I know either way you lose, but if you had to choose what would feel worse walking in on them or you partner walking in on you?
2006-11-13 05:37:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Itd be worse to be caught because now IM the jerkoff and he's the poor guy. Although Itd hurt alot Id prefer to catch him. Id take him for everything. All $10 in his account!
2006-11-13 05:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, let me finish screaming my head off at the thought. Okay. I'm back. WELL!!! What a QUESTION, Miss! Answers should give you a medal. You've got us THINKING.
My answer is:
My partner (husband) catching ME. I'd HATE to hurt him that much. He's SUCH a good man. I just could never do that to him. The thought of him going through pain that I would cause and him being disappointed in me is almost unthinkable. NOW if he cheated then I CAN think of hurting him. With a sharp - a very sharp pointy object.
2006-11-13 13:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him walking in on me would be worse for me. I would not be able to survive the guilt or hurting him like that. I rather take the pain of finding him if I had to choose. I hope to God this will never happen!!!!
2006-11-13 13:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by trixinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well humans are always selfish....they never wanna get hurt....hurting the other person does hurt...but not as much as hrting yourself......
so i think me catching my partner in an affair would be the worst for me.
2006-11-13 13:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in both situations. Actually it was easier to be the one who got cheated on (presuming both people really love each other). It is harder to tell someone you care about that you hurt them than it is to hear it from someone else. And lots less guilt.
2006-11-13 13:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say ,Me walkin in on him,because if im doing it ,it was by choice,and if i catch him,that is something that was out of my control,kinda like i know it can happen but i made the decision to take that risk,and with him its like i didnt see that coming.....hope i explained myself aleast alittle............
2006-11-13 15:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by youngprincez23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
100% - CATCHING THEM IN AN AFFAIR WOULD HURT MORE. YOU WOULD BE THE ONE GETTING HURT IF U CAUGHT YOUR PARTNER HAVING AN AFFAIR.
IF YOUR PARTNER CATCHES U, HE WOULD BE THE ONE MORE HURT.
BOTH SUCK.
2006-11-13 13:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Randi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been on both ends and i think it hurt more catching him!
2006-11-13 14:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me walking in on them it would hurt but then that way i would know that i wasnt the one that ruined the relationship
2006-11-13 13:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ashly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Them walking in on me, becuz of the fact that i would never do that and i told my bf that and if he caught me doing something like that...i would be hurt, becuz i hurt them. I would never want to hurt my baby and if i did that, it would be devestating not only to him but to me also.
2006-11-13 13:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋