I've have a male friend for about 2 yrs. He comes over my husband and my house every week. He got married about 3 mos. ago to a woman who he has lived with 13 yrs. and they have a 12 yr. old child. He said that he only married her for the child, he didn't tell me he got married, another friend did. He said that he forgot. He has said that he's not in love with her, they have nothing in common, and he doesn't trust her because she cheated on him about 2 yrs ago. Last weekend, I accused him of telling another friend some of my business, he came to me about 4-5 times trying to find out why I was upset. When I told him, he got upset to think I thought he had told someone our conversation. He looked so hurt in his eyes. He doesn't call me much like I would like for him to. I have feelings for him, but I've been married for 18 yrs. and never been unfaithful. My friend doesn't express any emotional feelings, how do I know if he feels the same about me?
2006-11-22 04:46:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl dont go there. You are treading on thin ice and you know it leave well enough alone.
2006-11-22 04:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Belinda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 09:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have feelings for this other man and it sounds like you want to explore that further. However, you need to decide what it is that you want, an affair or a new life with this guy. To simply try to determine if he has feelings for you, while you aren't even sure if you would act such an opportunity is putting the cart before the horse. If you decide that you want to move this forward, you'll simply need to ask some more leading questions and see where it goes. My guess is that you wouldn't have a difficult time of getting him to bed, if that's what you want.
2006-11-22 05:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he is married, you are married, he's been sniffing around you (a married woman) for 2 years and stringing you on, he lied through omision, he tells your personal business to others...doesn't sound like a great catch to me. Work on what you've got at home and don't waste anymore time on this other guy.
2006-11-22 04:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by hes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he marry her because of the kid...who is 12? That seems a bit strange. But back to you. You need to leave this one alone, and think that maybe you are having feelings for him because of his situation. That is normal and most people feel they have feelings for someone because they are helping them and feel wanted. Do not ask him about how he feels about you, and be happy in your marriage. That is a road you don't want to take. :)
2006-11-22 04:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, it shouldn't matter if he has feeling for you or not. You're married. He's got a reason to divorce his wife, but do you really have a good reason to leave your husband? I say you should just forget about him and stop neglecting the guy you got at home.
2006-11-22 04:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Eddie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be unfaithful with him then tell him, it sounds like he will go along with it. But he does not sound like a good guy, do you really want to?
2006-11-22 04:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married, you are married. Your are both off limits, so stop justifying that is OK... leave him alone and don;t play with fire. You can hurt many people playing those stupid :"ust friends" games...
Be smart, good luck
2006-11-22 04:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married. He is married. Don't go no further with this "friend".
2006-11-22 04:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP UR NOSE IN UR OWN BUSINESS IF NOT U R LIKE KUMPING OFF A CLIFF SWEETIE!!! GOOD LUCK HOPE U MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION!!
2006-11-22 04:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by NONE OF UR BIZ!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋