I'm in love and have been dating this guy for 2 and a half years. Now, after putting in so much effort, we've got our parents to meet up and discuss our wedding.
I'm terrified of the responsibilties, and I'm scared. Maybe it's because I'm stepping out of my comfort zone, my territory?
I'm nervous, and frightened. It's a turning point in my life.
I can't be the only one now, can I?
2006-11-18 18:49:04 · 7 answers · asked by Yvonne Mystic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What you are doing is perfectly normal. A thinking person can become extremely trepedatious before a marriage. It is a big step, at least for people who cherish the relationship of marriage. Everyone wants the marriage to turn out so both parties are happy and live a long and contented life. Think this out very carefully, but one day you must come to a decision to either marry or not. This will depend upon so many factors well beyond "love" which is nice to have in an association, however, love slowly grows old and some time disappears. What is left? Two people with basically the same likes and dislikes. Two people who can talk to one another even very late at night when they are tired. Two people who care and share emotions and fears. There is so much to a marriage. You should be afraid to take that final step, but if you share many things with him and he is basically a nice person, kind, treats his parents with love, and seems to adore you, what the heck. Take the plunge.Good Luck!
2006-11-18 19:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by wunderkind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a very normal feeling, don't worry, as long as you love each other you will be OK
Marriage is not easy, just like anything else in life, starting a new job is not easy, moving to a new town is not easy, having kids is not easy,...etc , it is something new in your life, but it is something nice, you are going to share the rest of your life with someone you love, just enjoy the new feeling and take care of each other, you will soon feel great and congratulations
2006-11-19 03:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pre-wedding jitters are normal. Being terrified is the sign of trouble!
If your fiance is also your best friend (which he should be), I would sit down and talk with HIM about your feelings. Ask him how HE feels.
Marriage is all about good communication and if you talk to us or your other friends instead of your man...marriage is not for you.
Ask yourself...what is it really that you are afraid of?
2006-11-19 02:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get on Yahoo Answers relationships. After reading the questions and answers from women(maybe women feel the same about men), I know I never want to get married.
2006-11-19 02:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
calm down.... your ok. you love him right? well from what you said you do and you know love can do anything. it can. your fine ever one feels like this at some time. but the thing is. you love him and it will work out just fine. trust in someone you have never met. it will be ok.
2006-11-19 02:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, what are the responsibilities that come with marriage that do not come with adult life? I don't get it. Unless you still live with mom and dad?
2006-11-19 02:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not.
2006-11-19 02:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋