We have known each other for 23 years, He was my first and I was his. I have told him i only want to be friends, he is in Iraq, right now. I think right now he is lonely and wants me because that. when he gets back from Iraq, he want to see me. I said i would but i will not sleep with him. It would be shame that we could not be friends.
2006-11-13 09:19:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do not belive in frendships after knowing the person underneah his or her clothes. there is no friendship possible if there is attraction from one side.friendships between a man and a woman are extra rare. do not have sex with the guy because you feel bad about him being in Iraq. after surviving such hard life experiance he will be changed and use all his charm to get you where he wants. find out if he still has feelings for you. if he is the only one he has to accept your decision just to be friends. i have met an american solider from North Carolina who had also been to Iraq. i do not know a lot of man who have charm like his. he said talking to me is like being in heaven.
2006-11-13 09:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by pikapoka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats occurred to a guy buddy and myself. The timing wasn't good, we've been the two busy with our own lives, we could not dedicate to anothers, so we desperate buddies could be appropriate. Platonic relationships can artwork, you only would desire to verify them from the beginning up which we did. perhaps sooner or later we are going to celebration, i won't be able to see it occurring each time quickly nevertheless.
2016-10-22 00:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by hosford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were each others first, you should drop the pretense of having to be just friends and get married.
2006-11-13 10:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by mecasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just friends is possible, however, he will have to battle it out between the physical and spiritual, as they are at war within him now. You will know the outcome of his inner battle.
2006-11-13 09:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. let the poor guy go. he needs to recover and be able to move on. and he won't be able to do that because being around you will only give him false hope of something happening. give him a chance to be with someone who loves him.
2006-11-13 09:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be friends, if it is what you both want. If one of you want more, that will create a problem. Don't be alone with him, that could stop a potential problem.
2006-11-13 09:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by mistkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is very possible, i have a few friends that are guys that i know want to sleep with me
2006-11-13 09:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been told that to ruin a beautiful friendship, sleep with each other.....
2006-11-13 09:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it never works out. There it too much sexual tension, and if not released, it leads to animosity and anger, and the end of the relationship...
2006-11-13 09:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by whidd2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you can not be friends for long.you will be inclined to have sex once you see each other and are not open about talking on how important it is to you not to have sex
2006-11-13 09:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by sherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋