2006-11-18 18:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by redneck_rebellion101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, it's pretty normal to think of others when you're married. I'm sure your wife thinks of others too. As your marriage goes on, that "thinking of others" will be taken into the bedroom too! It's completely normal! Why do you think people role play? You're not a drone! People appreciate the beauty of people so checking others out is ok. Where you can get into trouble is if you act out on any of those thoughts; but that's a completely different topic. Lusting is one of the deadly sins but truthfully, it's gonna happen... get real. Again, it's normal, providing that your fantasies of others doesn't continually interfer with your daily routines... and providing that the women you are thinking about arn't freaking ugly, or fat, or ugly and fat!... or are midgets!.. especially ugly, fat, midgets!! Wow! Cause that's NOT healthy, bud! That's just sick! Yeah, and no really, really, young girls, or really, really old women-grandma types...that's pretty sick too bud! OH!..and it's o.k. as long as you're talking about LIVE women! No stiff, cold-stone dead chicks! That's really warped, bud! Other than those exceptions, I think it's fine! Oh hey bud, there is something else to add.... when a lady catches your eye and you decide that she's your new night-time think-about, make certain that she's a SHE not a man.... no drag queens! Cause if you're into dudes then forget everything I just told ya and go find yourself a freakn midget, ya sick ratbastard!!!!!
2006-11-18 18:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat: "I distinctly vowed to love and to cherish this ++++." Repeating helps stop the sequels. Martin Luther once said something to the effect that no one can stop the sparrows from flying overhead, but we are responsible to keep them from building nests there."
God's speed.
2006-11-19 02:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap Yourself
2006-11-19 02:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple! Stop thinking, you are already married.
2006-11-19 02:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by bisoy51 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Focus your energy on the beautiful lady who wears your ring.
And since you have filet minion, who wants that crappy green balogna?
2006-11-19 02:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife, you will ignore it. If you act on it, then you are immature...and should be in a committed relationship.
2006-11-19 02:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can think of them as long as you dont 'touch them' .. Its natural but just control yourself.. I guess
2006-11-19 02:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Prettytrinigyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about something more positive.
2006-11-19 02:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by GeorgeRock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell about it to your wife and she will know what to do.
2006-11-19 02:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the problem lies with the existing wife.....lol...somewher the wife lacks ,that y he dreams of others....
2006-11-19 02:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Suresh s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋