My husband and I are very close and very much still in love. over the years we've done alot of fun stuff in our bedroom and out of our bedroom. I'm a very mature 32 year old wife. But i'm sad to say I've run out of ideas. So please only mature tasteful answers!
things that normal healthy married couples do weve done- strip clubs together; masueses- ETC - Ive done them- every room in are home and every position. we've done.
2006-11-18 17:39:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife and I just had our 17th wedding anniversary. One thing we recently started doing is text messaging eachother sexy messages during the day. She really caught me by surprise not too long ago I was out at football practice with the boys and she left me a message telling me exactly what she was going to do with me when I got home and the kids were put to bed. It was a real turn on and reminded me of when we would leave eachother 'notes'. I guess because I was out in public and she knew it, it was even more of a surprise.
We were at a Halloween party last month and while we were driving home she asked me to pull over because she had to have me right then. So, we believe me I found a place and we got busy in the mini van.
It doesn't always have to be a big to do, just knowing your partner wants you and often is always a turn on.
2006-11-18 17:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Guinness Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a little out there but if works for us. My hubby and I had a membership to a swingers club in our area. NO WE DON"T SWING. But it was a nightclub on the first level and then a no holds barred on the second and third. It was always an extreme turn on to be around people with no inhibitions and were willing to let you watch or join in if you wanted to. We never joined in or invited anyone even though we spent quite a bit of time explaining that we didn't swing we just felt that it added some serious spice to our marriage.
Imagine new positions and things to do that were constantly being performed in fornt of you. Talk about wonderful visual effects.
That's my two cents. We have been talking about maybe getting another membership.
2006-11-19 12:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by You know who i am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can aford it, get a hotel room with a big hot tub in it and make love in the hot tub.
Another idea is if your bathtub is big enough that you both can take a bath together, try that and see where things lead from there. Have candles lit near the tub, and maybe some insence burning, also maybe some rose petals in the tub as well.
It's a start to what could come later.
Hope that this helps.
2006-11-19 01:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come home one day with two RT tickets to Kauai. Make sure that you stay at a hotel that will pamper both of you with massages, incredible food, romantic sunsets, hikes to the rain forests, a luau, and other adventures. This is not for a birthday or an anniversary. It is for love.
As far as sexually special, I would suggest looking onto Tantric sex. It is very intense and will light your first and torches well into the night,
2006-11-19 01:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, why come here.. Something special does not have to be sexual. Why not meaningful, done with a lot of thoughtfulness, considerate, spontaneous why not reach for something more soulful...
Try to connect on a different level whether it is intellectual, musical. I commend you for experiencing and fulfilling your sexual fantasies, but have you consider experiencing something different with him ? There is only so much lust that a person can have. Most relationships these days seems to be trite and couples have nothing much to say for or about each other than that they are active in bed.
Deviate this year.. you'll be amazed.....
All the best..
2006-11-19 01:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Wei r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent / Buy a variety of porn...
Buy him a card, and on the card write...
"Happy Fantasy Day....I am yours for XX hrs....Anything goes..
Satisfy your every desire & fantasy...Love, your wife..
Give him the card & porn some evening over a few drinks..
Tell him that the time begins whenever he wants..
Tell him that you will bring another girl for a 3some if he wishes..
Only you may invite the other girl and he may never contact or invite any girls on his own....Never involve other men...
2006-11-19 01:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you explored anal sex on him? There might be some BDSM clubs, groups in your area you two could explore. A little reverse roll playing.
2006-11-19 01:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by skooter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can get over your gag reflex, if you haven't already. If you can, take him all the way into your throat until your nose touches his belly, then stick out your tongue and lick his nuts at the same time. To him, it'll feel better than regular penetration.
2006-11-19 01:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by kensval 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried making love whilst standing in a hammock?
2006-11-19 03:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by bkk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try buying the book "Kama Sutra" It has different sexual positions for everyday of the week!
Enjoy~
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0446691275/ref=pd_cp_b_title/102-8084893-8060945
http://www.amazon.com/Kama-Sutra-Year-Sensational-Positions/dp/159233105X/ref=pd_ecc_rvi_2/102-8084893-8060945
2006-11-19 01:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋