I am a newly wed bride married this year I am 43 and I have had my tubes tired and my hubby has had a vasectomy My tubes were tired 12 years ago I don't know how long ago he had hes tired I think 16 years ok any way my last period was first week of Oct and this morning I throw up and I still feel sick and not hungry at all!!! is it possible for me to be pg???? I should be a grandma not a mother again Oh boy help any advice!!!
2006-11-22 05:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by mel416 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really was not wanting any more babies but all babies are a gift from God so if I am pg I will love this baby any way and feel really blessed I just hope hubby will feel the same since he is 46 we have been in love for 24 years a he told me he wishes he had gotten to see me when I was pg for my two kids so I hope he feels the same way now my son is 17 next month and my little girl 12 but I misscarried in 84 so this jan she would have been 22 I also lost one just before the 12 years ago pg dose not work very good with me so I will need prayer this time as old as I am but I am at the best health I have even been before so that is good my ex-hubby wished this on me!!!! he even told me he did but if i am I am glad even tho it was not planned it is just going to be a tuff road ahead!!!
2006-11-22 05:28:03 · update #1
I am really thank full of all the answers and I just went to buy a pg test and took it well it came back not pg but now I am kind of bumped that is so weird I guess part of me really wanted to be pg you know defy the odds I guess I don't know it would be kind of cool to be a mommy again maybe I am just premenopusel who knows it made me cry when I thought I was and again when i found I wasn't my hormones are diffantly out of wack!!!!
2006-11-22 06:37:10 · update #2
Yes, I have heard of spontaneous vasectomy reversal (not spontaneous as in quick, spontaneous as in no one planned it and it happened on its own). Have your husband have his ejaculate tested to see if there are healthy sperm in it. That should give you an idea of what's going on.
It isn't terribly common, but sometimes one or both of the vas deferens will heal itself after surgery and provide a way for sperm to travel from the testes. It may not show up in the preliminary testing of sperm count they do right after a vasectomy, so a lot of times people don't have any idea it has happened.
And if you happen to be pregnant? Try to readjust your mindset. I know it's shocking and unexpected, but look at it as a gift, and something special for you and your new husband to share.
Best of luck to you.
2006-11-22 05:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I had my vasectomy, many years ago, I was told that if not done correctly they could grow back together and, in effect, reverse. To prevent that he took out about a half inch on both sides.
Now I would suppose the same could be true for a woman. A very simple test could prove if that happened to him. The very strange part is that it would happen to both of you.
These have been done for a lot of years. I had my vasectomy done in 1970. So by the time you and your husband did this it should have been even more perfected.
Have you verified you really are pregnant? What ever you do have him go take that test to see if he is producing sperm again.
2006-11-22 13:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My tubes was cut and tied in 1999, and still got pregnant in 2004, the scars tissues built itself up to the fal.tube. and my brother had his reversal on his vasectomy and now he is a father of 2 small babies a year apart. Just because you get and tubal and vasectomy can always reversed itself! get a pregnancy test.
and good luck. I hope you feel better!
2006-11-22 13:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have the flu or pregeant. But I have never heard of a Vasectomy reversing itself. I hope not. Since my hubby had it done 2 yrs ago!! Take a test. wont hurt!
2006-11-22 13:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomy can get reversed - however, if your tubes are tied, you can't get pregnant. Are you sure this is your child? Your hubby may be messing around on the side!! Hehe.
2006-11-22 13:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible.
First Step... buy and use a over the counter pregnancy test.
Second Step... go see a doctor.
Third Step... start looking for cribs and discussing names... children are a gift, obviously God had this in mind if you are pregnant. :)
2006-11-22 13:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Cris A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard of reversing a vasectomy before... also it's very very rare that you are pregnant, but not impossible, stranger things have happened before. i suggest getting preg test if u miss your preiod. also, have u talked to your husband about it? what does he say?
2006-11-22 13:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With BOTH of you being 'fixed'......I would say your chances of being pregnant is slim to none!
Yes there are cases where vasectomy's have not 'taken'.
2006-11-22 13:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard of a womens reversing but not a mans. i would go to the doctor and see what he says.
2006-11-22 13:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the odds are but it has been known to happen on rare occasions.
2006-11-22 13:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋