I Have a friend that i have been bestfriends with since i was 3 years old and the day before me and my husband got married she told him that she could not see me marry the person that she loves and wants to be with and then she started crying and walked away. Now she wants to try to be with friends with me again. I have not talked to her in 3 months since the say before we got married. What you think i should do
2006-11-13 05:22:49 · 22 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to her and see what she want's, but don't let your gaurd down...and if i were you i would meet her somewhere i would not have her over at my home, though she maybe sorry for what she did and is asking for forgiveness....however if your willing to save your friendship with her, i would take things slowly just to see how things go...b/c you never know she might be miserable and trying to pull something....and then again she may not...however be the bigger person and talk to her and see what she wants...although she betrayed you.. she shouldnt be expecting to much to come out of this, because she's already lost your trust.
2006-11-13 05:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know deep down I realize that your heart is drawn to her. However I am afraid that being her Friend is one sided to say it best. How dare she pull that little stunt the day before your wedding. You do understand that if the outcome of that confession had went her way you would not be married to your husband. I wish that there was a way to patch this up up but to be honest g/f I just do not see it. If she truly is in love with your hubby there will be trouble. I f she was not in love with him but infatuated and now seen that she was wrong , she is a dangerous Friend to say the least.
2006-11-13 05:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt talk to her anymore... I think that you started a new chapter in your life and having negative people like her around you and your husband is only going to make your like hard and really why would you honestly do that? Yeah she might HAVE been your friend since 3 yrs. but i think a real friend would of talked to you before she would of talked to your husband. I know its not going to be easy but i think you should remove her from your life. Good luck!
2006-11-13 05:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by ZaNy_kiDd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friends but don't let her around your husband. If she had feelings for him before then they are probably still there. So just be careful. Don't leave her and your husband around each other and don't go out together b/c you will only add fuel to the fire if you know what I mean. Also did your husband have feelings for her? If so then tell her HELL NO!!!!!
2006-11-13 05:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooo thats no longer a thank you to do it! Im sixteen and im taking well being precise now. What you're able to do is consume smaller parts of foodstuff. of course consume the astounding issues and be sure you burn off the amont of energy youve eaten whilst exercie. in case you dont desire to consume that plenty then at leat make constructive its something nutritious like a gronolla bar or something, idk! be sure you consume BREAKFAST! in case you do no longer then which will decelerate your metabolism appreciably, which makes it much extra reliable to loose weight. i be attentive to this isnt the astounding element to declare yet once you're gonna starve your self, then a minimum of consume breakfast so as that as quickly as you do workout, your metabolism is up and it makes it easier to loose weight. consume some fruit or a cereal bar for breakfast and milk, in case you desire. eating water and milk won't paintings. you will the two finally end up gaining extra water weight or making your self very ill. and in case you "friends" dont desire to be your "friends" anymore becuase your "fats" then those at the instant are not friends.
2016-12-10 08:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by girardot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping the grudge is bad for you so forgive her and hear her out but that doesn't mean you have to let her back in your life ... in the end only you can decide what goes down.
2006-11-13 05:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by aNgelzNight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW what a beotch. I dont blame you at all for not talking to her. You dont need an enemy with a friend like her around
2006-11-13 05:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were present for this performance,or some other "friend" told you about it? If you like the woman and valued her friendship, I'd reestablish with her, unless you believe she has designs on your old man.
2006-11-13 05:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue not talking to her - she may still have feelings for your husband.
2006-11-13 05:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a Dr.Phil question...I'm confused...
it's sounds as if you best friend is in love with your husband...why i don't know.
if you decide to be friends with her again i would be careful cause u never know if she is plotting to get with your husband
2006-11-13 05:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋