Marriage & Divorce - 13 November 2006

can we get that trust back? even if it was just a simple flirt?

2006-11-13 08:56:53 · 20 answers · asked by jules 4

Even thought we been going out for 4months, we've known each other forever! i want to marry him but i think its too soon! what should i do. but the thing is that i've already excepted his hand! at this moment i'm wearing the engagment ring! my parents think it just a promise ring(which is kind of how i see it right now). WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?1

2006-11-13 08:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by Vanessa A 1

she had a baby for me out of wedlock, before the marriage proper she took in for another man and deliever a baby boy, the man throw her out and left the town for 6years now, she is back to stay with her 1st baby she said, what do i do

2006-11-13 08:48:10 · 7 answers · asked by OLAGO 1

When girls get married, why do they cut their hair short and gain 100 pounds?

2006-11-13 08:46:34 · 24 answers · asked by helena a 1

I have been seperated from my husband since may of this year. He has a new love and is already talking about getting married again. I still love him so how do I get over it?

2006-11-13 08:38:53 · 31 answers · asked by lysa t 1

We have only been married 6 months...I like pleasing him, but I don't find enough pleasure in sex to motivate me to have it. I have avoided too much contact like the plague for the past month for fear he would want sex. He is too reserved to ask for it and I am relieved that I don't have to go through the disappointment of dissatisfaction-is that a bad thing? Any ideas about what to do? A small part of me wants to go somewhere else, but I could never really do that to my hubby....

2006-11-13 08:38:53 · 32 answers · asked by Alison 3

my dad left my mom about a month ago..he jus left and got his own place. We all didn't kno til he walked out with is stuff. He left with this girl name Coco. My mom has been married to him for 15 years. She cries about it all the time. Everytime I see him I get so mad. I hate him. My dad is a officer. When he was on duty he was driving and hit a woman. He killed her instantly. He was on the news and ppl new he was my father. (you can imagine how tht went -_-) he said he had to got to nashville to clear his head. Turns out he jus went to be with this woman. My mom asked him about it and he jus said to leave him alone. He is STILL married to my mother. I am so disgusted of the way he's acting. And how he treats my mom...he didn't even pay his respects to the family he scarred! I hate him..I do....ppl say it's wrong..but I wanna kno. Can you blame me? Am I wrong for hating him?

2006-11-13 08:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by YumiJam 1

My daughter is 17 years old and lives in florida with my inlaws she wants to get emancipated! She feels I've abaned her but when I ask her to come up, even for a viset, she chooes to stay in Florida because I live in a city in Detroit MI shoud I let her get emancipated when she has no regard for spending any time with me. She feels to constricked by my inlaws she is a good girl by what I'm told. that's all I have to go on ,is what she says and my inlaws asked for this a long time ago,

2006-11-13 08:38:41 · 2 answers · asked by jetrose2000 1

i can't stop shoplifting. this is a bad habbit of mine. i already have my husbands christmas gifts. i got him a craftsman tool set , colonge set , briefcase , wallet and some other small items. he knows i went through this bad habbit once before but does not know i am still shoplifting. i am scared that if he finds out he will leave me , this time for good! i am so frightened that he will find out i stold his x-mas gifts.

2006-11-13 08:38:38 · 18 answers · asked by *lisa* 1

2006-11-13 08:36:45 · 5 answers · asked by viola 1

I have dated been insecure,

are most men in general insecure, insainly jealous

2006-11-13 08:13:29 · 26 answers · asked by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5

in all 14 years we have been divorced , the cow has never forwarded even 1 medical bill to me for reimbursement, and now that the end of the child support is within sight , she all of a sudden decides to bring up every med. bill that has accumulated since our divorce 14 years ago. The divorce states that she has 10 days in which to get the statements or proof of payment to me and I am then allowed 10 days to repay her, so what are her chances of getting reimbursement for bills from years past?

2006-11-13 08:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by fireandice 2

2006-11-13 08:10:38 · 11 answers · asked by Quiet V 1

I just recently found out that my wife who i've been with for 6 years slept with my younger brother while we were separated. What would you do?

2006-11-13 08:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by smc420 1

i recently found out my huby had affair with a lady that is 60 and he is 50, he knows i hated her and despised her for causing pain to my daughter. My daughter dated her son and he was very abusive to her.She also worked at his place of employment, co workers imformed me of the affair so two years later he confessed it was only one time thing but i hear other stories from co workers, this woman calls me tells things that only i know i have told my husband but he swears it over, But few months bfore than he got smacked it face from a another girls hubby for having sex with her,and once again he lied about it, 6 months later confessed, than 3months after that he was with this other woman again, should i kick him to curb we have been married 30 years 4 kids and grandchildren?

2006-11-13 07:51:03 · 28 answers · asked by wonderingwife 1

hai all,
i m here to take some suggestions.please suggest me some romantic getaways in cleveland where i can clebrate my husband's birthday.this is his first bday after our wedding and i want to do something really nice for him.so please put in your suggestions.i m new to cleveland and his bday falls in winter.suggest me some place where i can celebrate his bday.any info on niagara falls celebration...i mean anyone here has any idea on how to celebrate bdays at niagara falls.thanq

2006-11-13 07:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by blue 2

If so, Why are you keeping it??If not, did you sale it??

Im only asking cause my mother asked me why I was keeping mine instead of putting it on Ebay or something.

2006-11-13 07:46:02 · 29 answers · asked by **What??** 4

I have been with my husband for 7 years, only 2 of which we have been married. He's military, and so I am forced to spend a lot of time alone and trying to be "upbeat" for the kids so they won't be so sad that he is not here. Since this last "redeployment"(he got back from Iraq in Jan 2006,the ENTIRE foundation that I thought was so stable/strong has crumbled down to almost nothing. No soul-mate-connection. No sex. No mental support. No conversation. No friendship. In fact, there is not even emotional consideration-the kind that compels couples to think of each other when they are not together or even having a desire to do something special for the other person "just because." My husband just informed me that he will be spending Christmas with his other kids ,his ex-wife&her family. What about "this family?" How can he not WANT to spend it with us-esp. since we are the ones that have given up so much for him while in Iraq? Is this an indicator that it is time to walk away?

2006-11-13 07:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He will get mad and not talk to me for days. Infact he has not talked to me for up to 2 weeks at times. This really is effecting me mentally. What can I do??

2006-11-13 07:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by Robyn D 1

2006-11-13 07:35:27 · 10 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3

2006-11-13 07:31:26 · 28 answers · asked by lysa t 1

2006-11-13 07:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you get caught looking for old girlfriends on the internet.

2006-11-13 07:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by vablue 2

My wife and I wrote out our top 10 "fantasies" about each other.
Pretty much all of mine had to do with her being in our bed for a night with a black guy - her boyfriend before me was black. I know he would love to hook up with her again.
We agreed ahead of time we had to do at least ONE fantasy off each others list.
OK...she decided to put on her list - that she wanted to see me give oral sex to a guy. All her 10 fantasies - had some kind of contact between me and a guy.
We realized having a black guy here - could take care of both our dreams. She is willing to have sex with him - IF I was willing to give him oral sex with her at the same time..
My question....
If your wife or girlfriend - would be willing to fulfill your ultimate fantasy...how far would you go?
If i agree to suck the guy for a little bit - just to see them in bed together - would it be worth it?
I am near homo-phobic...but am almost ready to agree to do it.

2006-11-13 07:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by John M 1

2006-11-13 07:24:57 · 28 answers · asked by ~annie~ 2

2006-11-13 07:22:41 · 6 answers · asked by Frances P 1

Just wondering how common this was. Wife and I found some of her I had taken when we first married. She was 23 then now 32. She wants to throw them out, does not want anyone to find them if we both die or something???? Who has them and have they ever been found? FYI, I want to keep them.

2006-11-13 07:19:43 · 25 answers · asked by Brian 5

I have been married for over just a year and my husband and I just got back together about a month ago but he is up and left again.
My relationship right now is some what verbal abuse he drinks a lot. He says that I am to mean to him. He says that I get mad all the time. And he is not with me right now. I have no clue on what to do because I really love him we have three kids together but for some reason things are not going right. I am really clueless and confused I dont know what to do can someone give me some advice on what direction to take.

2006-11-13 07:11:00 · 35 answers · asked by sweetkandi_cakes 1

okay, I have a bad habit of going through my husband things, such as cell phone, pockets things of that nature. I never find anything. He calls me Dora the Explora. How can I stop doing this?

2006-11-13 07:07:46 · 39 answers · asked by its just me 3

I asked this question before but my friends and I talked about this over the weekend and now I feel kinda freaky....My husband and I have a very healthy sexual relationship....but whenever he is going to explode I prefer that he does it on my t*ts....I dont know why this is such a huge turn on for me but it is and I just like it....a couple of friends told me that this is wierd, I just want to know if there are other out there that are also into this....or are they right and I am some sort of freak?????

2006-11-13 07:06:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous