I just recently found out that my wife who i've been with for 6 years slept with my younger brother while we were separated. What would you do?
2006-11-13 08:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by smc420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like there are two people that you can no longer trust at all. Your ex wife and your slutty brother. All the people for them to have sex with and the come up with each other.
What to do? Go on Springer and get them some beads. That's a hot ***** mess. Leave her alone and be careful around your brother with future women.
2006-11-13 08:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do; first off, file for divorce. Make that separation permanent. Second, wait until your brother has a girlfriend, and if you can, get her to sleep with you, or if not, then just walk in on them some time (not necessarily when they are having sex or anything), just show up sometime where they are and tell her what he did. Maybe at Christmas or some family function. Maybe wait to file for divorce so your wife can be there for it too, then hand her divorce papers.
Sounds like the best idea to me. Pay back is a *****.
2006-11-13 16:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not much you can do if she just slept with someone while separated, but your younger brother...unforgivable on both parts. I can't tell you what to do, but if it were me, both of them would be cut off. She and I would NEVER be together again, and as for him, he wouldn't even exist to me for doing something like that. I wouldn't sleep with my friends ex, let alone my brother's. Some people in the world just have no conscience...Sad.
2006-11-13 16:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick your wife out as she has a problem that she doesn't
have morality she has been part of attraction she has attracted
your brother may be some other person next time,teach your
brother good lesson and give a big kick to her.
2006-11-13 16:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by chro144 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a double dose of stitches you need to serve up. Some lines should not be crossed. If is hard to find the perpertrator so both should shoulder whatever consequences I know you have planned. Family, ya got to love em.
2006-11-13 16:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that HO has to GO !!!!! Separated or not, it should have never been your brother that she slept with. And after kicking her *** out, go punch your brother in the face !!!
2006-11-13 16:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by gozedown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not really your brothers fault. She was probably trying to hurt you or teach you a lesson. He is probably feeling guilty and regrets it. Basically he was being used. Still when you get the chance to bang one of his girlfriends do not hesitate. Two wrongs do make a right sometimes.
2006-11-13 16:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by spils 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well , you were separated, and the past is the past. so if you all are trying to work things out then don't bring it up anymore. she can't change what happened and neither can you, but if you feel that it won't work out then leave it alone.
2006-11-13 16:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by hugabug72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was trying to get back at you. Is she a conniving person? If you want to work this out, you need LOADS of counseling with this person.
2006-11-13 16:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by wendy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably give my lil brother some sh!t over it. but in all seriousness, you were seperated, didnt you get a little during that time? She got a little too, wierd that it was your bro, but as long as it was then and is not now, let it go man.
2006-11-13 16:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋