Marriage & Divorce - 18 November 2006

well i don't ask for it alot, it just seems like it cuz she always has an excuse, what does that mean? does that mean she has a guy somewhere or she is just tired of me already. (we've been married for 12 years) i need some advice cuz it's getting me worried already , please (honest anwers) it's really bothering me already.

2006-11-18 16:32:01 · 49 answers · asked by jcslimer 2

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2006-11-18 16:31:04 · 6 answers · asked by Sir Gentleman 1

is there any bad effects on our memory power and or any other ?

2006-11-18 16:31:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What I can't understand is why she even came out of the kitchen to interrupt "my time" after work? Is this something she learned from a liberal socialist newspaper or brochure?

2006-11-18 16:25:32 · 19 answers · asked by trans fat is good! 2

I don't know why I put women only, who else would cook and serve the food? Anyways, my obvious mistake aside. What did you prepare for dinner for your husband or boyfreind tonight? And what are you doing looking over his shoulder at the computer screen?

2006-11-18 16:23:35 · 14 answers · asked by trans fat is good! 2

At one point in my marriage I was finding tons and tons of sexually explicit pictures on our home computer. I asked my husband about it and told him how it made me feel (which wasn't too good after two previous affairs). We made an agreement that he wouldn't save any more pictures to our computer which was fine with me. Another way to explain it, was that we agreed that he could look but he couldn't "hold onto" those pictures. Now he's got a pda and one of his buddies had been sending him pornographic pictures which I can deal with because boys with be boys. Now he's asking me if he can put some more on there. Shouldn't he honor our contract? And if he says it puts him in the mood to make love to me what is that supposed to mean? I feel like I don't turn him on anymore. How am I supposed to feel when we make love knowing he's only in the mood because of some "exotic" pictures on his pda?

2006-11-18 16:04:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am almost divorced, but my husband and I have started seeing each other again. The old problems we had are all but gone, and I DO see a change in him. Plus, he is and always has been sexier than anything or anyone I've ever seen and he sparks a fire in me that could melt me faster than lava.

But on the other hand, I have a boyfriend that I started seeing after I filed for divorce, and he is sweet, sensitive, considerate, intelligent, and very very supportive of me. He has never hurt me and goes so far as to anticipate my needs and see to them. He even knows I slipped and did it to my husband, but he doesn't know we are 'talking' again.

My husband wasn't the greatest guy when we were together, but he did have some good moments.

I am so torn. My husband is willing to wait and do whatever and give 200%, and my boyfriend HAS given that, and continues to give, and even when I deserve to be dumped and dogged out.

Who do I stay with, what do I do???

I love them both. =(

2006-11-18 15:49:27 · 18 answers · asked by lilac b 3

My sister, who is older than I, has five children. She is not living with them right now because she cannot afford to get a place of her own. She was staying in a shelter and she has always been on welfare. The oldest of her children calls me and tells me that the people she is staying with beats them and they don't get enought to eat and they don't have any clothes to wear to school. The girl is 9 years old.
There is too much going on for me to type everything but let me say this: my sister is a hoe and she has a different "boyfriend" every two weeks.
I feel so badly for these kids because they are my blood. So much so that I am to the point where I'm just going to call children services and have them go into the system. I have already spoken to the department of children affairs and they told me what I need to do to get custody of them. But it will take awhile because I live in a different State.
I am married and I have no kids, my husband has a good career and I want to finish

2006-11-18 15:29:50 · 42 answers · asked by asia c 1

My youngest 10 grandchildren have learned to be very MOUTHY and have bad attitudes . How should I handle this when they are in my care? Believe it or not --their mothers are twin sisters and are loud bossy and controlling--One of my sons is loud and but loves kids and is somewhat of a perfectionist , but the other is quiet and lets wife control everythng. I do not want to punish the kids but don not want to be disrespected--Help!! I am 65 --my kids are 41 and 46-daughter-in -laws are 30 and did not have a high school education . I get along well with all of them and go with the flow. Please know that I DO NOT want control of anything or anyone . I just don't want the kids to be so negative and ungreatfull for all the wondeful ways their lives are good in . They can use some pretty nasty language and sign language,,, you know what I mean .

2006-11-18 15:28:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is in an unhappy marriage. She wants to come home. She wants somebody in the family to fly to where she lives and help her pack her & her 2 kids' clothes up & help her drive a U-Haul back home. Problem is everybody works. The only thing we could do is drive to the nearest airport 4 hours away & pick her up at the airport. She lives in Illinois & Most of our family lives in Nevada. She is Materialistic & doesn't want to leave her stuff behind. She has called 3 times in 2 moths and said I want to come home & I have made arrangements to get her here & she calls a day or so later & says "things are good now" I know her husband very well knew him before they got married & he's not abusive. THe unhappy marriage is they don't communicate & they both make MOUNTAINS out of MOLEHILLS! I Love my sis & would like to help her, but when I only make 30,000 a year I live from paycheck to paycheck & can't help her & the rest of the family is in the same boat! What would you do?????

2006-11-18 15:24:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were married for six yrs. We've been divorced for three yrs. and have a seven yr. old daughter. For the past year he has called me everyday (almost) and talks to me like we are best friends, we've always managed to be friends. This past month he's been talking about getting back together. This week he came over and we had sex and acted like we were married again. The thing is, I've been through some rough relationships and so has he, and this has left me feeling skeptical. I wonder does he just want sex or what? We haven't discussed where this going from here b/c we said we would just see how it works out. But, I'm wondering if he is playing games on me like the rest of the men have? I'm just an honest person and I don't like games so instead I'm at the receiving end all the time.

2006-11-18 15:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by precious girl 1

Ok, my husband thinks tha he doesnt have 2 do any of the house-work! He refuses to do ANYTHING! What should i do?

2006-11-18 15:21:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Children are said to be very adaptable, but is that always true?

2006-11-18 15:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4

as of 11pm that night... I pay child support for my 3 children, now that my income has come to a STAND STILL, does anyone know what will happen, will i still have to pay the same amount per week, or will it go down? etc. etc.... I have no clue and am curious since I can't get in touch with a lawyer until Monday... thanks

2006-11-18 15:12:28 · 7 answers · asked by Mischelle 1

Here is the thing I have a long distance relationship with a wonderful guy... We have been talking to each other for over two years... We just started to talking on the phone... The first week of talking to him on the phone was great he always answered the phone... But the last week of talking on the phone with him he has answered maybe once every other day... I dont know if Im calling too much and he does want to hurt me or what...Why would this guy do this to me?

2006-11-18 15:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by melissa_spear2005 2

My mom wants to divorce my father but he thinks that he can fix everything. The thing is my father has done not really nice stuff behind her back. She is furious but is only with him so that they can sell the house. She also doesn't want to start problems so that in the end he will get that it won't work out. To make a very, very, very long story short, I would like to know how some of you dealt with it. I need HELP. I feel like the only person with this. I cry myself to sleep and my father is trying to be so nice to me. He wants to buy me. It is so annoying. I need help. Please don't let me be the only one with this problem. Anything is acceptable. Thank you.

2006-11-18 15:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by Elena 2

My man is on the shy side when it comes to love making,any suggestions?

2006-11-18 15:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

he had an affair had a child now we are separated in texas who will get more child support me with 3 kids are her

2006-11-18 15:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by swabby 1

before they get tired of having sex? How old do they get before they get tired of jackin it??

2006-11-18 15:00:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When me and my husband were dating, he was flowers every day, could not get enough of me. Now its like eah are you still here. I love him, but I need some major romance in my life. I want the man I was dating to make me feel like a woman. Tell me how I can get him to kick it in high gear and get busy making me feel like the sexy mama I am?????

2006-11-18 15:00:19 · 17 answers · asked by May_May 2

When I got married I left my life behind. I am only in my early twenties still. I've been trying so hard to focus all my energy in being a good mother, I haven't managed to do much for myself, like making new friends. I feel very lonely. My husband is a great provider, but he is just not there emotionally. He just prefers if i don't complain at all. After I've held it all in for so long, everytime we try to discuss a tricky topic we get into a big fight and he says i am yelling and then he doesn;t want to hear anything anymore and he just walks away. So nothing gets resolved and he thinks it's all better the next day, because he can't stay mad for long. But the problem is still there. I hate doing housework endlessly. It insults my intelligence. He hardly helps with our baby. He thinks it's my job to do it all, because he pays for everything. I feel trapped, unhappy and falling out of love with my husband. He works from home during the day, but i am literally on call 24hrs a day! Help!

2006-11-18 14:50:29 · 33 answers · asked by lulu 2

I need to know what the calculations are for child support in Alabama..Please help or tell me how I can find out by Sunday night..ALL offices are closed on the weekends and HE wants mediation. Thank you in advance!!

2006-11-18 14:48:05 · 6 answers · asked by heandI 3

2006-11-18 14:45:26 · 13 answers · asked by nltnlv 2

I'm asking cause the man who wan my doctro advised me to find another doctor cause he wanted to date me. We're dating I've heard that doctor shouldn't date their patients. I'm not his patient anymore, is it allright to date him? I'm seeing another doctor already but anyways we've been going out and we're not ready to let people know we are.

2006-11-18 14:41:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I come from religious bakgrounds except my family is a lot more religious and controling than his. My family would not stand for it. "Shacking" as it is termed is believed to be a sin. I don't think it's the act of living together, but what happens when lovers live in the same house and sleeping in the same bed. We have a baby together, but to my family there's a difference between committing a sin and living in sin daily. We have never spent the night together because of the respect (or fear) I have for my family. We plan to be married within the next 2 years, but he thinks it's a good idea to live together first to really know what we are getting ourselves into.
FYI: We're in our mid 20's and we both have great careers, if that makes a diff.

2006-11-18 14:28:52 · 30 answers · asked by Mama Jack the Navy Wife 3

divorced and can't bring myself to go out alone. Any suggestions? In Rhode Island, no idea what there is to do.

2006-11-18 14:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by justcurious 2

I just asked my co worker to be my "friend with benefits." So, we spent our lunch break having sex at another friend's house. I'm totally fine with idea except that we are both married. My marriage is crappy anyway and my husband is always gone for weeks at a time and that is why I went looking for something else. I don't know about his marriage but I don't expect anything from him but sex. We discussed it thoroughly before actually doing anything. Do you think this situation can actually work???

2006-11-18 14:18:31 · 26 answers · asked by jacemo 6

So, I just wanted to know the opinion of the sophisticated users of yahoo! on the matter of poligamy.


Just tell me everything that comes to mind about poligamy and justify why u think it's right or wrong!

2006-11-18 14:17:51 · 11 answers · asked by jonsinher 4

My grandfather is taking a second wife who is younger than him and he already has most of what you would get a young couple for their wedding since he has been married so long. Their marriage won't be legal since my grandfather is already married to my grandma but it will be a spiritual and physical marriage instead. He says he wants to have atleast 3 more children. That would be so neat!! I will get to help raise my aunts and uncles..teehee :) Anyways, because of their large age difference I am looking for something they both will use and enjoy. My husband says he wants me to get them a book called Loving Domestic Discipline found at this website http://www.lovingdd.blogspot.com. This girl is my best friend from church and I know sometimes she will need firm hand and some discipline by grandpa but I was hoping to get them something a little more sweet than that. My husband says I can get them something else if I want. What should I get them?

2006-11-18 14:02:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my wife separated 2 months ago It was her choice. She met a guy a month ago and he has been staying there the last 2 weeks. I want her back Even know of what she has done. I call her begging to let me come home. I know thats just pushing. I am going to try to stop that. Will her new relationship last? What is the best thing I can do rite now to have a chance of getting her back?

2006-11-18 14:00:23 · 22 answers · asked by William T 1