My husband and I have a great, loving relationship.
Sex life is "so-so".
My husband will only give ME oral sex....after we have had intercourse. That is the ONLY time he will.
I've never had a guy do that - let alone do it just about every time we are intimate!
My husband was involved with a married woman before he met me - and I guess he gave her oral often after she and the gals husband had sex.
Is this just a fetish?
Do other guys do this?
Any other gals have a husband/boyfriend that does this?
I would think that would be the last thing a guy would want to do after intercourse.
2006-11-22 04:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by plain_jean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh...yes...i dont mind it at all! Its nice to have something soft there - after something hard! lol
I was just curious if others do this as often of not.
Thanks.
2006-11-22 05:00:08 · update #1
It could just be a fetish of his. Personally, I keep my oral persuasions for *before* penetration, but that's just me.
2006-11-22 04:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would never call anyone wierd for doing something they like in a sexual relationship.
Many people have different things that they like from a certain touch to pain to body fluids. As long as both people involved are consenting there is nothing wrong with it. The question for you would be are you okay with his likes and dislikes, if not you need to sit down and discuss them with him. But if you are okay with it then enjoy the sex. Perhaps you should have an open non-judgemental discussion about both of yours likes and dislikes and experiment with some of them. That might bring your sex life out of the so-so stage.
2006-11-22 04:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is indeed a fetish. There is a term for this that I care not to divulge however crude it may be. Especially the "after she had sex with her husband" deal. That's also a very subservient act. To say the least.
2006-11-22 05:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different. Some don't mind, others do. It could be a fetish, that depends if he can't find satisfaction any other way then it may be a fetish.
I don't mind when my husband does this, and apparently neither does he.
2006-11-22 05:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a bit wierd to me. But I am sure he is not the only person in the world to do this. If you want to know why, then you need to ask him. And if you are not comfortable with it, tell him. That is the only way you will find out. Good luck! :)
2006-11-22 04:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by metallicachic82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a weird thing but it is definately a fetish of his, I will personally only do it before intercourse and definately not after.
2006-11-22 04:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes it is a fetish. to me oral sex, is pumping up the air in the balloon, intercourse is letting the balloon explode.
2006-11-22 04:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad you get oral at all!
Wanna hear weird? My husband only gives me oral when we are visiting his parents or when his parents are visiting us... coniencidence (sp?) I think not!
2006-11-22 04:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by joencrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After intercourse... well not the best time, but if he is going there...be thankful.
My man does NOT do it and nevel will, he thinksthat is gross. ... so be thankful for what you got.
Good luck
2006-11-22 04:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little strange but different strokes for different folks. I would guess it's still very enjoyable for you.
2006-11-22 04:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋