2006-11-13 09:57:06 · 14 answers · asked by bronte89eyre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
-responsible
-good w/ kids/wants kids
-good job, car
-reliable
-romantic
-not abusive to you or kids, not a heavy drinker/partier/etc.
-loves you
2006-11-13 09:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by anabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The modern perfect husband is not the same for everyone. The priority list of what strongly describes perfect can only be measured with each woman's expectations of what makes them happy in a relationship. It could be the physical aspect, the emotional aspect, the material aspect or a combo of all three or others, But none of the women will have an exact weight or percentage for each priority.
My wife considers me perfect in most areas. I inturn find myself striving to become a better husband and father. I guess perfection is in the eye of those that surround you.
2006-11-13 10:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it's commonly hard to find or give a definition to the modern perfect husband that everybody will agree with. Each definition remains relative. A perfect husband isn't perfect with all women. We shouldn't neglect how is his wife and how does she perceive life and marriage life especially. I also noticed that you associated the perfect husband with "modern"; so, what is "modern" in your eyes. People play a lot on terms to give different meanings and interpretations according to what they want, or justify what they want to do as part of modern life. Thus, allow me to ask: is everything modern good? Likewise, is everything traditional or classical bad. However, I will handle your question as asked from my point of view .
To me, a perfect modern is the one that thinks about marriage before it comes. He has to value marriage life and be sure of it before even meeting his wife to be. Then, he should have the right criteria upon which he will choose a certain woman to be his wife. He should look at her as his life partner. Once together, true love is the solid source that paves the way to a happy marriage life. A perfect "modern" husband is a man that is ready to do evetything possible to provide his wife a great life. He should also be ready to say sorry, when mistaken, forgive when mistreated, and after all put his wife between his eyes. To take care of her as a very precious piece of diamond that exists nowhere else forever. He should look at his wife as the prettiest, best and on top of all women. When you love someone, the sky is the limit. He is only perfect if his wife is the first person to say so. A perfect husband feels his wife's pain and knows her mood from her "hello" on the phone. He misses the first minute after leaving somewhere. He is her nurse when sick, her bodyguard when in trouble, her teacher when in need of quality help, her everyone and everything. He thanks God day and night to gift her to him. he is never unjust, never cheats whatsoever. Lastly, a perfect husband is the one that makes his wife feel very proud of him as she is a queen in their house that he turned into a palace where he is her servant before being the king. He is sometimes her brother, other times a father, always her boyfriend and husband forever. He is the one that proudly says " My wife is my life".
2006-11-13 11:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by peace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect husband is a very best friend. Willing to compromise with me, share laughter AND tears, and be able to know the difference when I say "Just leave me alone" and I really want him to scoop me up and hold me tight, and when I say "Just leave me alone" and I really need him to give me a little space!
The perfect husband isn't going to try and change me but grow with me so that I can be the perfect wife, too! Talking and learning and growing with each other will help us stay perfect for each other until we're old and gray and rocking in chairs on our front porch!!
2006-11-13 10:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way I would define a perfect friend.
2006-11-13 10:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the most important part is deciding what you are looking for. The "perfect" guy is for you is out there, you just have to know what you want....AND DO NOT settle for anything less. Really though, each woman has differnt needs, what do you need from a guy, sensitivity, humor, money, shared responsibility, etc.
2006-11-13 10:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their perfect husband,,
Mine is hot in bed
hes faithful and never ever bores me.
He cooks me great meals and pampers me with anything i want.
He has to please me in all aspects......mmm!
He is a greatest cook in the world. and takes me everywhere he goes unless i dont want to go of coarse. We never ever argue but are inlove all our lives................ Now thats impossible.
Why i say that is cause lol there is no such thing as a perfect husband where as everyone has their flaws.
There is .......... problems out there all over and it is up to the couple to have a perfect relationship..... but perfect can be boring. so thats why we are all different! LOVE LIFE.
2006-11-13 10:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Damzel in distrust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
family oriented
enthusiastic about spending life together
has morals
has goals
likes to cook and clean
likes to be apart of his children's lives
likes to smother his wife with hugs and kisses everyday
likes to be held and cuddled at night
likes to offer as much help when needed
likes to eat out every once in awhile
knows when to stand up for his wife and when to let her fight her own battle
protects her in anyway
trusts her whole heartedly
can make decisions with wife
can apologize when wrong
can stand up for himself
can stand up for his love
can be manly and mushy at the same time
likes to shop at target and home depot all the time
is faithful and honest.
can cry infront of his wife
can ask for help when needed
can scub the toilet when needed
can relax on the couch and drink a few beers and watch sports
can enjoy watching "what not to wear"
likes driving you to work
likes different genres of music
appreciates the kindness of all people
dislikes fake people and abusive parents
has a fondness of very good food and cheeses
takes you out for a picnic on the beach
call you to say hi when youre working
makes you laugh when youre not in the best mood
loves you for who you are and will be
respects you
2006-11-13 10:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seek a perfect husband STOP looking there is none.
2006-11-13 10:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, their is no such thing as the perfect man much less prefect husband. LOL
2006-11-13 09:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by kennerkitty812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular the Ramayana ethical valid right this moment,the following day & the day earlier right this moment...any doubt Their are some Rama whom purely authentic sita can comprehend so if we human beings no longer waiting to work out any Rama or sita in our existence then it no longer capability that their are actually not any suited husband for suited spouse
2016-12-17 09:33:15 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋