Marriage & Divorce - 18 November 2006

My husband has gave me a second chance and we are going to counseling. This letter was the counselor suggestion so his family can understand his decision since they were there for him after I did this to him. But the counselor wont read it and I'm a horrible writer .

2006-11-18 19:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by jane 1

Dear family,

I know you guys are upset, and writing this letter is very difficult for me. I apologize for crossing the line by cheating, and can only imagine how angry you must be with me. Though sometimes a sorry can't fix everything, I am truly, deeply sorry for what I did, and promise never to repeat my mistake. My intentions are to spend my life trying to make it up to you guys and especially to him. I am ashamed as his wife and one of your family members for my actions and sincerely want to regain yours and his trust. you my not believe I deserve a secong chance with him, but I still ask that you please forgive me.

Sincerely,


Is this okay?

2006-11-18 19:21:32 · 37 answers · asked by jane 1

2006-11-18 19:13:40 · 20 answers · asked by HM 3

Will be there soon..

2006-11-18 18:53:12 · 3 answers · asked by JOHNNY D 3

I'm in love and have been dating this guy for 2 and a half years. Now, after putting in so much effort, we've got our parents to meet up and discuss our wedding.

I'm terrified of the responsibilties, and I'm scared. Maybe it's because I'm stepping out of my comfort zone, my territory?

I'm nervous, and frightened. It's a turning point in my life.

I can't be the only one now, can I?

2006-11-18 18:49:04 · 7 answers · asked by Yvonne Mystic 4

It all started a few weeks ago, he started hitting on me at work. But he's married! I am seriously starting to fall for him because he says sooo many nice things to me, it really makes me feel good about myself. I know, I know, don't fall for that kind of stuff, but I just can't help it. My bf of 4 years is completely not on the same page as I am, and I think that's what's drawing me to this guy. I have tried talking with my bf about my feelings and things like that, but of course, he doesn't seem to care. I'm just wondering if anyone else has had this happen to them and what they did.

2006-11-18 18:34:36 · 24 answers · asked by Honey_Bun 1

I ask this hypothetically. I am sure many guys like their wives or gf to remain young and beautiful forever.

However, do you forsee a problem that may arisen if your wife can never grow old? Do you think you can keep up with her if you become old and she is still young? Do you think she will remain faithful if you were to grow old but SHE WILL NEVER AGE?

Just asking.

2006-11-18 18:30:32 · 14 answers · asked by GeorgeRock 2

My wife up and left me the other week and she is due in 2.5 weeks with our first child. After talking to friends and family, i went to her doctors office to speak with the doctor. Long story short, i ended up being arrested and charged. So now she has our baby, the dog, the house and all my stuff. I cant even get home to get my toothbrush and clothes. We just bought our first house last month as well. This is crazy!!!!!!! What should i do?

2006-11-18 18:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by n m 1

I know alot of people go on there to chat with their friends and that's great, but why in the world do people use it to cheat? There are people who are married or in relationships who make separate pages to meet people, using different names. What's the point of that? Someone is going to catch you eventually!

2006-11-18 18:24:00 · 9 answers · asked by frustrated 3

2006-11-18 18:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by redneck_rebellion101 2

If they had filed in another State?

2006-11-18 18:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by Out N AZ 1

i am married 5 years to a wonderful man. but been having an affair with my best g/f! after all the advise on here , i have decided to end it! how do i tell her i love my husband and it is over with us?

2006-11-18 18:08:34 · 19 answers · asked by sissy 1

"Your love is my sheild from this cold world and forever i will hide untill our hearts die."

“I feel like running away from it all, but I’ll just hide in ur heart until the day I die”

"Your hands is capturing every little pain inside of me; without you I hurt"

2006-11-18 18:05:31 · 12 answers · asked by Tbaby 3

I get to be a stay at home mom and be with my son, I get money to spend and I have ben with him 4 years.
BUt iam not happy, I am longing for something else and it isnt him or anyone else for that matter.
The thing is almost a year ago he physically assualted me (like beat up) and I almost called the cops on him, but then he pretty much begged me not to and he would change...since then he hasnt done anything.
But I am afraid that incident seriously deleted any loving feelings I had with him and I have been living a lie since then.
I have told him this, and he said he doesnt want me to leave or care that he is living a lie.
I dont know what to do.

2006-11-18 18:00:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my girlfriend have been through a lot... family problems, racism, school and work. we're both19 and she's helped me become a success in my mind, being able to support myself financially and manage school at the same time. I have always tried to be there for her... when she was lost in another city i drove 3 hours to get her... and she's stayed up countless nights giving me moral support when i'm working @ 3.am. I'm only 19 but for the past 7 months i've basically not been sleeping and working close to 15 hours a day almost everyday. Recently it paid off and i've made enough money to almost buy a small house. Now im not super rich, but last week i bought a very expensive ring for her because i love her and i'm thinking of asking her to marry me. both our parents dont approve of our relationship because my parents are traditional chinese and hers are traditional italian but i dont care and neither does she... so would it be wrong to propose to her considering all of this?

2006-11-18 17:58:57 · 17 answers · asked by ilovecoronaaa 1

I already have the ring, and I know she's the one. I need some ideas on how to pop the question. Any ideas? I'm looking for something creative and not cheesy....

2006-11-18 17:57:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jon S 2

actions, or promises make you feel better?
Which ones would make you feel better?

Thanks.

2006-11-18 17:53:35 · 9 answers · asked by Muse 4

MY FRIEND HAS DECIDED SHE IS NOT HAPPY WITH HER HUSBAND ANYMORE AND WANTS A DIVORCE......SHE SAYS HER HUSBAND SAID HE WILL NEVER SIGN ANYTHING AND IF SHE FOUGHT FOR A DIVORCE HE WOULD NEVER LET HER GET THEIR 4 YR OLD GIRL(HE SAYS SHE WILL NEVER GET HER BECAUSE SHE HAS NO WAY OF SUPPORTING BOTH OF THEM).SHE IS SO DESPERATE....SHE SAYS SHE JUST MIGHT TAKE HER DAUGHTER AND RUN.......I AM TRYING TO TALK HER OUT OF THAT.....BUT SHE SAYS ITS HER ONLY OPTION ...HE WOULD NEVER AGREE WITH THE DIVORCE AND WOULD NEVER LET HER TAKE THEIR GIRL......HOW CAN I MAKE HER FEEL BETTER AND WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF SHE DID RUN OFF WITH THEIR GIRL........WOULDN'T SHE JUST GET INTO MORE TROBLE..?! CAN ANY ONE HELP ME IN TELLING HER WHAT TO DO? THIS IS SERIOUS.....THANKX

2006-11-18 17:51:34 · 13 answers · asked by aliyah 3

2006-11-18 17:42:24 · 30 answers · asked by Q T 2

I was involved with a married person before. I admit it was a big mistake and I know I was stupid. Anyways, he migrated halfway across the world and I was left here which I think is a good thing. We need to be separated anyway. However, I really get very lonely sometimes and feel very bad. I guess I need some good advise or any senseful opinion as how to move on.

2006-11-18 17:40:48 · 9 answers · asked by Fireworks 1

My husband and I are very close and very much still in love. over the years we've done alot of fun stuff in our bedroom and out of our bedroom. I'm a very mature 32 year old wife. But i'm sad to say I've run out of ideas. So please only mature tasteful answers!

things that normal healthy married couples do weve done- strip clubs together; masueses- ETC - Ive done them- every room in are home and every position. we've done.

2006-11-18 17:39:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

After getting married did ever you thought that u have made a big mistake, if yes then what make u think so?

2006-11-18 17:36:50 · 16 answers · asked by SshadabB 1

i want to know the reson why most of the tamilians wont like love marriage............

2006-11-18 17:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by prag 1

Me and my husband are having a really bad argument and he is trying to take the baby away from me. I want to move to another state and he is trying to say that he is going to take me to court and take the baby i need some info on what he can and cant do. Please help before he takes him away from me. Can he just take him please help.

2006-11-18 17:36:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 17:35:48 · 17 answers · asked by bunnygirls3 1

What would make you feel better if your women keeps messing up for the 1000 time and you are weary at heart and overly frustrated.

A.) She looks in your eyes and shares with you a deep conversation stating why she decided to change her behavior and take care of you

B) Deep Conversation and actions of comfort afterward like massages and holding and looking very pretty

C) To the point converstaion and actions and a vow on what she will do for now on like never disrespect ou again

D) No Conversation and just actions and a vow

E) Just Actions

F) Just a vow


Thank you. Have to make my boyfriend feel better. I really appeciate it.

2006-11-18 17:35:30 · 3 answers · asked by Muse 4

2006-11-18 17:31:50 · 16 answers · asked by Jonathan I 1

I was in love with a man 15 years back. But, I'm married to another man and staying in another city now. Though I always try to forget him, but I just can't, I always remember him. I don't have any contact with him. I don't know if he still loves me. Even after all these years of my marriage to another man, just thinking about him gives me goose bumps and I feel happy just to visualize his face. My husband is caring and loving, still the other man's thoughts just follwing me like a shadow.
Am I fantasizing? Am I in love? What's wrong with me? Please help.

2006-11-18 17:11:40 · 16 answers · asked by Just4YA 2

We haven't had sex for 3 weeks.Previous to that it had been 3 months.I come on to him and try to get him interested,but it doesn't work.He even gets a little irritated sometimes with me.I usually end up just sitting up late and crying.I feel like just leaving sometimes.Please help!

2006-11-18 17:11:14 · 31 answers · asked by brownifox2000 2

I want to file for divorce but I am unsure if I should get a lawyer, hire a paralegal or try to do it myself to save $$$. We are not fighting about anything so it should be pretty easy. Anyone have any insight?? Thanks!!!!!

2006-11-18 16:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by S N 1