Why are all the men?

Question

I have dated been insecure,

are most men in general insecure, insainly jealous

I know all men are different but it took til I was 30 to meet a well balanced guy.....Im saying have others found the majority of men insecure in there experience.....

I am sure of myself and know where I'm going, and will do it myself.......

Answer 1

No, but you tend to attract the same types over and over in your life, depending on your past family life amongst other things, so you may have noticed more jealous men than others would for some reason.

Answer 2

Back in the days women were more trustworthy than they are now. Since the 90's women have been more flirtatious with guys even when they're taken. Not all women stay faithful to their men nor more, I guess because men have been unfaithful for too long and women think it's our turn to do the same. But ofcoarse, I'm old fashion. I never cheat on my man, as long as we're happy together. If we're not happy, then we'll just break up and move on, right? So, I believe men are insecure more than ever because they don't trust women like they used to.

Answer 3

It seems like all men are insecure and insanely jealous because you are who you are.
Men...in general...are very intimidated by a confident, independent woman. So...everyone that you have dated have been jealous...because YOU are so secure in yourself.
Men who are with women with low self esteem and low confidence...tend not to be jealous...because they know they have control over them already.
Jealousy is not only a feeling you get when someone else gets something you don't...it is also a feeling that you have a lack of control.

Answer 4

Yes, i think all men are insecure to some degree. some more that women and some less. But you got to remember, guys are people too and they also have things they don't like about them. But they will get over it. And most guys are jealous. I know that for a fact. They either think that you're always gunna go find someone better than them or they think to highly of themselves and think theres no one better than them. Guys are just way too confusing.

Answer 5

Insecure generally equals immature.

Answer 6

No. I am actually glad when my girlfriend is out the house for a while so I can do what I want. Whenever I go out I also prefer to go out with friends. If she comes home late at night I am usually fast asleep.

Answer 7

not all men are insecure and jealous. keep in mind too, that there are men at the opposite end of the spectrum...men that don't seem to care where you are, who you are with, or take any interest at all in you... you could use one right in the middle...

Answer 8

You seem to be attracted to the same sort of guy. There are all sorts of men out there, as there are all sorts of women. Experiment a bit more, cast your net a bit wider and you'll see for yourself. Good luck.

Answer 9

Most of the men I have met are the exact opposite,extremely arrogant and high on themselves but you can't judge all men on the way some of them act:)

Answer 10

Most claim they r not, but loads of them are. Its hard for a man to see a woman getting her act together esp when hes brot up to believe hes d M-A-N. We women then bcome d object of their insecurity and they make us feel bad to give them a boost... pity

Answer 11

i think alot of men are jealous and insecure. Thats why they have more than one women