I was very stressed with personnal problems when i was with my ex girlfriend and it affected my sex drive. It caused so many problems as she has a very high sex drive, we eventually split up. How can I get my sex drive back?
2006-11-13 09:41:51 · 16 answers · asked by nine_ball_tattoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This may sound weird, but I can always get myself going again within one or two days..
My method: Just don't think about sex at all, don't stress about sex, don't consider how nice it would be to have sex, don't masturbate, essentially don't allow sex to be an active part of your consciousness.
In a day or two you will be feeling randy as all get out, possibly due to subconscious urges coming to the fore
2006-11-13 09:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual desire is a natural occurring phenomenon. It's something that your body will experience on its own when it is ready.
If you had a girlfriend who left you because you didn't want sex, that girl has some unresolved problems. Don't blame yourself for those.
I'd suggest seeing a doctor to make sure there are no physical problems creating a lack of desire. If not, then focus on clearing up your personal problems, and your desire will return on its own schedule.
2006-11-13 09:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse's dropped off after each and every child, for approximately 12-18 months, however picked up progressively and he or she is now a lot more energetic (children nine and eight) than earlier than. She began exercise (going for walks) yr after our moment, which would have helped. She's more healthy than earlier than (regardless that now not aggressive/athletic). The lull after each and every child is infamous and blamed for plenty of marital issues (in conjunction with sleepless nights, no time by myself, and so on.). Just ensure you don't forget to do matters for yourselves, spend time, pass out, damage each and every different, items, and so on. Keeping up with those romantic matters will ensure that once your frame is in a position, you continue to love each and every different and wish to get it on. You would have got to do your pleasant to muster a few enthusiasm meanwhile.
2016-09-01 11:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
htis is easier said than done ,but you must reduce the stress in your life,once the stress is under control, the sex drive will come back...you may want to ask your doctor for an anti-anxiety med to help reduce the stress...they really do work...I've been in your situation and they helped me.
2006-11-13 09:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing whic is very importnat in the sex life is your mental concetration, if you loose out your mental concentration you will lose the battle and it will eventally end with frastration and negative feeling, dont loose heart every thing will be alright.
2006-11-13 09:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by amit k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Topless bar, 10 drinks, 20 lapdances.
2006-11-13 09:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-13 09:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by slim4evr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yank that sucker out of park, right pass neutral and shift it into gear.
Then have the penis tell the balls to get ready, were going to a party! freaken liar says his balls. You always go inside and leave us outside knocking.
2006-11-13 09:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey we all have that problem sometimes you just need to meet the right person trust me you will find it again
2006-11-13 09:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by *sun*flower* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the greatest healer of all. its not the answer most ppl want to hear or adhere to but it is no less true. it usually takes a yr to get someone completely out of your system. give yourself that time to get over her and take care of yourself.
2006-11-13 09:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by PhantomWiseman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋