Marriage & Divorce - 18 November 2006

Me and my boyfriend are plannning on getting married. We have everything in order but one thing he's Catholic and I consider myself....umm...Spiritual (I believe in God but not in a specific religion). We often had discussions on how we would raise our kids and we NEVER come up with a solution. What can we do? We our in love and we love eachother but how do we fix something this imporant?

2006-11-18 03:43:02 · 15 answers · asked by RachelVH 1

I see my 2 month old son about 2 hours a week because this is the only time I can make, not only has my wife made it supervised because of my drug problem but know she refuses to let my son meet my family because they to have drug problems. My family and I agreed to have supervised visits but she replied that I should be more concerned to get to know my son so that he is confortable with me and not just dropped in a room of strangers. I think this is crazy because he is 2 months old and has no idea who anyone is besides I am his father. She says that if I spent more time with him then she would let him meet everyone but until he knows me she wont worry about his relationship with my family is this fair?

2006-11-18 03:39:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can it still be considered cheating if the
aggrieved partner seeks companionship, albeit without sex, with
another man or woman?

2006-11-18 03:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by Piemu Esquire Team 2

we dont sleep together any more but i want sex. should i have affairs. hes not really bothered about sex as he was a virgin at 38 when we met. im bored.

2006-11-18 03:31:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sick, mildly depressed and suffer greatly from fatigue. Been married over 30 years. For years she was depressed and seriously overweight. I adjusted for her back then --she doesn't agree that I did it enough. Then I got sick and she turned her life around. I've always found her beautiful. She now acts like I always wished she would, but would never say because I knew it would hurt her. She has a new flair, a new purpose, and I can't meet her needs. It's not just sex, it's life. When we had young kids I understood things had to be different, but they're grown. Now that we should finally have time to live the good life, I get sick. It's not fair to her that I can't be fun all the time, and it's not fair to me that she wants more than I can give. My depression comes more from her reaction to me than from being sick. She can't understand that just because I'm not upbeat all the time doesn't mean I don't want to be. My life is falling apart. I love her 100%. Any suggestions?

2006-11-18 03:30:18 · 19 answers · asked by Harry R 1

please my parents are getting divorced so what should i do im really depressed

2006-11-18 03:27:24 · 10 answers · asked by caitlyn 1

I am travlling out a lot for job. They communicate very frequnly than to me even in frond of me.

2006-11-18 03:09:34 · 7 answers · asked by mat 1

2006-11-18 03:07:40 · 20 answers · asked by ©smegma 1

True or false?

2006-11-18 03:01:01 · 33 answers · asked by Joanne 3

We have two children, he wants out to be on his own. I wanted out two years ago, he is always working almost 24/7, I didn't want anything to do with him, but I stuck it out and stayed. He's been seeing another girl age 22, he is 40..says nothing physical (other than sitting and hugging her, kissing her on the forehead) is going on with her, it was for companionship since i wasn't giving him any attention. The thing is he didn't act on this until i brought it to his attention that this girl had feelings for him. He could have left before but chose not to also. I've told him it wasn't right for him to be with this girl and to stay with me and the kids, if he continued to see her he would have to leave. A week later they both call it off. I find out three weeks later he still picks her up for work takes her home from work, I confronted him about it, he said he has been seeing her but it isn't as much as before. Same day he said no more contact will he have with her. Trust him or not over.

2006-11-18 02:58:28 · 19 answers · asked by Psyche 1

but am depressed i still love her but know she doesnt love me , i am trying to move on but its hard, i work alot so hard to meet another woman , any advise will help thx

2006-11-18 02:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by be real 1

I have lived here for three years now, having problems mostly during the months of Oct. and Nov., each fall I have been here. It goes on all year long, but seems so much worse during these months of the year. EXAMPLES: dogs watching something in the walls and growling and I can't see anything, the same drawer being pulled out and left open after I have closed it, moaning by a man that rings a bell for service to get me to the bedroom. There was a preacher man that used to live here, and died here. Finally got in touch with his granddaughter, whom mentioned he was a joker in life. Said he used to use a bell to ring for help when he was bedridden before he died. I seen his entity move across my television one night, twice, back and forth w/i 1 minute.

I don't think he wants to hurt my daughter and I, but it's just scary not knowing what it is - the "unknown" is a scary thing!!

2006-11-18 02:54:23 · 17 answers · asked by AngelEyez 1

2006-11-18 02:30:00 · 26 answers · asked by hotmail 1

Since my girl friend left me my entire life is a mes. I still love her but she allready has someone else (after only a month ). I need help plssssss

2006-11-18 02:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 02:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by neutral 2

2006-11-18 02:19:41 · 15 answers · asked by Gilmor 1

2006-11-18 02:14:27 · 21 answers · asked by mahesh w 1

I was with this guy for 5 years. We broke up for 2, but were best friends throughout. Got back together this year & want to get married, but I'm nervous. (btw, the reason we haven't gotten married before now is that we wanted to finish school & now I've gone to grad school so I want to wait until I'm out of that). Anyways, I love him and want to be with him...but marriage is making me scared and I distance myself from him and act weird. Is it normal to be nervous even though this is the person you want to be with? Maybe it's 'cause my parents got a divorce out of the blue that really affected me....anyways....

2006-11-18 02:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by it'sjustme 1

it started to change when are son was born. i could tell it was sex and not passion!!! he works alot and sometimes i dont have sex for 2 days or a week. i see that he really isnt intrestead in me. i have to talk nasty or give oral sex to get him to notice me.

2006-11-18 01:50:19 · 13 answers · asked by ~K!MB3RLY~ 1

I am divorced and have been for 3 years. My ex was controlling and abusive. He has custody of my child who is 14 and lives in another state.

My child is not doing well in school, so I asked my mother-in-law to send my child to me or persuade her son to give me custody of the child. She thinks that it would be better for me to come back and work with my ex to set up my house and be together as a family so that my child has both her mom/ dad with her.

She said that women age faster when they are alone. She really feels for me. She has a companion now and says that I should have found one in the 3 years that we have been divorced.

My ex does not want her to talk to me because he feels that I am not a good person - cause problems to everyone around and am not dependable.

I wonder if I should give any weight to her words. She seems to build her ego on me sometimes. She says that her strong point is communication while mine is that I don't talk enough.

2006-11-18 01:37:07 · 14 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2006-11-18 01:36:38 · 17 answers · asked by rasheed92 1

how long do marriage license last? do you have to get them renewed?

2006-11-18 01:31:38 · 10 answers · asked by FireFighter96 2

What is the real reason you got married?

2006-11-18 01:26:42 · 21 answers · asked by Einstein 7

hurt me last night real bad he left scratch marks and horrible looking marks on my neck and face. leading up to this is as follows... i have been stressed out about finances and since we moved in our new house 2 months ago he has had friends over everyday and i just wanted some "us" time last night, but it was his friends birthday and he wanted to come over, i said no. enough is enough! im tired i have to work tomorrow and dont want company. we argued and i ended up throwing a ceramic mug and plate and boke them both, my 1 1/2 year old was in the next room and heard it and came running and crying!! thats when he lost it he tackled me and started choking me bad and now i am at work with a turtleneck on and i am trying desperatly to hide these ugly marks on my neck and face! this has happened before but only when we get in real bad fights, wich has been only 2x before. we have 4 kids and he is an absolutly great man to me.. with the exception of this we have so much together what to do !

2006-11-18 01:26:40 · 21 answers · asked by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3

2006-11-18 01:24:51 · 13 answers · asked by . 6

i am a graduate.i love a boy who is having a job.he is stable financially.i want to marry him.he is also serious.i love my family too but i dont know how to tell them about us.i fear as they may say no to this marriage.he is elder to me by 9 yrs.but we are very much sure that we will be happy.he is not belonging to my culture.please tell me the nice way how to handle this.which will help me to keep everything balanced.how i can avoid hurting anyone.please help me.

2006-11-18 01:21:14 · 11 answers · asked by Angelina 27 2

is it really true that woman needs to be a hooker in the bed, very good cook in the kithen and a well dressed lady in the public?

2006-11-18 01:16:39 · 19 answers · asked by N 1

Abandon my daughter when tenia 5 months that I should do? Abandon my daughter when tenia 5 months and in spite of to have been so close it did not be going to see and nisiquiera asked for her I cannot be done that at this time to rectify my error or I should do me to a side so that have a true mother that want it and he respect it therefore I do not feel capable and I feel a lot of verguenza of face his father that has done charge of she forming a new family where my daughter already identifies a mother

2006-11-18 01:15:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

iI am and have been in love with a man i have known for sixteen years plus he also asked me to marry him,but i am very much already married and i love him ,please help i feel like i belong on springer!!

2006-11-18 01:14:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 00:46:43 · 27 answers · asked by Baha o 1