and i have 3 sets of triples now my sisters each want me two have their children my husband said if i do this he will leave me so how can i help them plesae give me advice how to help them and keep my husband of 35 years thanks
2006-11-18 07:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by crystalssonjosphen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to think of your age and your marriage, but you have to decide this: Who is more important in your life, Your sisters or your husband. 35 years or not, you have to decide this on your own and do what only you think best, and live with the consequences.
I am a guy. but personally, if you don't have any concerns about being pregnant, your age, and the fact that down the road you'll have to tell the children... then I would do it as long as your sisters and their husbands (if they have husbands) agree to support emotionally and otherwise) you no matter what happens. remember to you will now have a permanent relationship with their husbands as well since you will be the biological mother of their children. Are you alright with that?
2006-11-18 08:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would your husband leave you for that??
I don't understand.
Maybe you should talk to your sisters and tell them that maybe they should try looking for someone else to carry their children. Because that's 18 months of being pregnant.... If you've been married for 35 years, I take it you may be "too old" to carry children. I don't know. I hope that didn't sound mean, because I didn't mean to make it sound like that!
2006-11-18 07:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sisters should not expect you to bare their children knowing that you are happily married and that you have children of your own that you have to raise. They should respect you and your family and not cause you any problems. If they want children of their own they can always adopt. It is not your responsibility to take care and solve their problems, it is your responsibility to take care of your husband & children. I am sorry to hear that they are unable to concieve but it is not your problem. They should not be selfish and cause you to lose your happy home because of it and you should not allow them to do this if you truly love and want to stay with your husband for another 35yrs.
And if this is a bunch of bull **** then you should just stop asking people for thier advice. Because feeding people a lot of crap will only make them ignore your questions. And one day you just might have a question that you honestly need advice on and no one will respond to it!
2006-11-18 09:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Undertaker will also be problematical for gold after he returns on July 11.and that i desire it will grow to be a Triple probability journey between the Undertaker,Jeff Hardy and Triple H on Summerslam.and that i favor to make sure both the Undertaker or Jeff Hardy grow to be WWE Champion at Summerslam.in a lengthy time period at Unforgiven,i'd be searching ahead to a feud between the Undertaker and Jeff Hardy for a similar WWE Championship.which could be a tremendous feud between 2 wrestlers who've by no potential wrestled one yet another of their total occupation.And Angelcantolina,Triple H doesn't cry for Championships and significant activities compared to part.
2016-11-29 06:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, Huston, we have a problem!! I have to agree with Bored at Work, but also how is it that you have been married to your husband for 35 years in this question and you are talking about your boyfriend in your other questions? Don't understand that, could it be that you are trying to play with people here?
2006-11-18 08:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When did you get married? How old are you? Married 35 years and still able to have children? I don't believe it's possible unless you married at 10 years old.
2006-11-18 07:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really feel for your sisters but maybe your husband is just thinkg of your health i could see how he ould feel about this why don,t your sisters go adopt a child or do they want the children to be like yours. well this is really hard to say but talk with them all and maybe you and your husband just tell them how he feels about this so good luck
2006-11-18 08:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your husband...
If he will not allow you to surrogate mother for your sisters then
that is the end of the issue unless you wish to divorce him...
2006-11-18 07:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look they can go to a sprem donor or sumthing now i dont see why he would get mad ... because all they jhave to do is plant the sperm into ur egg its not like u have to have sex with them i dont understand why he would be mad?
2006-11-18 07:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by alyssa<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋