Why bother life sucks? Not really looking for an answer, just some ideas on how to end it.?

Question

I'm losing my wife. We've been fighting for over a year concerning another man. She took a vacation last year to huatulco with him during christmas and new years. and she won't stop talking to him. she started stripping again in Mexico. I know not all strippers are prostitutes. My wife was, I know, I was a client. Stupid me for marrying her. I was in a real low part of my life when I met her. I just got divorced from my first wife. I was a cop and walked in on accident to find my first wife ******* on my living room couch. that's when i lost my own children. she moved so faraway i don't see them. when i did try and have a visit, it went so bad. i think they hate me. spent a year in my home looking at my 40 cal bereta. Started to go to strip clubs just to have someone to talk to. that's where I met my current wife. I've fallen in love with my to step daughters. they call me papi. but let's face it. no more wife. no more step kids. i have no friends. gun,rope, or pills?

Answer 1

You are a sweet man, only an emotional fool, to have married a stripper, but let's not dwell on all that, do you believe in God? turn to Him ,He will give you all the answers you need, trust me I have been there too,you are emotionally broken, and to heal yourself, you need a higher force, just talk to God,I don't say that u go regularly to Church or whatever, just talk to Him, and what about your parents and siblings? you can rely on them for support.There are a whole lot of people out there who are really really unfortunate, ever tried helping them out, there is nothing that makes you feel as good as helping other out. For a while look at the bigger picture, why am I here? what is the purpose of my life?, it will get better, my prayers are with you.

Answer 2

I'm sorry about what's happening to you. You are not the only one shedding a tear. There is so more heartache in the world.

I know that you know this, but this is what you get for marrying a stripper. That's they livehood and is the money that keeps them going. She must be hooked on the other man, do what's best and fight for costudy of your step children if she is an unfir mother.

For your own good, rebuild your life. It's possible and everyone is able to pull thru. Even if you are not religious, find comfort in God.

Sometimes suicide may seem as the best solution (if anyone knows it is me) but there are so many people that depend on you and you cannot affford to fail the, You have kids on your own and your stepdaughters. They look up to you, life is not only about what in between your legs, it's your heart and trying to make it and trying to live and cope when everything is falling apart.

You'll be better off without her, it's a blessing in disguise. Counseling and theraphy can help yu sort things out.

Good luck

Answer 3

#1, I think you are looking for love in all the wrong places--strip bars!

#2. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. There are people a lot worse off than you.

#3. Get yourself professional help. Maybe some anti-depressants.

#4. There are many nice available women in the world. Get out of the gutter and look around.

Answer 4

Hey .......stop feeling sorry for yourself! We all make choices in our lives and we live with our consequences.

You are a smart man! You feel deep and you love just as deep.
That gives you the opportunity to do wonderful things with your life. Give up??? Because 2 women couldn't keep their knickers up?

You let that other man or men win? You're not a weak man. You're strong.

Set some goals;
Get reaquainted with your biological children.
DO NOT, and I reiterate, do NOT visit strip clubs for Ms. Right.
Sweetheart, they all fall inlove with any man who walks through the door and I beg to differ with you......they are all hookers on stage and off stage.
They are money driven whores.

Do you see the big picture here? You are letting 2 women and their various "men" make you feel less than who you really are? You are allowing them to set limits on what you are fully capable of in your life.

Think about "YOU" and do for you! Your step daughters will always love you. But you do not need to sacrifice anymore of yourself for unappreciative relationships.

Life is precious. Do not allow others to live this life for you.

Answer 5

Instead of being a hopeless romantic, try being a HOPEFUL romantic. How old are you? I've been through 2 marriages already, one of 9 yrs with 2 kids and one with a man for 22 yrs with one kid. Now I'm with a man who left his wife of 38 yrs to be with me and his divorce is final in one week. we;ve been seeing each other for 2 yrs. Love does evenntually come even if we have to go through some rough patches to figure out,quit looking for love, let it find you. Thats a rare love that NOT to many people have. I'm glad I have it before I pass on. I'm 52 and still learning.Jesus LOVES you dude ...Cops are awesome...

Answer 6

life sucks for most people you just have to keep going and think tomorrow is a new day.Lost my mom 7 mons ago to cancer,found out my husband of 5 yrs has been cheating on me with a old gf from high school,my boss at work makes hitler look like a saint,just diagnosed with a rare skin cancer all this and i'm only 35 yrs old.

Answer 7

Please tell me you gave up the career as LEO! Why would you want to end your life? Whether or not you see your children, or lose your stepchildren, they are still going to have to live with your suicide, your chicken **** way out of the consequences for bad choices.

What is it with cops and strippers anyway?

Try this over and over...START OVER!!!

Answer 8

I am soooo sorry to hear of your troubles ..papi..please just try to start a new life..move on..have faith....put the lord first ..know that he will rescue you from your troubles....mi amor..dont take any of those stuff..live your life for you...you have a friend in me...
good luck..and I will pray for you..

Answer 9

C'mon man lifes too short. You just need to stop worrying about that crap. Good things come to people who wait. Keep your head up. You'll find someone that will make you happy.

Answer 10

Benefit of working things out with your wife: Hot monkey sex all night with the woman you love!!

Benefits of moving on: Hot monkey sex with new women all night long!!

sounds like a win win situation. Stop being so pessimistic...