Marriage & Divorce - 13 November 2006

A question for guys: How much minimum you would have to be paid to make a fictitious marriage?

2006-11-13 05:40:14 · 14 answers · asked by Missy 1

My husband and I only got married a little over a month ago, and we haven’t had sex since the day after our wedding. It would seem pretty cut and dry but let me add to that, I am six months pregnant and he is pretty stressed b/c he recently lost his job and we are financially insecure. Before the wedding, sex had slowed down for us but has since come to a grinding halt. I have tried many tactics including calm conversation, coming on to him, acting uninterested, etc. He has a plethora of excuses: stressed out, unhappy with his own physical appearance, doesn’t want to hurt the baby… I have told him I would rather end things sooner than later if his feelings have changed but he insists it will get better soon and that he loves me more than anything. If I thought my physical appearance were the reason, I wouldn’t bother writing. Other than this huge problem he is very affectionate toward me and talks a lot about the future. Please help me I don’t want to cry myself to sleep another night.

2006-11-13 05:39:28 · 23 answers · asked by questiongurl 2

An old man goes to the Wizard to ask him if he can remove a curse he has been living with for the last 40 years.

The Wizard says, "Maybe, but you will have to tell me the exact words that were used to put the curse on you."

The old man says without hesitation - "I now pronounce you man and wife."

2006-11-13 05:39:00 · 7 answers · asked by G 1

I know either way you lose, but if you had to choose what would feel worse walking in on them or you partner walking in on you?

2006-11-13 05:37:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sure, it's before "G*d," but WHICH ONE?

2006-11-13 05:33:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have not done this, yet. But i want to. The reason, you might ask? He is VERY close to his mom. She thinks he can do no wrong, she is constantly telling me how lucky I am to have HIM. He is the light in his parents eyes. And in my own little hurt emotional mind right now, telling her what her 'perfect' son did to me would be my 'revenge' because I know it would kill him to know how dissapointed she would be in him. But the other problem is, we are working it out, and I'm afraid telling his mom would do more damage and make a bad situation worse. But, God, i want to tell her cuz I'm so tired of hearing, "Steve is so good to you, you are so lucky to have to him, be patient bla bla bla..."

2006-11-13 05:30:36 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

I Have a friend that i have been bestfriends with since i was 3 years old and the day before me and my husband got married she told him that she could not see me marry the person that she loves and wants to be with and then she started crying and walked away. Now she wants to try to be with friends with me again. I have not talked to her in 3 months since the say before we got married. What you think i should do

2006-11-13 05:22:49 · 22 answers · asked by Kayla P 2

My boyfriend has 3 kids he is going to start a new job this week and will work Mon-Sat but i really want to tell him that we can't hang with his kids every sunday otherwise we won't time for each other i really need advise because i don't know how to tell we live together and i like his kids they are very cute but i don't know how to put it in words. He sees them at least once a week. what should i do.

2006-11-13 05:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by Gina81 2

We have been married three months. My husband wants a divorce and that is final. He won't go to couseling he won't even talk to me to work on it. A friend from my old job called to say that he was sorry he didn't make it to the wedding and my husband got really upset that I talked to him. Now he is accusing me of cheating. I don't go out with friends and he doesn't take me with him when he goes hunting. Which is every night. I don't know how to get through to him. I don't want a divorce. I love him so much. What should I do?

2006-11-13 05:18:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sis wants to marry her boyfriend. He has a 2 yr.old son. If thye get married will the child support pmt go up? Also if the ex gets married will that make the child support pmt from the dad go down?

2006-11-13 05:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by same girl/new name :) 5

What all do I need to gather up to get married?

2006-11-13 05:12:46 · 8 answers · asked by gizmo0013 4

How do you feel about the terms "home maker" and "house wife". o you have any gripes about these different labels? Is their one you insist upon? Like "stay at home mom", Family manager" or "domestic engineer"? Moms who choose to stay home to raise their kids instead of working outside the home and dumping their kids in day care from 6-6 just dont get enough credit.

2006-11-13 04:56:49 · 23 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4

2006-11-13 04:52:48 · 15 answers · asked by momo 1

2006-11-13 04:50:05 · 23 answers · asked by bcuzimagirl 3

Last night he accused me of cheating because i just wanted to go to bed instead of having sex..well it turned into a huge fight. He said he was just joking and then said oh right your family never jokes so how would have you known. I have never cheated on him ..is it true though that the person who accuses is the one who really is? This is like i dunno the 100th time he has said something like this. I am just ready to give up on our marriage. It seems like nothing i do is right and he is always saying things that hurt. When i even suggest going our own ways he gets mad..says he wont go through another divorce he will just kill himself. I am just so confused. Any suggestions..btw I did meet with and attorney and I have the financal affidavt but I just cant find a way to finish it cuz i don't want to hurt him

2006-11-13 04:49:57 · 20 answers · asked by youngmomma2685 1

when my husband get home late from work i just can control my jealousy and i just start to fight and he tell me that he need to work to give us everything that we want but he work the 7 days and he does't have a day with his family i just can not take it anymore i'm to the point that i want to leave him but my friend tell me that is good that he work i just think that he might be messing around with other B*%ch i just don;t know what to do.

2006-11-13 04:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Happy with that decision? Or wish you could change it?

2006-11-13 04:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by just1more 3

2006-11-13 04:45:35 · 48 answers · asked by Breaking hearts since 1977 3

has your wife ever left you for a richer man but come back to you ? how long was she gone ?

2006-11-13 04:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi there, I'm young-ish (27) and newly married. One of my friends and one of my hubby's friends are having Christmas parties on the same night. What do we do? My friend's party is a place where I will feel more comfortable and have more fun, and the food and drink will be great. My hubby gets along with my friends but hasn't had too many opportunities to get together with his friends. His friend's party will be fun for him but I will probably be wishing I spent more time with my friends. That said I want us to be together. He seems like he'd be content with him going to his party and me going to mine. I haven't been able to get "in" with his crowd as much as he has mine for two reasons - he doesn't get together with them much and also sometimes doesn't invite me. So, yes, part of me doesn't want him having fun without me there. What do I do?

2006-11-13 04:44:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there anything legal i can do to getmy husband or my husbands exife to stay away from each other. I have exhausted all efforts. He is that type of person who think he can do whatever he likes. So guilt ridden at leaving her. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. This woman after what he's done to her still hanging on, thinking he will go back to her, but i know he wont. please i need some help here...thank you

2006-11-13 04:44:34 · 23 answers · asked by Lost 1

whats the longest time being broke up from a loved one before giving it a second go ?

2006-11-13 04:42:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

No she doesn't work no she doesn't clean no she doesn't take care of the kid (there are none). We have a maid and cook. She has to do nothing but breath for herself. So all you that said she does other things all day long for me well, untrue. She sits on her *** and does yahoo answers all morning then goes to lunch then comes home and tells me what a hard day she had doing nothing. so again I ask do you think she deserves half or should I do as someone suggested and turn off the air bag ?

2006-11-13 04:41:20 · 10 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

he doesn't know the value of money! i let him use my cell for 1 month b/c he lost his and he racked up my cell bill. he took my debit card out of my purse with out telling me! he never does the right things and it agravates me i feel like i should be his mom sometimes but i dont want to be. he says he dont tell me things b/c of what i am going to tell him. so he knows its wrong. he just dont know how to save ANY money if he knows he has it it is going to spend it. i am thinking his mom taught him well b/c she does the same to his dad and she has a money problem too! i never hide anything from him why would he hide things from me!Please help i dont know what to do i need to know b4 we buy a house together or srew up my life b/c of him

2006-11-13 04:38:35 · 12 answers · asked by Brit. 2

What do yall think? I mean they were never friends before their relationship and dated for three years. We are married have a daughter and live states away. Should he be allowed to talk to her on a regular basis. Am I being controlling? He says he resents me for asking him not to talk to her and that hurt.

2006-11-13 04:29:25 · 21 answers · asked by shanna h 1

how do i get my wife to share her fantasies? she claims to have non whatsoever, but she is very shy. I really want her to open up to me and tell me what she would really like to do or have done to her.

2006-11-13 04:27:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have information that this person is, I am afraid to ask and make them feel like I am pointing fingers at them. Or how am I supposed to deal with this? This is my spouse I am talking about.

2006-11-13 04:21:33 · 11 answers · asked by yes, it's me 2

I will not divorce her, I refuse to give her have of everything I've made Yes I made, The lazy whore has never worked a day in her life and tells me she'll get half and laughs about it. what should I do ?

2006-11-13 04:17:31 · 32 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

Why do so many of you think it is OK?
Fooling people and telling them it is a 'natural thing'. Why can't you just accept that it is for procreation purposes that God wanted us to have. Why can't you just get it through you're head that it is a SIN before marriage?
Why do you tell people it is natural leading them to commit a SIN that can forever ruin their life, and connection with God?
Why? If it was so 'natural' how comes I don't feel the need to do it until AFTER marriage? Why do I feel more connected with God than anyone else? Why can't you just love a person without having to get sexual, but just loving them as a PERSON? Seeing who they really are inside? Just being one ewith the person? But no, you want to bring sexual acts into it because it's 'natural' and 'beautiful between people who really love eachother' as you guys say.

2006-11-13 04:16:11 · 30 answers · asked by I'm a HBIC 1

and told me that she was having another man's baby and that I might want to move out because He's moving in. what should I do ? She did say I could stay but he was moving into the bed room and I would go to the couch

2006-11-13 04:12:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous