After getting married did ever you thought that u have made a big mistake, if yes then what make u think so?
2006-11-18 17:36:50 · 16 answers · asked by SshadabB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Overall, no. When my spouse and I argue, there are times when I have this fleeting thought. Keep in mind I said "fleeting". It was just a reaction because I was angry at the time. But I consider my marriage one of the best things I did in my life.
2006-11-18 17:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the most part no, I've never been sorry that I married my wife. Sure once in awhile when we get upset with eachother you may have a fleeting thought or two. But no real genuine thought that I would ever want to leave the relationship. I married my best friend, there isn't anything we can't talk about or discuss. And these days with the world the way it is it's great to have a home that is a safe haven where you can just be...
2006-11-19 01:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Guinness Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first couple of years can be rough because you are adjusting and often are young and immature. I had occasional "what if I made a big mistake" moments. The great thing about marriage is that if you really love someone and stick with them through the tough times, your love for each other grows and you are rewarded with a much deeper relationship. These days too many people give up and don't ever get to that point.
2006-11-19 02:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you expected too much of your married, then that's the time you think you had committed an big error for choosing a wrong wife. Just try to accept her instead and learn how to live with her. Try to guide her into becoming a good wife to you. Attitudes change for good. It's does not mean you junk her in to a garbage?
2006-11-19 02:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married a year and a half now and were together for several years prior to that. I do not regret getting married to him. My husband is my very best friend and I love him dearly. I think though, that it is natural to wonder about what one has "given up"... call it the "grass is greener" way of looking at things. I think the important thing is to find someone with whom you enjoy talking, who shares your values and who has hopes and dreams for an exceedingly bright future together. It has been said before, but communication is really important. And don't go to bed angry.
2006-11-19 01:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ever. been married for almost 6 yrs now and proudly to say that I'm very happy to share my life with him. yes, there're ups and downs but hey, that's life. if you ever regreted marrying him or her then both of you should sit down together and discuss the matter eye to eye. nobody shouldn't regret on thier marriege and if they are then they shouldn't be married at the first place. when you start to regret then things will start to fall apart bits by bits.
2006-11-19 01:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by freegowalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I never felt like it was a mistake, and I love my wife more now than I did the day I married her.
She's been such a blessing in my life. And can't imagine my life without her.
2006-11-19 01:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I thought that I might live to age 80 and have to be with the person for 60 years.
2006-11-19 01:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by chillsister 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, similar to buyer's remorse or post-nuptial cold feet. i think it is due to the person. to me, any movements away from my single and free twenties was a mark of my youth's death and transition into adulthood. i realized that it was normal when my friends disclosed that they went through the same turbulent emotions. so it was just an internal conflict with my inner child and my adult self. i'm still married and currently struggling with the kids or no kids issue.
2006-11-19 05:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by annamolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m not married But still i wish to give answer.
I know after marriage i can spend my life at just seeing my wife eyes.
2006-11-19 02:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by shadab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋