My wife came home last night?

Question

and told me that she was having another man's baby and that I might want to move out because He's moving in. what should I do ? She did say I could stay but he was moving into the bed room and I would go to the couch

Answer 1

Lets see...your wife and sister have run off with the minister, you haven't paid your mortgage in 8 months, your wife's cousins stepbrother is coming to live with you....all from your previous questions.

Why do you need to tell lies to get people to notice you? Why if you are going to come on here an lie don't you get your story line straight and stick to it.

I doubt that you are old enough to be married, I know from your line of BS questions you are not mature enough.

So...why don't you grow up?

Answer 2

Yeah some purple flags right here. you have wrote 2 "odds," a "not often" (in capital letters) a "very imprecise" and the "previous boyfriend." properly it is stable to bathe after being out all evening. It washes off an astounding sort of issues. And it is stable to do before getting intimate. And beginning up super intercourse could propose she's feeling very attractive or feeling very responsible. Or the two. If i replaced into out all evening with my guy friends i does no longer hesitate to tell something that they have been doing (eating, carrying on ). yet whilst it in touch yet another woman, like an previous lady buddy, I constructive as hell would be imprecise and alter the project. You have been cool to no longer press it for now. only stay cool see what occurs. the subsequent time she is going out ask her what time you will assume her residing house which you complication approximately her. 8 years along with young infants is an astounding sort of time to be attentive to one yet another. For now do no longer over react. yet don't be blinded the two.

Answer 3

Whoa! Well now, ain't that a big ole slap in the face. Well.. my first reaction would be a huge piss off! But thinking about this rationally & calmly, & concidering I'm not in your shoes... I'd file for divorce with alimony & LOTS of it. She's made it pretty plain & clear what her actions & intentions are... so unless you want to live with them & their child, pack your stuff & move out & do what you gotta do, 'cause it's pretty much over for you & your wife. You can do a whole lot better than her anyways. ;)

Answer 4

From what I've understood from family law websites, you do NOT want to move out of that house, period. When it comes time for the divorce, she may get the house because you've "already abandoned it", and when it comes time to decide custody, she may get custody because she has a "stable home" for the child--the home that rightfully should be yours. Of course, she's the mother, she may get custody anyway, but you already want to start documenting all of her unstable behavior, and start talking to a lawyer.

I know it's miserable, and I don't know if I'd be able to be under the same roof as my husband and his lover without committing violence, but you really have to be careful when it comes to family law, and you're the guy.

Answer 5

1st off who pays the bills? If it's you then boot her butt out, change the locks, file for divorce. If it's both of you well start moving while you file that divorce. If it's her then get out now.

She's making you look like a fool. Don't let her. But then how could you have stayed around letting it come to this. You had to have known she was cheating.

Answer 6

Get a moving truck and storage bin!Clean house and let those two live there!They might have the bedroom but they wont get the bed!!!!

Legally she cant move this man into your home!Talk to a lawyer ASAP!

Answer 7

Put her stuff on the lawn and change the locks. Why should you leave your house to another man?
Take a day off from work to do this.

Answer 8

1) Go to the doctor and get checked out. She is having unprotected sex and you are at risk.

2) Count your blessings that she told you.

3) Get the hell out of there ASAP. No talking it over, no good byes. Just pick your stuff up and leave immediately. She is giving you an out, TAKE IT!!!!!

Answer 9

File for divorce, at least you don't have to pay child support. But you don't have to move, you probably co-own the home. And move another girl in with you too. And make a prenup quick, if you don't have one. Damn, that's a trip. That makes me mad for you!

Answer 10

I'd pack and leave unless the house in your name only, if so tell her when pigs fly. But if her name is on the house you can only fight with her and what will that accomplish, she has already destroyed your marriage. Move on thats the best I can say and Good Luck.