Marriage & Divorce - 13 November 2006

2006-11-13 10:18:58 · 14 answers · asked by alrwk_ 2

I love my husband with all of my heart. We have been married 8 months, and together for 3.3 years. However, there was a lot of drama at the beginning of our relationship, and due to the fact that his ex wife had a kid that wasn't his, when i got pregnant his parents requested a DNA test of my child. I got the test to show my husband how much I loved him (and to show i had nothing to hide), however as a result I feel some resentment against him and his parents. I feel like his parents judged me before they even really had a chance to get to know me, and i felt like he should have put his foot down, and told them we were not going to get the test.

other than this we have a great relationship. i am a stay at home mom, we have a wonderful home and two children. i just want to let go of these feelings that i have and get over it all.

the worst part is i told him i was over it all, and part of me is, but part of me isn't, HELP!

2006-11-13 10:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to irritate my girlfriend very much but lately i think she has had enough of it.I think she doesnot like me anymore altough she hasnt told me but she tries to avoid me atleast i think that way.But i dont want to loose her.But i like to irritate her too.Is there any way that i can keep her but still irritate her.Altough this is not a marriage or divorce case but it is stilll similar

2006-11-13 10:12:35 · 10 answers · asked by rhlbala4 1

2006-11-13 10:11:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im having a break from my partner after alot of stressful events. Ive just had major surgery 5 months ago and it was a tremendous strain for us both. We have decided to have time out from one another as we are both still stressed and its causing arguments. How long a time limit would you set for this break. There is no one else involved on either side.

2006-11-13 10:06:07 · 16 answers · asked by carolina 1

2006-11-13 10:04:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to move with my dad and divorce my mom because she is a total ***** she is always beating me and doesn't even care about me for example when I was 8 my sister tried to drown me and what dose my mom do nothing absloutley nothing and just last week this guy was following my friend to school & the same guy tried to run me over with a bike or something but my mom didn't care because it wasn't about her so my question to you is can I divorce her .
DON'T REPLY WITH A LECTUR!!

2006-11-13 10:00:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 09:57:06 · 14 answers · asked by bronte89eyre 1

I am 20 and dont feel ready to have a baby yet but my 24 year old husband wants too have one now!I do not graduate college till next year and feel its a bad idea. I also might want to go for my masters i think by the time i am 23 or 24 i will be ready for my first child just not now.He has been really persistant hounding me for sex 24/7 no joke. I am afraid to fall asleep at night because i am afraid he will try something or try and start something.I also seem to be loosing my sex drive. Please help i have tried to explain this to him has not worked yet!?

2006-11-13 09:52:50 · 16 answers · asked by Carla M 1

have you ever wanted to cheat on your hubby or wife ?
if yes why?
if no why?

2006-11-13 09:50:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

been divorced for 3yrs have 6yr old child.me and my ex get along with each other for the sake of our child.he was very mentally abusive to me thruout our marrage.since our divorce i allways get little gifts time to time from our child to give to his father. like on fathers day,x-mas,b-day.nothing expensive just something for my child to give to his father.my new husband thinks my son should just make his dad something and i should stay out of it.part of this is my ex does not get along with my new husband.my ex is a great dad just lousey husband.so divorced parents what do your kids do for your ex when thier young?

2006-11-13 09:47:20 · 8 answers · asked by chrissyturmer 1

I was very stressed with personnal problems when i was with my ex girlfriend and it affected my sex drive. It caused so many problems as she has a very high sex drive, we eventually split up. How can I get my sex drive back?

2006-11-13 09:41:51 · 16 answers · asked by nine_ball_tattoo 1

Yeah because well i always wanted 2 know please help me to understand woman?

well i think no man can really understand women!

2006-11-13 09:41:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf has a kid with someone who he hasn't had contact for 7 years and has never seen this kid, he's suppose to be paying child support but hasn't been doing so. He said they can't put him in jail, when he went to court i guess he quoted a case which helped him not go to jail for not paying, so what can they do? he says he owes like 25k now. Can child support take $ some other way. i dont really know much about child support and don't know if my bf is telling me the whole truth. i'm sure he's not sendign the payments. any info on this subject will help. thanks

2006-11-13 09:39:11 · 31 answers · asked by sexy-cecy 3

She made my life a living hell. She says she has changed but I doubt it. How am going to date with my ex-wife living with me?

2006-11-13 09:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 09:31:17 · 19 answers · asked by sunset66guk 1

If you know anything about this then you understand my problem. She acts fine until a stressful situation comes to her. Then she basically acts like a 12 year old girl and expects to get everything her way. She loses all sense of other peoples feelings and turns as cold as ice. Never admits that she is ever wrong and blames everyone else for all of her problems. They say it just gets worse with age.

2006-11-13 09:29:54 · 17 answers · asked by RedC. 2

If we had not partner no family can we be happy??? If so let us know

2006-11-13 09:29:53 · 11 answers · asked by jules 4

Why is it that men like to pick up their women. Especially the ones that maybe a little heavy. Is it an ego thing. Have any of you actually under estimated your ability and actually hurt yourself?

2006-11-13 09:28:45 · 7 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3

We have known each other for 23 years, He was my first and I was his. I have told him i only want to be friends, he is in Iraq, right now. I think right now he is lonely and wants me because that. when he gets back from Iraq, he want to see me. I said i would but i will not sleep with him. It would be shame that we could not be friends.

2006-11-13 09:19:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 09:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by bugnuts 1

Well let's just say it's suddenly sky rocketed....do you think he is this way cuz he's having an affair?

2006-11-13 09:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by mebbe_sew_mebbe_knot 1

2006-11-13 09:15:37 · 7 answers · asked by Brittney 1

We used to be so close, like friends,ya' know.I'm afraid I'm loosing my mind,and she needs to cut me loose.But she is torn because of our history.How ,in a 16 yr./friendly/marriage way,do I tell I git/get it.sHE NEEDS TO BE FREE OF MY /ME.Without making her feel bad or responsible to get what she needs to bring sanity to HER life?She's worried how this 42 yr. only child will survive.She should be free because I've been drunk since she meet me.12 days ago I left detox.She's had children since she was 18.Then ..ME.......How I telln "Her i't's time to be You????

2006-11-13 09:12:44 · 15 answers · asked by woodstockghandii 1

me n my husband have been married for about one year now and it seems like he is always putting his mother and her feelings likes and dislikes before mine. i cook dinner and he says lets call my mom and see if that is how she does it. i tell why do u do that if u werent ready for marriage why did u ask me. then he gets very mad and leaves or doesnt speak to me for hours. what should i do

2006-11-13 09:08:47 · 16 answers · asked by mz_gigglez_93630 2

Do woman perfer to take it in your mouth or something different, when you are down on your man.

Do you liked to be warned before he is about to release while you are down on him or do you like him to do something different to you? What are some options for him to do with it?

2006-11-13 09:07:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently left deadbeat hubby. Need a friend ---kids are my only company. I don't feel sorry for myself, very confident and full of life!!

2006-11-13 09:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by garayfive 2

In this day and age why is race hating more prevalent than before? Would you allow yourself or your child to date or marry someone from another race? Please give good feedback as to why you would or wouldn't.

Thank you.

2006-11-13 09:02:13 · 45 answers · asked by Black I 2

Should i really get of my head to forget? and wake up with a huge hangover in the morning then deal with it then?? sounds good to me!

2006-11-13 08:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by jules 4

I am filing from my husband. We have an 11 year old and a 5 year old. He is never home. He is always hunting and fishing... I mean he is gone every morning before we wake up and he doesn't get back home until we are in bed. We hardly ever get to see him. On occassions, and I do mean occassions when he is home all he does is complain or fuss and hollar at the kids. (From the bedroom) because when he is home he stays in the bed asleep or in the bedroom watching T.V. We have been together for 6 years (he adopted my son). In 6 years we have probably been all in the car together maybe 4 times. He never does anything with us. And he doesn't understand why I want a divorce... Am I wrong for wanting a divorce?

2006-11-13 08:59:12 · 21 answers · asked by jeter2 2