Can I sue the jerk who played games with my life and ruined it ???

Question

I dated a married man for 4 years, he ruined my life, continues to live his just fine. He wined and dinned me, bought me gifts and so on. I thought he really loved me, paid for me to divorce my husband (I have no family my husbands family was mine). He got me to leave them all behind. He always took care of me paid my bills, bought me what I needed. He promised me he was going to divorce his wife after his daughter was out of high school. Years later, lie after lie he never left his wife. He changed my life style from how I was to how he wanted me. After his daughter moved out he had no more lies, I wanted what he promised. One day I woke up and he disowned me. He has moved on to another women from CHURCH, still married to his wife (we live around each other) so I see him doing what he did for me with this other women. It is killing me. I have nothing and he still has everything! I have letters he wrote me telling me how he loves me and will always be there. How do I ruin his life ?

Answer 1

You won the contest of being the stupidest person on Earth.

1. You cheated on your husband (stupid)
2. Took gifts from a man that cheated with you (stupid)
3. Believed a cheater (stupid)
4. Are mad because you were dumped by a cheater so he could cheat with another women (stupid)

Quadraphonic stupidity if you ask me!

How do you ruin his life? You can't, he's a pro and you're a dummy!

Answer 2

i want to be frank I play games very frequently and consider myself pretty smart except spelling sometimes. Video games actually make you smarter not only do they improve eye hand coordination they improve your brains photographic 3dimensional thinking and memory. there was article in life magazine the gamers were aware of their environment compared to non gamers by as much as 50 percent this comes down to eye hand coordination and visual mapping in the brain. What I mean by aware is in certain circumstances like driving the gamers response was quicker because the brain has literally been trained. The military has known this for a while now that's why they use simulators for the armed forces. Video games improve memory eye hand coordination because most games require fast response and the ability to think your way out of trick situations and go to many places by memory in relation to the map just play gta San Andreas without the map I can remember the whole map in my mind. there are some math English learning games I guess they can make kids smarter in a traditional sense but what I have just explained is more complex and has just been recently researched.

Answer 3

I'd say sweetie dont waste your time on him, any more of your time anyways! He has hurt his wife with you , hurt you with another woman and will hurt her with the next one that tickels his fancy. Let him go. I hate that your going through this and I am kinda in the same situation and pray everyday it does not turn bad. He is still legally married and we have lived togeather for 2 years and he has been caught lieing and cheeting in the past and I just hope it will get better. Tell you what, you pray for me & I will pray for you! Us women are so blind sometimes, I sometimes think I should have already been gone( and I have left )but I always come back. I guess I am thinking it will get better one day or he will leave me when Ive been hurt enough, Who knows maybe one day I will leave for good??

Answer 4

Don't do it!!! You will really regret it.

First the wife will consider you a homewrecker, secondly the guy will make you out like a liar and even worse a stalker and the new girl will think it is just sour grapes and stand by his side. I have always heard what goes around comes around...

If you carry bitterness, it will eat you up inside. I suggest moving away and starting fresh somewhere else if you can.

Answer 5

First of all you were a willing participant in all this and allowed yourself these changes. No one forced you to do what you have done. You willing allowed these things to yourself.
Now because it hasn't gone the way you want, you wish revenge which is another negative in your life.
You should be feeling sorry for his spouse and the new woman instead of thinking of possibly destroying his, his spouse, and his new girlfriends choices in life. If you consider ruin for him, you will drag others into it that had nothing to do with your and his issues.

Answer 6

You'll ruin YOUR life if you stay this bitter and only focus on ruining his. I don't know the legal issues, but it seems you got into this knowing he was married. Not very admirable on your part. I'm sure his wife had some objections to that; in fact, if he left her, she'd probably have grounds for legal action against YOU.

Answer 7

Sorry to tell you this but you did it to yourself dating a married man thats a big no no anyways let him go and carry on with your life its time to find a single guy who will treat you with respect and isn't already attached to someone else that way you can marry and stop living a life of lies and sin. God Bless and Good Luck.

Answer 8

no, you cant sue him. you chose to leave your husband. i know youre hurting but you have to take responsibility for your part in this.
if you dont let it go it will turn you into a bitter ugly person. just move on, you are so much better without him

Answer 9

I am sorry that this happened to you. However, you cheated on your husband in hopes that you could be with this stupid jerk. Most people say, you got what you deserved.

Answer 10

Do your self a big favor, get your own life and stay out of this mans. Stop keeping track of who he's with and what he's doing.You are being a real sucker for punishment. This guy will get what's coming to him someday..........................