please my parents are getting divorced so what should i do im really depressed
2006-11-18 03:27:24 · 10 answers · asked by caitlyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Realize that this is not your fault. THEY arent meant to be together and they cant work things out. Dont be sad sweets, everything will work out for the best.
2006-11-18 03:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to be depressed.First at all,it is not your fault.They decided to get divorce.You are so young to understand really why they are doing that.What you need to do is relax,calm down,be happy,smile please;and wait to see what happen.If they get divorce,for sure you will live with your father or your mother.Now, you can not do nothing about it,so,wait.God is with you every day in your life,angels from heaven are taking care about you.Focus in your school,have friends,live happy daily and focus in your future.I have many friends with the same situation.Their parents got divorce.But my friends are okay,because they realized that never was their fault.God bless you,please do not cry,please be happy,smile.It is not the end of the world.This happen to thousands of families every day.Move on,go forward in your life.God have a good future for you.Do not stuck in something that you can not solve.Talk with yahoo's friends,talk by phone with your friends,watch a good movie,go happy to school.Have a wonderful weekend.I will pray for you,that God protect you 24 hours every day.Good luck.
2006-11-18 03:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry that this is happening to you. Please know and always remember that it IS NOT your fault. They are making decisions that are affecting you and maybe they don't even realize it. Find somone you trust, a friend etc, and talk to them. It will help to share your feelings with someone who can walk this road with you, maybe someone who has gone through the same thing. Your life will be altered in mnay ways but you will always still have those good memories...hold on to them and treasure them.
Keep your hope and faith and know that you are a special person no matter what. :)
2006-11-18 04:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything you can do except be there for either of your parents & let them know you still love them both.My parents divorced & it was hard but they were much happier afterwards.They both sat down & explained that it was what they both wanted & i had to accept this,i knew there was nothing i could say or do to change their minds.
2006-11-18 03:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study, listen to music, go out with your friends, etc. The divorce is not your doing and you should not try to participate, Don't take sides. Tell them both you love them and want them to stay a part of your life. Don't try to figure it out.
2006-11-18 03:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom and dad did too just think of the positive things
1) 2 b-day parties (it will be like a competition that will be like a awesome time!
2) lets say that your SO mad at your mom you can go visit your dad to get away from that!
3) you'll be spoiled even more!
there is way more these are just the ones i enjoy the most!
remember don't think negative only positive!!
2006-11-18 03:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but their nothing much you can do . i hope they sit down with you at some point to discuss how your feeling about them breaking up. .
2006-11-18 03:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counselor.
2006-11-18 03:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault...so dont take it out on yourself...just know that...every think will be fein
2006-11-18 03:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah.Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE DON'T BE SO SAD , WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT .." WE LOVE YOU FRIEND " PLEASE EMAIL US ANYTIME YOU NEED TOO! GOD BLESS YOU!
2006-11-18 03:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋