what can i do to understand my husband he work to dam much that he even have the time for me or his kid .?

Question

when my husband get home late from work i just can control my jealousy and i just start to fight and he tell me that he need to work to give us everything that we want but he work the 7 days and he does't have a day with his family i just can not take it anymore i'm to the point that i want to leave him but my friend tell me that is good that he work i just think that he might be messing around with other B*%ch i just don;t know what to do.

Answer 1

Get a grip!!! If he's working 7 days a week...he doesn't have TIME or ENERGY for an affair. If you want him home more...then YOU go out and get a job so he doesn't have to work 7 days a week

Answer 2

If you doubt your husband's devotion to you and your kids, and believe he's messing around and he isn't concerned with trying to show you how much he loves you and the kids, and his job is #1, then it's quite possible, he may be messing around. BUT it's also possible that he's not, but I feel he's got his priorities messed up. Family should be above your job at all times. Why have that type of job if you can't spend the time with the ones you are working to support and love?

Bottom line, have a personal, 1-to-1 talk with him, get to the root of his feelings and the problem. If he doesn't want to talk, then leave his a**. Maybe it'll wake him up. If he does talk, but you still feel like he's not being honest, then check your own actions, make sure you aren't being over jealous or overreacting. If you feel you aren't, then maybe you do need to get out. You should never be in a relationship where you should have to question someone's love for you. It's not a relationship at that point. All healthy relationships HAVE to have full communication and honesty, or it's pointless. The biggest mistake people make, is believing that someone would never possibly cheat on them or hurt them emotionally. You'd be surprised how much guys will cheat on a woman. If the know they can't get caught, they'll do it. Not all men, obviously, but when in doubt, it probably true. Sad to say. They did a study and shows that 70% of Marriages will deal with infidelity. That's a fact. Just be careful. Communication will give you the answer you need. Follow your heart, and you can't go wrong.

Answer 3

Hire a private eye detector to find out what your husband why he works so late and if he is cheating on you.

Answer 4

Tell him u dedicate this song to him-

Where'd u go- fort minor

Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.

She said "Some days I feel like ****,
Some days I wanna quit, and just be normal for a bit,"
I don't understand why you have to always be gone,
I get along but the trips always feel so long,
And, I find myself tryna stay by the phone,
'Cause your voice always helps me when I feel so alone,
But I feel like an idiot, workin' my day around the call,
But when I pick up I don't have much to say,
So, I want you to know it's a little ****** up,
That I'm stuck here waitin', at times debatin',
Tellin' you that I've had it with you and your career,
Me and the rest of the family here singing "Where'd you go?"

I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.
Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone,
Please come back home...

You know the place where you used to live,
Used to barbeque up burgers and ribs,
Used to have a little party every Hallowe'en with candy by the pile,
But now, you only stop by every once in a while,
****, I find myself just fillin' my time,
Anything to keep the thought of you from my mind,
I'm doin' fine, I plan to keep it that way,

You can call me if you find you have somethin' to say,
And I'll tell you, I want you to know it's a little ****** up,
That I'm stuck here waitin', at times debatin',
Tellin' you that I've had it with you and your career,
Me and the rest of the family here singing "Where'd you go?"

I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.
Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone,
Please come back home...

I want you to know it's a little ****** up,
That I'm stuck here waitin', no longer debatin',
Tired of sittin' and hatin' and makin' these excuses,
For while you're not around, and feeling so useless,
It seems one thing has been true all along,
You don't really know what you got 'til it's gone,
I guess I've had it with you and your career,
When you come back I won't be here and you'll can sing it...

Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone.
Where'd you go?
I miss you so,
Seems like it's been forever,
That you've been gone,
Please come back home...
Please come back home...
Please come back home...
Please come back home...
Please come back home...

Answer 5

You need professional therapy as soon as possible.

Answer 6

wow....maybe you should learn to read