You move on first, and eventually you will forget. Divert your time and attention to other things- hobbies, friends, school/work, etc.
2006-11-18 06:40:24
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Its not that simple to forget a person with whom you have associated for a long.
Days and Nights would have rolled on and relationship thickned.
For some reason there is a junture in life where you have to start living without the person,keep in mind
Fill this gap first,try making new friends or go to a friend who can share your emotional sadness offcourse saying is easy but you cannot escape the longingness or absence of this person just prioritize your life see other things which are also important get ahead with those in the meanwhile things will subside provided you are engaged(actively involved) but is bound to take time.
Relax,do what you like most and meet others you have not long back, go to some distant place or if you like to help go assisting someone around your neighbourhood,maybe children,oldones or anything which you are capable ,chill out go to movies.
See life is how you take it ,sorrow to sorrow and adventure to adventure,choice is yours.
Offcourse there are sad moments like these but you cannot foresake your present ITS YOUR LIFE
Whatever we do we do for being Happy ,so even this issue has to be sorted out at the earliest lest it becomes Demon and savour you!!!
So, what r u doing World is big,go out meet new ones offcourse you can still love your lost contact person no trouble in it...
they are sweet memories to be cherished forever if you think so or otherwise just forget as a bad past bury it
Just be wise and be practical and Happy are you and you have moved in life
You have to start a second innings in your life ,all the best but sadly life is like that but you have the capacity to revert it
If your are spirtually inclined why dont you just see one of the best books of wisdom they cud be enough for you to remove this gloom as a last resort
All the best
2006-11-18 07:24:03
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answer #2
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answered by Anand M 1
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not that easy, but first remove all the memories of that person, pictures, items they gave u, ect...don't call them and don't talk to them anymore. sometimes it requires a move from the area u lived, especially if you will have to see them daily.start new with new friends not the same people u knew when u were with them. keep busy, read the bible, get some self help books that will help u with your self worth, because after a breakup, and breakup's are never happy it tends to do a number on our self esteem, we need to know that we weren't to blame at all, and we need to know there will be someone else for us. don't go to the same places u use to go with them, no sense in bringing back good or bad memories. after all we are trying to move on. there is safety in friends, know that it will be awhile before one gets past it, this person was someone we loved and we will think about them, no matter how hard we try not to. time and distance is most important and finding another to love and cherish will help u move on much faster. treat the past as the past and don't look back because u don't want your future to be your past.
2006-11-18 10:49:14
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answered by jude 7
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Is very hard. But sometime is good to do different activity, not the same that you always do with this person. A very popular phrase in Spanish said " UN clavo saca a otro clavo " One nail remove the old nail and is true. Find new friends new places I'm not telling you to start a new relationship, as you said move on, but the most important thing is all things and belongs from this person you have to take it away. That the only way. Because if you kept all the things that he gave you or she gave you, you will start remember over and over again. And you will torture yourself and never forget.
2006-11-18 06:48:39
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answered by FallenAngel 7
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Well if you loved the person it well take some time to get over them. and you well never forget them because they are apart of you and will always be in your heart. you have to first become OK with knowing you are not with that person and that you really want to move on . this way when you meet some one new it want be as hard to move on . but like i said the first step is to find out what you really want. You just have to take it slow and learn to be content with your self for a while it is not good to jump in to a new relationship after you get out of one
2006-11-18 07:02:22
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answered by Vonshawn Trevonik 1
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Keep all memories away that deal with that person. Focus on learning and growing each day even if its something small like trying a new type of food or a new route to work.
Focus on your own mental and emotional health. That is very important.
2006-11-18 06:44:17
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answered by Stareyes 5
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Praying helps me. Prayer is very powerful if you believe. Going to church and being around believers helps alot too. Even talking to a pastor and getting counselling would help. It is free by the way,
God is good to everyone that asks for His help.
John 3:16
16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
God Bless!
2006-11-18 19:23:13
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answered by Anonymous
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why this difficult question ? i'm exactly like you but the problem is you realy want to forget or not you have to be honest with your self in my case i don't want to forget ,what about you ? dear freind it's all comming from inside your self if you realy want to forget work work work and play sports and don't give your self time to think
2006-11-18 07:02:20
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answered by ahmedaboelzahab 1
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Nothing gets you over the last one like a next one that's better. Get back out there.
2006-11-18 07:31:38
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answered by Anonymous
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You'll never forget them, but in time you will be able to move on. Just keep your head up.
2006-11-18 06:41:42
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answered by Cory 1
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You need healing, and only God can heal your heart if you let Him. It's easy all you have to do is invite Jesus into your heart...I did and He leads the way.....may God bless ya
2006-11-18 06:51:53
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answered by Bert 4
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