Here is the thing I have a long distance relationship with a wonderful guy... We have been talking to each other for over two years... We just started to talking on the phone... The first week of talking to him on the phone was great he always answered the phone... But the last week of talking on the phone with him he has answered maybe once every other day... I dont know if Im calling too much and he does want to hurt me or what...Why would this guy do this to me?
2006-11-18 15:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by melissa_spear2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1) he could be busy. maybe something in his schedule changed. for instance when i was with my ex she would answer my calls most of the time. but then her aunt got sick and she spent alot of time in the hospitol and barley answered the phone for a while.
2) maybe he is hiding something
3) maybe he wants to break up but doens't know how to tell u,
if u wnat honosty its not gonna be good. don't get your hopes up. and good luck. i hope u find someone who treats u better.
2006-11-18 15:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard. Who knows why he isn't calling you back. Maybe he is married or already has a girlfriend and can't call you back. I would stop calling and let him call you. I am assuming you have been talking through IM or email since you stated that you just started talking on the phone.
Take a break and don't call or send an email. See if he contacts you.
2006-11-18 15:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Denise G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has met someone and doesn't want to hurt your feelings or feels guilty about it. Your best bet would be next time he answers the phone just ask him straight out what is up with him. If he has met someone else surely he will be able to be honest with you. I mean after all it is not like he is talking to you face to face. And also you don't live close to each other so it is a possibility that he has started to see somebody isn't it ?? Hope all works out well for you one way or another.
2006-11-18 15:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be negative but when they don't have time to answer the phone for there partner usually something is up either some body else is sleeping in his bed or he is just being a dog and is on some other stuff and doesn't want to be bothered. Either way you need to investigate cuz that what we do best is find dirt.
2006-11-18 15:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Louisa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are unpredictable. Dont take it seriously.
2006-11-18 15:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up your minutes and keep calling.
relationships over the phone get old real quick.
try to find a real one.
2006-11-18 15:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't want to up set you but there could be many reasons why he don't answer he could be a sleep or just don't want to be bothered i was told that if he don't answer after 2 calls then he don't want to be bothered don't get your self up set
2006-11-18 15:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by gchgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distant relationships suck find you a man within reasonable distance
2006-11-18 15:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes trying to say its over just read between the ='s
2006-11-18 15:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by TYRA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every day? you have burnt him out already! slow down now and let him call you or contact you.
2006-11-18 15:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋