Marriage & Divorce - 18 November 2006

2006-11-18 09:11:01 · 27 answers · asked by kendra w 2

There was an old minister who disliked doing weddings on the hour. Because he felt. The clock was going down, So that was starting your marrige on the down. Where at the half hour the clock is going up. Which is lift to your new married life

2006-11-18 09:08:51 · 13 answers · asked by pandazoogurl 3

We have been married for 3 years and have a 2 year old who still sleeps with us and causing intamacy problems more with him than me. But it's not that big of a deal with him because he's fine with her sleeping with us. Whereas I want another baby! This is really tearing our relationship apart, but he doesn't know it. I try to tell him but he thinks having another baby is not a bid deal and doesn't want to hear it!! He's not there for me emotionally! I feel like i'm all by myself! He doesn't help raising our daughter, just plays with her!! I want to give him an ultimatume!! Me and another baby or nothing! HELP

2006-11-18 08:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by vetsmom_rgv 3

she has been having fantasies about a MFM experience. she wants me involved, although I am not very well endowled, could that be the reason she is having these fantasies?

2006-11-18 08:52:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who has been seeing a married man and the wife got suspicious and hired a private investigator and the wife now has proof (pictures). Is there ANY way that the man can get out of the marriage without her taking everything he has?

2006-11-18 08:45:59 · 13 answers · asked by countrygirl 1

I think it's really sad that people think that they need to cheat out their spouses because they don't want to try and work out differences in their relationship.

Just curious as to what you all think.

2006-11-18 08:44:49 · 21 answers · asked by Bryan M 5

who like to chat, get to know each other and having fun?

2006-11-18 08:39:07 · 10 answers · asked by phone_man_at_work 2

He works as an independent contractor and work has been very slow. So I'm the only one bringing in a decent check. He will use money out of the account without even telling me. He went and got a big screen tv before buying FOOD! What's wrong with him!? Every time he gets money, he spends it on stupid ****!

2006-11-18 08:31:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated a married man for 4 years, he ruined my life, continues to live his just fine. He wined and dinned me, bought me gifts and so on. I thought he really loved me, paid for me to divorce my husband (I have no family my husbands family was mine). He got me to leave them all behind. He always took care of me paid my bills, bought me what I needed. He promised me he was going to divorce his wife after his daughter was out of high school. Years later, lie after lie he never left his wife. He changed my life style from how I was to how he wanted me. After his daughter moved out he had no more lies, I wanted what he promised. One day I woke up and he disowned me. He has moved on to another women from CHURCH, still married to his wife (we live around each other) so I see him doing what he did for me with this other women. It is killing me. I have nothing and he still has everything! I have letters he wrote me telling me how he loves me and will always be there. How do I ruin his life ?

2006-11-18 08:30:48 · 15 answers · asked by badbackone 1

He's 52 and I'm 50, we adore each other and wish we had met sooner...

2006-11-18 08:26:01 · 23 answers · asked by Republican!!! 5

2006-11-18 08:19:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many people actually wait until they are married to have sex?

2006-11-18 08:09:43 · 16 answers · asked by kcbooboo6789 2

my family said they will not have any thing to do with me if i take him back..............what should i do?

2006-11-18 08:02:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

to have my computer friends? as long as we keep it clean? is this still cheating as long as they are just computer friends?

2006-11-18 07:58:06 · 35 answers · asked by iowa's 1

we have been married 13 years, and have two girls ages 13 and 11. He used to be physically abusive and he has always been verbally/emotionally abusive. I have raised the children they have never been in day care. Just a year ago I started working full time and he has become much more jealous now. He calls me horrible names in front of the children now, and spits on me, and throws beer on me. I have had enough and finaly feel financialy O.K. to leave as long as he is ordered to pay child support. I have rented a nice 3 bedroom house for the girls and I, and plan to move Dec. 1. They will be able to keep attending their same school, and have more friends in the neighborhood we're moving in. He has told me and the girls that they will not move out of their home and he will make sure of it, by "dragging" them out of school and making them stay with him. He said I can move out, but they can't. IThe girls cry and say they want to be with me. I can't afford an attorney, what do I do?

2006-11-18 07:55:08 · 26 answers · asked by toni m 1

Admit it or not...this is one of the reasons of divorce cases nowadays... some say it doesnt matter and some say it does matter...

2006-11-18 07:44:47 · 16 answers · asked by Cess B 2

It's our wedding anniversary soon, the only problem is our baby sitter has just lost her mum and will not be available. I would still like to have a memorable day nevertheless.

2006-11-18 07:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by swish 4

I have been married for 5 yrs. and I have a very special girlfriend who is also married. i think my husband knows of our relationship now. She is married too and my husband will tell her husband that we have been playing on the side. should we lie about our relationship and just tell them we are best friends and nothing more? or should we come right out with it? we love each other and don't want this to end! maybe we should just leave our husbands and be together?

2006-11-18 07:38:59 · 20 answers · asked by sissy 1

My husband is addicted to porn...as i have already told you in my previous questions. He is specially addicted to Filipina girls. He has dozens of them in his buddy list. They play sex shows for him. He sees them naked on the webcams. Once i saw a few pictures of girls other than philipinas, they were showing their private parts, it was very nasty. I mean specially they were showing their vaginal part. I felt really bad. I could not imagine my husband looking at such private things. Live webcams and chatting has made my life hell. I dont feel like having sex with him. He doesnt spend any time outside bz he has nothing much to do in the outside world as he is here in europe on a student visa. He doesnt study at all. He spends most of his time on the internet while i sleep. He knows it hurts me bt he doesn't quit. He looks for a chance when he can get online and do all this ****. I'm asian american and he expects me to take him to usa as he doesn't seem to have a future here in europe.

2006-11-18 07:32:56 · 16 answers · asked by mind 1

and i have 3 sets of triples now my sisters each want me two have their children my husband said if i do this he will leave me so how can i help them plesae give me advice how to help them and keep my husband of 35 years thanks

2006-11-18 07:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by crystalssonjosphen 1

Met a guy through the personals and we wrote notes every day for over a month and then met and have been going out for 2 1/2 months and been intimate a couple of times.
He recently booked a 4 day cruise for us [one cabin room].....and didn't tell me until he had already made the arrangements.
What does this mean and should I consider going?
He could always take someone else if I don't go and he wouldn't loose any $$ ?? Right?

2006-11-18 07:08:16 · 15 answers · asked by Patricia 4

My brother worked for Halliburton overseas for 25 years, and I know it's his choice to be married to her, but he was raised as a christian. I just can't understand how some women can use abortion for birth control. Any comments? My brother and I do not speak, because of issues concerning her inability to tell the truth-about anything!

2006-11-18 07:05:19 · 28 answers · asked by docie555@yahoo.com 5

Can you keep the addiction under control? I know my spouse has gone on binges about once a year. But that is the only time I am aware of his drug use. Is his mood changes the only way?

2006-11-18 07:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by Rhonda S 1

my husband chats with the girls on the internet. he has an addiction with porn. He has many hotmail and yahoo accounts with different names. He has this fake identity online; he doesnt tell girls about his real name and true identity. He defends himself by saying " I'm stressed out. I dont have a future in front of me, i want you to take me to america so i can earn money and have a better future for us, i sit on the internet because i'm very depressed and its just a way of deal with the stress. It is nothing real, its all fake." However, i dont buy his words. I still think its cheating. No matter what he is looking at live webcams where he sees naked women. I have caught him up talking to girls online and watching live webcam shows. I think this is all wrong. There is no excuse to all this. I'm American and he is an Asian. He badly wants to go to usa for a better future bt i'm afraid he might leave me once he gets there. He is stressed out bz i'm not taking him to usa. plz help me plz

2006-11-18 07:01:34 · 21 answers · asked by mind 1

okay i have a friend who is 38 with four kids and her husband is in prison.........he has been telling her that when he gets out he wants to try and have another baby. she does not want any more kids but cant tell him this now (while he is in prison) because he is very jealous and will automatically assume that she is having an affair and that is why she wants to tie her tubes........

...........so is there anything that she can say to her husband to make him believe that it was highly recommended for her to get her tubes tied?? like...they a cancerous or something??........she wants to do it while he is in there and just not tell him.....but she is scared that one day she will get sick or have an infection of some sort due to tying her tubes. and the drs will tell her husband ''well sir your wife's life is in danger because of tying her tubes'' he will freak out and be very upset with her for hiding it this long

so now that you know the story is there anything that she can say??

2006-11-18 06:55:27 · 13 answers · asked by bRoWn eYeD BuTTeRfLy®210~TX 6

I have two issues that I need help with:

My daughter is 14 and lives with her dad in another state. He has custody and we are divorced. She is not doing well in school and is lonely in life. He says that her habits are bad in terms of getting up in time for school, being organized, cleaning up after herself. I have asked him to send her to me, but he says that she makes a face and does not want to come. He says that I will be helpless in a few years when my parents are gone and I have a ruined daughter on my hands. How should I handle this issue?

The second issue is that a family friend who lives in another state talks okay to me on the phone, but I found out that she told another mutual friend not to help me look for a job. It would make that friend look bad since she is new on he job. She is two faced and I feel very disappointed about it. She routinely gossips about me and my issues to others. I don't know if I should tell her off or just ignore it.

2006-11-18 06:42:36 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

The ex-husband is on disability income, the ex-wife gets a check from SS for child support, but doesn't use it to buy the child clothes and school supplies and other things that the child really needs. When asked about it, she says that she uses it to provide food and shelter for the child. Isn't she and her now husband suppose to do that anyway with the income they get from their jobs? She and the present husband have two more children now, The present husband quit work and is not trying to get disability, and I am not sure what is wrong with him. Seems to me that he should provide some income, and that would be an income from him, an income from her, an income from SS, and the child is 17 now and working part time, providing a little for needs. I do the best I can, which can not be much since I am on disability. Am I suppose to do more when they are getting, or suppose to be getting 4 checks from 4 different sources?

2006-11-18 06:41:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am leaving a abusive marriage and going to southport does any one know of a cheap house to rent. ?

2006-11-18 06:40:18 · 7 answers · asked by tors 2

2006-11-18 06:37:12 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-11-18 06:32:46 · 11 answers · asked by Dali 1