look too out of curiosity. I'd be more disgusted with my sister for posting herself nude for the world to see. Now that he got a peek, I doubt he'll feel compelled to look again-- unless he's into porn anyway.

Answer 7

I would say you should take the attitude if you can not beat them join them and have your husband photo you nude and keep them with his collection also post them everywhere he can on internet.

Answer 8

If your sister is modeling in the nude you shouldn't have a problem. She has placed her image in public domain.

Answer 9

Where did he get the information from to get to those pictures would be the question? Then find out why would he be willing to look at them knowing that they were your sister's pictures. This would easily cause trust issues.

Answer 10

its a fact of nature.. men are attracted to naked women... its also a fact of nature for it to hurt your feelings. talk to him and let him know how it makes you feel.. dont keep it bottled up or it will just get worse. If anything "physical" ever happens with him and another woman get rid of him. Good Luck!