My brother's wife has a friend that is a boy and he is always going to the movies or going shopping with her and going to her house while my brother was in Iraq and when he is working (he is a State Trooper) and we through a party for my borther and her friend came and they were like feeling each other and crap and I totally was about too flip out!! So me and my bff stayed outside most of the time:( I hate her soo much i know she is cheating on him:( Ever chance I get i say rude comments to him ad stuff!!!! What do i do?????
2006-11-22 04:46:25 · 20 answers · asked by Alli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell ur brother to beat the **** of him and her
2006-11-22 04:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You tell your brother how you feel about the situation since he is your family. Then step back he has to deal with it since it is his marriage. Your brother should realize that she is cheating and leave the situation but it will have to be his decision. If she makes you angry do not socialize with her. You might want to take her to the side and let her know what you think is going on as well and that you are going to inform your brother.
2006-11-22 12:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Venus 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well we both know you can try and do something about it but what if she is cheating then it's between the two of them never try to sorry for your brother.I know it hurts but after thinking about it you probable try to do something to save your brother but it is turned on you your brother will hate you for what you did because he is going to say that you are evil you wanted them to leave blah blah blah anyway just calm down and respect her, leave her alone as my mom would say whats in the dark must come out in the light one day someone will catch them in action if there is something don't worry there is a God.
2006-11-22 12:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay out of your brother's marriage or he's going to have you on his s___ list. He's a grown man and knows a lot more than you give him credit for. If she's cheating then time will take it's toll but believe it will catch her off guard when she least expects it too. Don't loose out on your brother's relationship for somebody who's not worth it, he will find out (if he don't know already), and handle it to his benefit.
2006-11-22 13:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Feeling her up and crap". Feeling her up means just that. Is that what was taking place? Or are you stretching this. I can say this...its rather unusual for a sister in law to bring a guy she's carrying on with to a family gathering.
Is she screwing around? maybe....with what little you've said it sounds it but you'd goddamn better well be sure she is before you open your yap. These things have a tendency to backfire so you'd better walk gingerly.
2006-11-22 13:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The rude comments don't achieve anything. It sounds like someone needs to tell your brother in law since he has his eyes closed and can't see what's going on.
2006-11-22 12:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by bethanybuilder 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of friends that are guys. I hang out with them. I love my husband very much and have never cheated on him......so it's possible that they are just friends and by the way.....mind your own business......
2006-11-22 13:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by INSANE SUGARPUFF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to drop hints and confront your brother. It's up to him how to pursue it.
2006-11-22 12:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your brother aware of this?
If so ask him what he is thinking?
You can't decide for him.
Find out what he thinks, you aren't him, it's not your problem to deal with.
2006-11-22 12:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by LC 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is a grown up he can handle his own relationship it is none ofyour business.
2006-11-22 12:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Belinda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother what you think!
2006-11-22 12:51:47 · answer #11 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋