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they want to be honest or they just want an excuse to leave the wife

2006-11-18 19:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 2 1

Jump ship. Some men will tell a woman anything to get them to feel sorry for them and go to bed with them. How do you know she is really having an affair? Have you seen her having one? He doesn't want to lose his assests his children, etc. If he really wanted you he would divorce his wife, but remember if he is willing to cheat on her what would keep him from cheating on you. Once a cheater always a cheater. Find yourself and then find someone that makes you happy.

2016-03-29 01:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because there were problems in the marriage before the affair and he has tried to address those issues with his S.O. and she has blown him off and blown him off as if the world is just fine. Through chance, he fell into the arms of a woman who would listen and be sympathetic. But he wants to straighten out the relationship with his S.O. and tells her to finally get her attention away from her narrow little world of all is fine and dandy.
Then she hates him and runs to her girlfriends that trash him and tell her to leave him and take him for everything he has.
This is the condensed version

2006-11-18 19:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rickard 3 · 0 3

1. Cause they know their wives found out and they are practicing damage control
2. Figure if they come clean before the wife finds out/ confronts them she will feel obligated to stay with him. Possibly turning the tables onto their wives!

Pathetic any way you cut it!

2006-11-18 19:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by jls1znv9999 4 · 0 1

Because they know she's going to find out anyways and it makes them look better if they tell on themselves first. That way there is an opening for forgiveness and a chance to do it again. It's manipulative.

Other times, it's because they truly feel guilty but, I like my first reason better. That makes for a much more interesting man.

2006-11-18 19:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Honesty is the Best Policy

2006-11-18 19:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Bjain 1 · 0 0

Because... In the long run...Cheaters always get caught up with and exposed! Better they tell you than you find out yourself that way they have a better chance of keeping you around and continuing to cheat. Everything is more exciting when you have to be sneaky about it!

2006-11-18 19:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I would rather know about it and either leave or work with him to make things right and get past it. then to not know or maybe even find out sometime down the road by someone else.

2006-11-19 05:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by littlebit02 1 · 0 0

Because they are weak pathetic cowards and do not have the strength to carry the weight of their own crime / infidelity / guilty conscience so they dump it on their innocent partner so they will be free of its weight....This is almost worse than the affair itself, Pathetic & Disgusting...
"If you can't do the time, don't do the crime"

2006-11-18 19:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Because they are married to spineless jelly fish women that will say oh im glad you were honest lets forgive and forget and work things out.

2006-11-18 19:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0 1

I have no idea but i am a chick. Probally guilt. I am not sure what is better knowing or not knowing and having that suspicion?

2006-11-18 19:23:14 · answer #11 · answered by hunnysgirl4life 2 · 0 0

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